I don’t get how or why people feel they can/ should comment on anything unless it’s an unequivocal compliment. If I were you, I wouldn’t let any comments about price keep me from wearing my bags in my private / social life.
Nailing down my aesthetic was a hard fought battle. I went through stages of dressing as my mom taught me, dressing for my career, wearing sparkly / girly things because they fit an aspect of my personality, trying to look older than my age to get credibility, wearing worn out mom things because I was exhausted from working and having little ones while in grad school, mirroring friends, coworkers or even people in the media ... It’s been a carnival of crazy.
I’ve had to get quiet and figure out what makes me feel the best and what looks best on me. For example, one day I realized I didn’t have to wear shorts - which are uncomfortable and don’t look good on me - just because others do.
I like very feminine (soft but def not little girly and never prim) clean lines, architectural interest, a little bit of edge & the classy side of sex appeal, and just a bit of sparkle for going out. I don’t have one word for it but, I know it when I see it.
My biggest issue now is finding clothes that truly work for me that also don’t break the bank. I value spending premier money on a good bag. I don’t value spending premier money on the majority of my clothes. As spice for my wardrobe - sure. But not for the vaaaaaast majority of what I wear. So, I’m struggling a bit. But, I’m making progress.
I just started coloring. What pens and pencils do you recommend?
Love your browns. And, I’m especially drawn to that cute straw bag.I just loved the look of the bag. When I wore it, I felt very strong, powerful, like it’d arrived.

I don’t have any “power” bags now. I wonder what one could even be?

Hmmm...I may ponder on this as I’d like to have a power bag or two in my closet.
Beautiful.