2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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Friend of mine is an endocrionologist, he said when the metabolism changes somewhat or seems to slow down, it is in 90% of all cases down to thyroid, and women are much more at risk and their main risk factors are hormonal changes, puberty, child birth, menopause and hormonal birth control. The body is a finely tuned chemical factory with a bunch of electricity thrown in, I'm hypothyroid anyway, so some food I have to avoid because it slows the thyroid down even more and can block the absorption and conversion of the thyroid hormones. Since I avoid soy and steam cruciferous vegetables, I noticed a total difference, plus upping my D3 and B12. A change that might not even show up in a blood test because it is so small, is often enough for your body to recognize.
I started avoiding soy last year. For years, I noticed I could never sleep on nights when we had eaten Chinese food. At first, I thought it was the tea and stopped getting that. Then last year I started eating tofu and got a bad headache every time. So now I avoid soy completely. We still eat Chinese food but I try to order something that doesn't have much or any soy.

My mother and my sister both had thyroid problems. The last time I checked mine was fine but the doctor wanted to run more tests. I am absolutely positive that my hormones affect my weight. I've lost a lot of weight several times in my life without any effort on my part, yet when I try to diet, it hardly ever results in weight loss, quite often just the opposite. My most recent weight loss was from an accident, hospital stay, and a virus.

I have insomnia and I have read that not getting a good night's sleep can make you gain weight. It doesn't seem fair. All that tossing and turning should burn calories!
 
I have a question for all of you that analysis how often you use each bag or colour.
Where do you make a record of it? Is it something you'll jot down somewhere and transfer later or do you keep a daily record on a tablet or desktop?
Also how do you analysis it out?
I keep track of it on a spreadsheet I was already using to track my collection. When I buy something bag related I record the item and the amount on a spreadsheet. That spreadsheet keeps track of my purchases over time, but only the bags and SLGs that are currently in my collection are on a "purse inventory" spreadsheet. I added monthly columns and just record the wears of each bag there. I haven't done the same with SLGS. At the end of the year, I tallied all the monthly columns and then made a list from most worn to least worn.
 
I'm one of the lazy ones who doesn't return things. Even though I get upset when something isn't right, I don't put much effort into getting my money back. If I buy clothes online that don't fit as well as I would have liked, but they are okay, I'll keep them.

I bought some towels from Macy's online. When I got them, I wasn't going to use them right away so I put them in the laundry room. When I got around to washing them, as I was about to remove the labels I noticed they had sale price stickers on them for less than I paid. I called Macy's and asked for a price adjustment but they wouldn't give it to me because I didn't ask for it right away when I received them. I said, well then I'll return them. They said go ahead. Well I didn't return them. But I'm still mad and have avoided shopping at Macy's ever since.

Once I bought a can of jalapenos from Walmart. When I opened them, they were covered with mold. I went back to Walmart and they wouldn't give me back my 99 cents because they were opened. How would I know they were covered with mold until I opened them? They wouldn't budge, yet once I bought a garden tool for around $20 and accidentally left it in my cart when I drove away. When I told them, they told me to go get another one. I had no proof I have left the other one in the parking lot yet they believed me.

That's appalling of Macy's - not good business practice at all. As for Walmart, that just highlights the inconsistencies in their service and that they argued over 99c is ridiculous, the law would have been on your side, food sold has to be fit to eat. I'm very glad you got your garden tool though.
 
It’s good to be cautious and I’m sorry you have to deal with that! But it’s also good to know the causes of your allergies so you know what to specifically avoid, so I’m glad you do! My husband had so many food allergies that he just can’t avoid them anymore, except for shellfish, which he is severely allergic to (he would go into anaphylactic shock from shrimp). But he has mild allergies to eggs, wheat, chicken, nuts, cheese, you name it! He eats them so he can have food options but he now has ridges in his throat partially from continuing to eat these foods.

