2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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Thank-you @Sparkletastic! I´m sorry you are feeling low, too!

At the moment there doesn´t seem to be anything to motivate me.
Everything I do feels so meaningless. All I feel I need to do is cry, but can´t.

For example last week I altered a very messy dress, finally got it to fit after days so that not even my DH who is my worst critic found any fault and then I put it away well knowing I won´t have any chance to wear it... days spent without reaching anything.
Yesterday I sat for hours researching and hunting down a Longchamp amazone bag- what for? I know it won´t meet my quality standards. I simply can´t forget the SA in the Paris airport store taking the bag I wanted to see out of a storage cabinet stuffed with bags in clear plastic bags of the crackling type as if they were cheapest counterfeit... Result: none, but being sure I don´t want it. On to hunting for an Aigner Lucy... I´m laughing now! I had this bag, found it wrong for myself though it´s lovely and gave it to my daughter...
It´s all spinning in menaingless circles, sitting here slumped over the computer as this is the only posture for me to not feel cold to the core.
Not even chocolate helps nor listening to The Doors.
Rant over. Thank-you for listening!

DH just reminded me the fridge has been empty for days. I need to go to the grocery store and am scared. Still no news on when the schools will re-open and very frightened they might do it next week.
I'm so sorry you're having a hard time, @cowgirlsboots . The whole world is in a frightening situation now, and I think everyone has hours (or days, or weeks) when they feel like this. It's the natural human instinct to either run or to curl up into a little ball and hide.

You can definitely come here to cry, scream, or rant. :hugs:
 
Back from the grocery store and I am totally shocked! No hand desinfectant at the entry any more and people do not keep any distance anymore. They shop like they used to do before covid, standing in clusters and chatting, brushing by other people.... I wore a mask and had people stare, turn around and laugh or comment from the off.... would have loved to run away.
Noooooooo! That's very scary. :shocked:
 
I'm getting frustrated that I can't get some of the ingredients I like to use, but I don't think I'll risk leaving the house to shop until it is considered safe. They aren't available from instacart even if I know they are in the grocery store. I can understand how Mr. Cookie feels. Swiss isn't the same as gruyere. I think there is a risk with anything that is delivered, but not as big of a risk as going out in public to get those things myself.

DH is obsessive when a package is delivered. He won't touch them. He "supervises" when I bring them in and open them. I just use my bare hands to pick up the box. I put it down on our tile floor. I have dedicated scissors I use to open packages. I remove the contents, then take the packing to the trash or the garage. Then I wash my hands. I pick up my sanitizing spray and spray my scissors and any of the items that can get wet. Then I put them away. I wash my hands again. If I touched any doorknobs or light switches I spray those.

DH acts like I'm not being careful enough, yet yesterday he brought in the mail and dropped it next to where I was sitting. I didn't want the mail put there. What I've been doing with mail is opening everything, throwing away the envelopes, and then washing my hands.
As @momasaurus said, we each have to develop our own routines that feel comfortable to us (and to whoever we live with, if we don't live alone). Plus, we're all learning, as the scientists understand more about this virus.

It sounds as though you have it down to a system that works for you. :tup:

I just got my water bill in today's mail. Up a bit (not a ton, but definitely up) from last month. I guess I've been keeping coronovirus out of our house by washing everything in sight… twice! :giggle:
 
I haven´t seen anybody in our town wearing a mask so far which I do not understand as the cases are coming nearer. There definetely are several only 25 kms away.
With being stared at I would have been ok, but people laughed. Not even all turned away from me for doing so, some barely could hold it... I had some "funny" remarks out of the off, too.
People in my town are strange!
So, what did you do??? Did you keep the mask on?
I thought that in Europe, everyone was wearing masks, but I guess that's not true.
 
Let’s have fun and play with our collections a bit. ** PLEASE SHARE PICTURES IF YOU CAN **
  • What is your favorite bag?
  • What is the bag that is most “like you”?
  • What is your most used bag?
I’ll go first. :biggrin:
The Dior bags!:girlsigh:
Stunning leather and I love the lining color.
Thank you!
This is great. What are the leathers/colors?
Leather is Clemence, and the tan colour is Gold/ and the inner color is Hermes classic orange. In the summer months I wear the bag on the orange side.
That´s a very lovely "relaxed" H bag! Very nice!
Thank you it's one of my most used bags!
Thanks for the compliments on my bags! :amuse: It’s not that I find the Fendi boring. I like the styling and have even thought of getting a smaller one in red. Plus, the functionality is perfect - I usually hate divided bags but this has a center divided section that just works beautifully. My issue with it is that I’ve worn it so much I’m just dead tired of it. :doh: And, I don’t like that sagging at the bottom corners. I think that is an intentional element of the design but, I don’t have to like it. Lol! I don’t see me ever selling it because it’s so incredibly functional and low key. But, I do need to get another black bag to take off some of the “pressure” to wear. Like I did when I just bought the YSL camera to take pressure off of my LV LockMe II BB.

Right now, however, I’m wearing my Jimmy Choo Raven when I go out. It’s nice to see that bag again as I hadn’t been wearing it. Still loooove the leather!

That’s what I thought as well (good with summer dresses). And I think I could figure out how to wear it better than I could the ivory C jumbo. I’ve never been more happy to offload a bag as when I sold that.
I can totally see you being the LV bucket - great looking, stylish, high quality but unpretentious.
How are you enjoying your denim flap? I thought you were going the Lady Dior route.
Would love to see a photo.
Thanks for the well wishes. I’m so bummed. I had signed up for two dance classes starting in May. Seems neither my toe nor Covid are agreeing with my plans. :crybaby:
If the animal print bag is your personality, we would be fast friends, my dear. I imagine you outgoing, confident, fun loving and quirky.

