2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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Actually...I ended up just buying the Fendi: I'm a sucker for a camel/British tan bag, and also for a bright and happy lining. So this bag just seemed to speak to me. I knew the 2jours was the next premier designer bag I wanted. So I'm glad that I'll have it within a week and not need to wait two months, and that I can move on to the next second hand purchase in my sights. Next on my radar is a medium gucci marmont. But I really like the look of the polene numero Sept! And the Astra satchel do-over, of course. I don't feel so bad about not getting a Verona bag this month because I have a chocolate midi selene coming to me right now, second hand but in excellent condition. And I prefer the chocolate in that leather.
 

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We have scaled back Christmas too. My family will probably do mini/multi visits rather than one whole family get together, though even with everyone we are still only at 9. The most important people will be at my house...my DH and my son, who comes home on leave from the Navy on Friday. He will be here for two weeks. I get to see him twice a year so I am really excited! My DH and I are not very social people...we live a quiet, private life. So living with Covid restrictions has not affected us nearly as much as others. And my staying home lets me feel more comfortable visiting my mom weekly. She needs it...she is recovering from a brain tumor/cancer. Her life has been turned upside this year and the changes to her health (mental and physical) have been difficult for her.
 
My heart goes out to all of you! :hugs:
I've not seen my siblings in 2 years and was meant to visit in 2020. Now we're all in lockdown in different places and I worry that they'll catch covid as they're each in a hot spot. I have to remind myself that I am fortunate my mum moved to be with me, or else I think I would have lost my mind from worry.
I think we're all a bit depressed, and that's only reasonable. This will be a unique holiday season, certainly; one where we have to adapt and find creative ways to keep spirits high.
Fingers crossed these covid numbers start coming down (breaking my heart honestly) and hopefully we get real life again soon-ish.
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She needs it...she is recovering from a brain tumor/cancer. Her life has been turned upside this year and the changes to her health (mental and physical) have been difficult for her.
Oh wow. I cannot imagine that experience as a standalone problem, let alone amidst the pandemic. So glad she has you nearby for weekly visits. I'm certain that helps her in a million ways. :heart:
 
I’m torn. I am thinking of a soft Astra satchel with no top handle and chain leather hobo strap....or a tan with orange interior fendi 2jours on eBay... Hmmmm..... I don't think I can do both this month and neither will likely to be available next month. The mud Verona leather will be gone after the end of the month..... and also this particular fendi is 20-30 percent cheaper than other 2jours (in my eBay stalking) that I see on the second hand market that I like as much and thus I predict that it will not last long either at this price level. Hmmmm..... I really would like both! But that just ends up being too much money. Plus I think Massaccesi will have a 20% sale by year's end and right now the promotion is only 10% off. I HATE buying something and then before it EVEN SHIPS becomes cheaper with a sale or a bigger sale and I Feel major discount FOMO. But then again there are a million 2jours out there and I can always find one in the future I like as much, even if it's a couple hundred dollars more.
Stick to the one you will love the most and will wear.
 
We have scaled back Christmas too. My family will probably do mini/multi visits rather than one whole family get together, though even with everyone we are still only at 9. The most important people will be at my house...my DH and my son, who comes home on leave from the Navy on Friday. He will be here for two weeks. I get to see him twice a year so I am really excited! My DH and I are not very social people...we live a quiet, private life. So living with Covid restrictions has not affected us nearly as much as others. And my staying home lets me feel more comfortable visiting my mom weekly. She needs it...she is recovering from a brain tumor/cancer. Her life has been turned upside this year and the changes to her health (mental and physical) have been difficult for her.
I am sorry she had to go through this. You are a wonderful daughter. I wish you Mom a speedy recovery.
 