Oh your poor DH, that sounds so awful
 
I started avoiding soy last year. For years, I noticed I could never sleep on nights when we had eaten Chinese food. At first, I thought it was the tea and stopped getting that. Then last year I started eating tofu and got a bad headache every time. So now I avoid soy completely. We still eat Chinese food but I try to order something that doesn't have much or any soy.

My mother and my sister both had thyroid problems. The last time I checked mine was fine but the doctor wanted to run more tests. I am absolutely positive that my hormones affect my weight. I've lost a lot of weight several times in my life without any effort on my part, yet when I try to diet, it hardly ever results in weight loss, quite often just the opposite. My most recent weight loss was from an accident, hospital stay, and a virus.

I have insomnia and I have read that not getting a good night's sleep can make you gain weight. It doesn't seem fair. All that tossing and turning should burn calories!

To be honest if I am without the thyroid meds my body can convert, I balloon, tried repeatedly with the synthetic levothyroxin, no go, a Dr suggest a genetic test and it turns out I can't convert it, the natural one, made from pig's thyroid, works like a charm and if I adjust my diet to "thyroid friendly", totally fine. I had to give up being vegetarian, because most vegetarian options are full of options that are really bad for the thyroid, mine is auto immune (Hashimoto's) and apparently that is linked to the gluten intolerance (also autoimmune) I want to avoid having more autoimmune issues, so being extra careful. The bummer is that most glutenfree food is full with soy. As somebody who absolutely loves pizza, pasta and bread, I sometimes act like Pavlow's dog when I smell fresh bread, going for a meal is a real problem, especially since a lot of restaurants don't understand the cross contamination.
But you know another thing that really supports the thyroid is coconut oil (cold pressed, organic) and does help with weight loss. As daft as it sounds, it depends less on the calories I eat and more on what I eat, however before my thyroid was adjusted (you would not believe the before and after, I felt 10 years younger, more energetic and asked if they are giving me drugs because I feel like I am on such a high), I used MyPlate a lot and found out that I was often not eating enough, basically making my body think it needs to preserve calories. Never eat less than 500 calories than you burn (you burn 2000, you need to take in at least 1500 to avoid the "energy saving mode" and the metabolism slowing down), over time I found out that some foods seem to work better for me than others, and that with some things I really don't need to count calories. I totally miss soy and tofu, it was a staple of my diet, still not very keen on meat (won't even go near pork, the smell alone grosses me out), I love red wine, but cut that out (too many histamines, same with parmesan and most hard cheeses, stuff I also love) and I do eat a lot of natural yoghurts now (found a few they don't bulk up with gluten, that stuff is in everything) and drink kefir, a fermented milk drink, at least 3 times a week to help building and maintaining healthy gut bacteria.
My medical friends recently shared a research project where they found out that artificial sweetners and ready meals tend to destroy healthy gut bacteria, which can cause massive weight gain. I always thought that whole leaky gut stuff is just a scare story, over the holidays and with the whole stress with dad passing away, my diet totally slipped, as a result, I felt rotten, my skin reacted more, asthma (usually it doesn't bother me unless I am near mold, flowering hazelnut trees or parrots) raises it's head again. I am totally back on the healthy eating wagon and I noticed my urges have totally changed. Instead of craving sweet, salty and starchy, I am craving cilantro (coriander leaves) and eat them by the bushel, I think I could do much worse diet wise.
 