I wonder if there is an unscented leather lotion you could use on the Dior?
I don’t think anyone is too old for animal print. If anything, before the recent re-awakening to animal print in the last few seasons, most people had started to feel it was for older ladies. :rolleyes: I recall a post on tPB a couple years back where they essentially said anyone who carried an animal print bag was kinda loud and dated like a mob wife from the Sopranos. I was a bit off out because I’ve never stopped loving animal print and wish I had a good one in my collection. To me, they are a great “bold” neutral. So, wear your leopard dresses and know that you have better taste than the minions who would be so classless as to comment.
I agree! I had leopard print fendi baguette back in the day, I regret selling it!
These three bags were also in my top 4 most carried bags in 2019.

Favourite - Chanel Black Reissue 226 Aged Calfskin Ruthenium Hardware
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Most like Me - Hermes Etain Bolide 31 Taurillon Clemence GHW
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Most Used - Hermes Etoupe Evelyne III PM Clemence
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:love: beautiful, all of them! and all of them are on my wishlist!
All beautiful bags. And, I do see the Bolide being like you. Classic, beautiful, calming (color).:amuse:
Agreed!
 
I was out today for a follow up on my foot surgery. When I arrived, they had a sign on the door telling us not to come in but to call and check in. Then they would call when the doctor was ready to see us. So, we could wait in the hall or in our cars. I think that was a great system. (And, good news. No more bandages! Whoop!)

From there I had to go to WalMart to pick up things he told me I needed (oddly, one of them was styrofoam cups) to aid in my recovery. I was extremely frustrated because there was no sanitizer at the door for hands or carts. And, people weren’t keeping any distance. :annoyed:

The governor of my state has said he is going to repeal most of the social distancing requirements to help revive the state economy. In contrast, my politicians in my home state are calling for extended and increased measures.

I don’t think anyone knows what we should do and most are making this up as we go. I think about how a few weeks ago most media was saying masks were of no help or were even a problem because it kept people touching their faces. Now, the CDC (US) recommends we do wear masks. It’s frustrating.

Meanwhile, in lighter news. I’ve only worn two bags since all this started. My bag wear stats are going to be pure awful this year. :lol:
First, congrats on getting the bandages off. Great news! And I'm not gonna ask what the styrofoam cups were for, but I'l admit that a funny image comes to mind! :amuse:

Terrible that the customers in the WalMart weren't being sensible. I had to go into a CVS last week to pick up antibiotics and everyone waiting at the pharmacy section was standing 6 feet apart (there was tape on the floor). Most customers were wearing masks (I was), and some were wearing gloves (I was).

Which two bags have you carried since all this started? Are they your favorites, or are they the easiest to clean???
 
DH would have problems with that if I wasn't with him. He doesn't carry a phone! I wonder if they have any patients who don't have phones with them.

Sometimes you have to do what you need to keep yourself safe regardless of what the government tells you. We're probably going to continue to isolate, at least for awhile, when our governor ends the stay at home order.
Same here. And then, when we do ease back in, we'll prioritize.
 
I’m going take all the proceeds and split them up as extra tips when I can see my hair stylist, nail tech and wax esthetician. I figure they all have to be pretty hard hit from weeks of not working. This is an easy way for me to help out while I get unneeded things out of my house.

(I swear Mr. S and I do all we can not to have an extra cotton ball. How do some things STILL manage to lurk in hidden spaces?)
Extra tips: what a lovely idea!

Didn't you know? Cotton balls reproduce in dark corners at night when nobody can see them. :biggrin:
 
Firstly :shocked: that people have let their guard down and are not distancing at the super market. I'm seeing a lot of the same, as are my friends all over the world. I think every country has a section of the population that is in denial. :-s

Secondly, please don't be upset or hurt by people laughing because you are being cautious. I have a thread on here about people commenting on me, pointing and laughing at me, and I've had a boss who told me not to let him see my face in the morning because my ugliness ruins his day. I was involved in an accident and have indentations from where my face was broken as a result, and I have some burn marks on my face from an abusive ex who would put his cigarettes out on my cheeks.
Now, I realise this is nothing like your situation but I mean to show you that I'm used to people pointing and laughing rudely when I'm out and about.
The worst is that I overhear parents telling their kids to stay away from the weird looking girl- I don't think they should be teaching their kids that. I imagine what they'd say to their kids if they saw someone disabled or with an amputated limb. :sad:
I've had people in grocery stores audibly say that if they had my face they would commit suicide. It's sad that people can openly mock another human being for no reason.

I always make a point to make eye contact with those talking about me and smile the warmest smile I can. Sometimes we need to remind others we are human and we are nice. It snaps them out of their own bubble and makes them stop. Sometimes we need to remind ourselves to be gracious because they don't know any better and it's not their fault that this is their limited thinking.

In any case, they're laughing because you are being sensible and cautious whereas they are being reckless with their lives and those of others. You should hold your head up proudly and let those words roll off of you, because you are the one in the right and they will be grateful for people like you who are helping to fight the spread of covid.
Don't let anyone's ill-informed opinion and bad manners hurt your feelings. :hugs:

Okay, I'm going back into my hole. Every time I post on this thread it turns into a mini-rant! :facepalm:
Amazing post. Thank you. :flowers: :hugs: :flowers:
 
In the future there is going to be a lot more mask-wearing in public, as the virus comes and goes over the next year or so. Some people will wear, and others not. People are going to have to get used to it. Eventually, I hope, there will no longer be an "Asian" or "sick" or "overly cautious" stigma associated with wearing a mask. (I know I'm sort of fantasizing here.)
I think you're exactly right.
 
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