My heart goes out to all of you! :hugs:
I've not seen my siblings in 2 years and was meant to visit in 2020. Now we're all in lockdown in different places and I worry that they'll catch covid as they're each in a hot spot. I have to remind myself that I am fortunate my mum moved to be with me, or else I think I would have lost my mind from worry.
I think we're all a bit depressed, and that's only reasonable. This will be a unique holiday season, certainly; one where we have to adapt and find creative ways to keep spirits high.
Fingers crossed these covid numbers start coming down (breaking my heart honestly) and hopefully we get real life again soon-ish.
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Oh wow. I cannot imagine that experience as a standalone problem, let alone amidst the pandemic. So glad she has you nearby for weekly visits. I'm certain that helps her in a million ways. :heart:
It is crazy how something like that just becomes your “new normal.” I have my moments...for a while I could not even think the words “brain cancer”, let alone say them, without my eyes starting to tear up. Her recovery had been a roller coaster. I spent a long time waiting for the woman I have known my whole life to come back, but realized over the last few weeks that is not going to happen. So I am focusing on loving her who and where she is. The tumor was on her cerebral cortex, which affects speech/communication/language along with some memory and mental coordination. She jumbles things a lot...words, people, ideas, places. She cannot do some simple things like arithmetic and figuring out how to use a credit card machine. I had to help her spell my name the other week...Laura. She can no longer drive and gave up her license. She is sometimes unsteady on her feet. This was a woman who was always sharp, had a memory like a steel trap and extremely active. If it weren’t for my stepfather, who retired early this year (he is 9 years younger than her), she honestly could not live on her own. This is not a place I ever imagined being in. But it is our life, our new normal. All this since March, 2-3 weeks before what was supposed to have been my wedding on April 4. No wedding, no honeymoon, but we did get married, just the 2 of us and the officiant at home. To be honest, every area of my life except my mother is going really well right now and I am happy, which helps me deal with my emotions regarding my mom. The only area in my life that truly sucks is something out of my hands that I cannot do anything about or change, so I don’t dwell on it because to do that just makes me, and everyone around me, hurt. I do what I can...I visit (luckily only live an hour from her) every week and I call 2-3 times a week beyond that, even if for just a few minutes to say hi and I love you. I keep it together around her and have patience with her, even when she does not have patience with herself. It’s just what you do....it’s life. I thank God every day for all the wonderful things in my life, I have so many. I know He is looking out for me and my family because He has cleared the path in so many ways so that I have only as much as I can handle and He brought the best partner I could ask for into my life and I married him. My mother has brain cancer and is on IV chemo twice a month for life, but I am happy. So everything really is ok.
 
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I love you for posting all of that! It takes so much strength to talk about these experiences so earnestly. I won't lie, it made me cry. I've been an emotional wreck this entire year anyhow, but this time it is not sadness that is making me shed a tear, but an overwhelm of sadness mixed with the deep love and gratitude I feel emanating from your words.
I cannot thank you enough for this reminder to love our people, in whichever way we can, and in whatever version of themselves they are in.
I hope I'm making some sense because I'm quite overcome.
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I have my moments...for a while I could not even think the words “brain cancer”, let alone say them, without my eyes starting to tear up.
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I spent a long time waiting for the woman I have known my whole life to come back, but realized over the last few weeks that is not going to happen.
Someone very close to me had Alzheimer's and I had that same learning curve. It was hard to understand that the person I once knew was gone, and to learn to adapt to this new version of them. When I accepted it, it was easy to love them exactly as I always did, but it took a while to come to terms with reality.
So I am focusing on loving her who and where she is.
Beautifully said. And what a wonderful attitude to have! I'm sure she appreciates this deeply.
To be honest, every area of my life except my mother is going really well right now and I am happy, which helps me deal with my emotions regarding my mom. The only area in my life that truly sucks is something out of my hands that I cannot do anything about or change, so I don’t dwell on it because to do that just makes me, and everyone around me, hurt. I do what I can
You're so strong and gracious. It takes real character to find the good to focus on during a crisis, and to adapt gracefully and without bitterness to the things we cannot control. I admire you!
the woman I knew is gone, but she is my mom and she loves me and I love her.
Gah! Crying so much at this. You are so lucky to have each other. Truly.
but we did get married, just the 2 of us and the officiant at home.
Congratulations! I'm so happy you've found someone who is a great support and brings joy into your life.