I have insomnia and I have read that not getting a good night's sleep can make you gain weight. It doesn't seem fair. All that tossing and turning should burn calories!
This isn't funny… but it's funny! :lol: :lol: :lol:

But seriously, I do empathize. I had terrible insomnia a few years ago, and it drove me up a wall. It turned out that it was my doctor's fault. She had put me on too strong a dose of thyroid medicine. When she eventually dropped the dosage down, I started sleeping better. (She isn't my doctor any more!) But until it got figured out, I was purely miserable. I kept thinking it was my fault. :annoyed:
 
This isn't funny… but it's funny! :lol: :lol: :lol:

But seriously, I do empathize. I had terrible insomnia a few years ago, and it drove me up a wall. It turned out that it was my doctor's fault. She had put me on too strong a dose of thyroid medicine. When she eventually dropped the dosage down, I started sleeping better. (She isn't my doctor any more!) But until it got figured out, I was purely miserable. I kept thinking it was my fault. :annoyed:

You can't be British, here they assured my my thyroid is totally fine and normal despite only having 10% due to a previous thyrectomy (had a tumor that luckily was benign) everywhere in the world getting meds was not a problem, in the UK, they just went "Oh your TSH and T4 is normal, you should be fine" - left the country, had a check abroad (Drs did sommersaults backwards, checked antibodies) let's say the Drs abroad were NOT impressed, sent a really blunt letter, all of a sudden the GP decided it might be better if I see a specialist...

Because thyroid tends to happen at a disproportional high rate to women, it is so often ignored or brushed aside
 
To be honest if I am without the thyroid meds my body can convert, I balloon, tried repeatedly with the synthetic levothyroxin, no go, a Dr suggest a genetic test and it turns out I can't convert it, the natural one, made from pig's thyroid, works like a charm and if I adjust my diet to "thyroid friendly", totally fine. I had to give up being vegetarian, because most vegetarian options are full of options that are really bad for the thyroid, mine is auto immune (Hashimoto's) and apparently that is linked to the gluten intolerance (also autoimmune) I want to avoid having more autoimmune issues, so being extra careful. The bummer is that most glutenfree food is full with soy. As somebody who absolutely loves pizza, pasta and bread, I sometimes act like Pavlow's dog when I smell fresh bread, going for a meal is a real problem, especially since a lot of restaurants don't understand the cross contamination.
But you know another thing that really supports the thyroid is coconut oil (cold pressed, organic) and does help with weight loss. As daft as it sounds, it depends less on the calories I eat and more on what I eat, however before my thyroid was adjusted (you would not believe the before and after, I felt 10 years younger, more energetic and asked if they are giving me drugs because I feel like I am on such a high), I used MyPlate a lot and found out that I was often not eating enough, basically making my body think it needs to preserve calories. Never eat less than 500 calories than you burn (you burn 2000, you need to take in at least 1500 to avoid the "energy saving mode" and the metabolism slowing down), over time I found out that some foods seem to work better for me than others, and that with some things I really don't need to count calories. I totally miss soy and tofu, it was a staple of my diet, still not very keen on meat (won't even go near pork, the smell alone grosses me out), I love red wine, but cut that out (too many histamines, same with parmesan and most hard cheeses, stuff I also love) and I do eat a lot of natural yoghurts now (found a few they don't bulk up with gluten, that stuff is in everything) and drink kefir, a fermented milk drink, at least 3 times a week to help building and maintaining healthy gut bacteria.
My medical friends recently shared a research project where they found out that artificial sweetners and ready meals tend to destroy healthy gut bacteria, which can cause massive weight gain. I always thought that whole leaky gut stuff is just a scare story, over the holidays and with the whole stress with dad passing away, my diet totally slipped, as a result, I felt rotten, my skin reacted more, asthma (usually it doesn't bother me unless I am near mold, flowering hazelnut trees or parrots) raises it's head again. I am totally back on the healthy eating wagon and I noticed my urges have totally changed. Instead of craving sweet, salty and starchy, I am craving cilantro (coriander leaves) and eat them by the bushel, I think I could do much worse diet wise.
curious what siurces you may recommend for thyroid-supportive diet? hypothyroidism, I assume? OK PM me if more appropriate. tia.
 
curious what siurces you may recommend for thyroid-supportive diet? hypothyroidism, I assume? OK PM me if more appropriate. tia.