Thanks so much for your post. It really hit deep. :hugs::heart::heart::heart:
 
That's amazing! I bought a very pretty vintage metallic bag - so cute and has a clear divider and a kiss lock clasp - and my phone doesn't fit in it... :crybaby:
I know. My pretty little metallic bag doesn't hold my phone either. And I didn't even realize it until Mr. PG & I were all dressed up and ready to go to a fancy gala. Eek! My phone won't fit! And this is the only bag I own that matches my shoes! :panic:
 
What an absolute beauty, a work of art. And of course, clutches were never more popular than in the '30s/'40s. That lucite looks magical.

In that case I may have one of your uncles bags too! If I remember correctly, my cordé is milk chocolate brown and more boxy but totally adorable. If I come across it I'll post a pic.
Would love to see one in chocolate brown. From the little I've read, they were mostly made in black. So brown ones are rare! I came upon a bronze one for sale a year or two ago, and was very tempted. I held firm, though!
 
I love when you share pics of this clutch @ElainePG, the handle is divine and the fabric has gorgeous texture. I especially love the family significance. :love:
Thank you. I agree, it's the family link that makes it special to me. If not for my Mom telling me the story of Uncle Joe (until she did, my only memory of Uncle Joe was "that quiet old guy who was married to Aunt Jenny") I never would have gone on a hunt! :lol:
 
December Challenge: Carry five different bags
Bag 4:
Hermes Etain Evergrain Massai Cut 40
Activity: grocery shopping and school run
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Bag 5: Chanel Red Quilted Lambskin Wallet on Chain
Activity: school run and grocery shopping
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These bags would also qualify for the thread sharing my largest and smallest bags in my collection. :lol::lol::lol:
The Daddy bear and the Baby bear! I love how you've posed "baby bear" with pen & scarf. And the leather on your H bag looks sooo smooshy! Yum!
 
I've managed 4 bags in December and it's not over yet. I'm proud of myself because since March it's been 95% H Evie or nothing.

H Double Sens maxi (Etain/Black)
H Evie 29 (black ghw)
H Bolide (Rouge H ghw)
Gucci 1955 (Baiadera multi)

I really enjoyed carrying my Gucci velvet 1955, an unexpected pleasure. The flap stays put more easily than I thought (no magnet or flip under the tongue) because the leather grips, and the compartments are really well organised. They knew how to design a woman's handbag in 1955. I thought the shortness of the drop carrying cross-body would bother me but over a slim coat it was fine. If I wore it with, my thick double-breasted Burberry, it would have to go under, same as I wear all X-bodies with furs/sheepskins. Anyway, far more practical on an all-day adventure than I thought.
It's a stunning bag. I'm glad it's also turning out to be practical.
 
It can be difficult! :doh:

My advice goes against the grain- be very specific and use all the filters! Most people type in generic terms and then have to sift through gazillions of results that aren't even close to what they are after.

I clearly specify a $ range- both a min and max amount, so I exclude the rubbish at the very low end like paper clips ha ha, and I don't waste time looking at things outside my budget at the higher end.
Then Handmade or Vintage.
I also specify the country I want to shop from. Obviously shopping locally, you'd save on shipping but many international sellers also offer free shipping, so I tend to choose the country based on what I want to purchase.
For instance, I know that Argentina has a lot of products made of recycled rubber (I should post one of my bags relating to this, actually), so I'd look there for products made of recycled tyres.
If I wanted printed silk scarves, I'd shop from Greece as it's commonly found there. Snakeskin from Indonesia, and so on.

Another example about specificity: Say you wanted genuine gemstones like Opals. I know that opals are found all over the place- India, Mexico, Australia, the US. If I were opting for cheap, I'd choose to shop from stores in India, and my search terms wouldn't simply be 'genuine opals', but would specify the grade (AA grade, for instance), from India, in the handmade category, between $50-110.
Getting that precise means I often only get back 4 pages to look through in my results vs. 250 pages you could otherwise get.
And if I like a product that came up in my search, I'll look at the recommendations that accompany it (usually at the top of that page) as they tend to be similar in style and can lead me to items that would suit my taste.

Hope that helps you some. I'd love to get advice from others on here, as I'm sure there are better ways to navigate it. :smile:
Wow… this is fantastic advice. Thank you!
 
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