I was given a massive sheet by Dr Jordan Geller, yes it is Hashimoto's (autoimmune) resulting in total hypothyroidism, basically anything from the cabbage family needs to be steamed, no soy, avoiding to take the meds with any D3 supplement, hormones or dairy products (2 to 3 hours in between)

I think there is a blog out there hypothyroidmom or something like that, which also has plenty diet recommendations
 
To be honest if I am without the thyroid meds my body can convert, I balloon, tried repeatedly with the synthetic levothyroxin, no go, a Dr suggest a genetic test and it turns out I can't convert it, the natural one, made from pig's thyroid, works like a charm and if I adjust my diet to "thyroid friendly", totally fine. I had to give up being vegetarian, because most vegetarian options are full of options that are really bad for the thyroid, mine is auto immune (Hashimoto's) and apparently that is linked to the gluten intolerance (also autoimmune) I want to avoid having more autoimmune issues, so being extra careful. The bummer is that most glutenfree food is full with soy. As somebody who absolutely loves pizza, pasta and bread, I sometimes act like Pavlow's dog when I smell fresh bread, going for a meal is a real problem, especially since a lot of restaurants don't understand the cross contamination.
But you know another thing that really supports the thyroid is coconut oil (cold pressed, organic) and does help with weight loss. As daft as it sounds, it depends less on the calories I eat and more on what I eat, however before my thyroid was adjusted (you would not believe the before and after, I felt 10 years younger, more energetic and asked if they are giving me drugs because I feel like I am on such a high), I used MyPlate a lot and found out that I was often not eating enough, basically making my body think it needs to preserve calories. Never eat less than 500 calories than you burn (you burn 2000, you need to take in at least 1500 to avoid the "energy saving mode" and the metabolism slowing down), over time I found out that some foods seem to work better for me than others, and that with some things I really don't need to count calories. I totally miss soy and tofu, it was a staple of my diet, still not very keen on meat (won't even go near pork, the smell alone grosses me out), I love red wine, but cut that out (too many histamines, same with parmesan and most hard cheeses, stuff I also love) and I do eat a lot of natural yoghurts now (found a few they don't bulk up with gluten, that stuff is in everything) and drink kefir, a fermented milk drink, at least 3 times a week to help building and maintaining healthy gut bacteria.
My medical friends recently shared a research project where they found out that artificial sweetners and ready meals tend to destroy healthy gut bacteria, which can cause massive weight gain. I always thought that whole leaky gut stuff is just a scare story, over the holidays and with the whole stress with dad passing away, my diet totally slipped, as a result, I felt rotten, my skin reacted more, asthma (usually it doesn't bother me unless I am near mold, flowering hazelnut trees or parrots) raises it's head again. I am totally back on the healthy eating wagon and I noticed my urges have totally changed. Instead of craving sweet, salty and starchy, I am craving cilantro (coriander leaves) and eat them by the bushel, I think I could do much worse diet wise.
My mom and sister both took the artificial thyroid. I don't know what caused my sister's problem but she is still overweight. My mom had to have her thyroid removed. When she was a child, they thought sunlamp treatments were good for her and both she and her sister ended up with enlarged thyroids but not cancer.

Many years ago when I had problems with my period, a doctor put me on thyroid (probably synthetic) without even testing my thyroid. I got worse. I got irritable and tired. When I went off the thyroid I got better. I think that in my case, the presence of the synthetic drug convinced my thyroid to stop producing. I do get weird reactions to things. I wonder if I had had the natural version if my experience would have been different.

I've had my body go into energy saving mode many times. I've got a small frame so if I eat as much as 2000 calories a day I'll gain weight.

I never use artificial sweeteners. My doctor told me that your body still thinks it is getting sugar. I generally only drink water. I don't eat much processed foods. I don't usually crave salty snacks. My weakness is chocolate. I can't drink red wine - it makes my legs hurt.
 
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I have a question for all of you that analysis how often you use each bag or colour.
Where do you make a record of it? Is it something you'll jot down somewhere and transfer later or do you keep a daily record on a tablet or desktop?
Also how do you analysis it out?

I've been tracking via Google spreadsheets. I have a sheet where I am tracking a few different things ; two of them are bag related, where one is my inventory and the second is the tracker. I have columns with the date, bag, bag color, and occasion, and right now the bags and bag colors are exporting into two pie charts.

I was able to modify the pie chart so that each bag's slice roughly matches the color of the bag. Haven't had a chance to do that yet for the two most recent editions but I like this visual for seeing what I've been using this year!
 

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I've been tracking via Google spreadsheets. I have a sheet where I am tracking a few different things ; two of them are bag related, where one is my inventory and the second is the tracker. I have columns with the date, bag, bag color, and occasion, and right now the bags and bag colors are exporting into two pie charts.

I was able to modify the pie chart so that each bag's slice roughly matches the color of the bag. Haven't had a chance to do that yet for the two most recent editions but I like this visual for seeing what I've been using this year!
Very cool!
 
I have a question for all of you that analysis how often you use each bag or colour.
Where do you make a record of it? Is it something you'll jot down somewhere and transfer later or do you keep a daily record on a tablet or desktop?
Also how do you analysis it out?

I keep track of it on a spreadsheet I was already using to track my collection. When I buy something bag related I record the item and the amount on a spreadsheet. That spreadsheet keeps track of my purchases over time, but only the bags and SLGs that are currently in my collection are on a "purse inventory" spreadsheet. I added monthly columns and just record the wears of each bag there. I haven't done the same with SLGS. At the end of the year, I tallied all the monthly columns and then made a list from most worn to least worn.
Similar to @whateve, I use a spreadsheet on my iPad. I have monthly columns and record the wears on a daily basis. The spreadsheet has a total column, so I can see my total wear for each bag on a continuous basis, for the current calendar year, previous years and a total for as long as I have been tracking wears (since 2014). I also update a most to least worn list lower on the same page below the original list.
Other columns include purchase price, a calculated cost per wear (for as long as you’ve been tracking stats), size, colour, type of bag (tote, clutch, crossbody, shoulder, top handle, etc), occasions (work, weekend, evening, travel, etc), a love it column (score out of 5) a use it column (score out of 5), total score adds love it and use it for a max total of 10. Bags I love and use frequently score high marks (10). If I am meh on the love scale and low on the use scale, they won’t stay in my collection long. I can acknowledge a vintage snakeskin clutch hand me down from my MIL gets a 5 for love and a 2 for uses = 7 and still has a place in my bag wardrobe, it’s the lowest score currently. I also total up the purchase prices for a total value of the list for the start of the year, adds, exits and end of year value. Very scary! :amazed:

My goal is to have a well edited collection of bags that work for my lifestyle, that I love and use regularly. I hope it helps.
 
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I had a surreal shopping day. Took Evie and Double Sens to run errands.

First stop. I bought a cheap mascara a couple of weeks ago and opened Monday morning. Nothing, apart from big, dry flakes that fell on my cheeks so I went to change it. It took 2 hours "we don't change makeup madam". Finally I think they got the picture I wasn't going anywhere until someone did. I exchanged (for a different) mascara.

Went to Hennes Home and bought a little cushion and cushion cover. I took a picture of the cover before Christmas to think about it. I couldn't find the cover in the shop. It took SA 30 mins to locate one...in the basement. Apparently they didn't fit with the new season's theme and they weren't in the sale so they had to be put away.

Then tea with a huge ice-cream sundae with DH. Only took another 30 mins to be served.

While I'd been changing my mascara DH had bought me a Ralph Lauren Polo 'Russia' T-shirt. I know I've bought slim fit men''s tees before (better fit for me than women's) but it seems slightly curious. Look forward to the styling challenge.

Pic from archive
Sounds like a frustrating day!

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