2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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These Coach bags aren’t from my closet. My mother passed them on to me, and I gave them some TLC. They’re from the mid-90s and both were made in the United States. The black one is an original Willis bag. The brown one was a favorite of my mother’s. I remember she wore that one continuously for several years.
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I had that very same bag! (the brown one) i gave it to my niece last year as part of her graduation present. She asked me for it for years! it was one of the first bags I bought for myself.
 
Book recommendation: The Paris Architect, by Charles Balfoure

It’s about an atheist French architect during the Occupation in Paris during WWII. He grudgingly accepts work from a wealthy Gentile to design ingenious secret hiding places for Jews, all while he and the Gentile work directly with the Reich in designing and building arms factories. As he helps his fellow humans escape death, he learns a lot about himself—-that he has courage despite his immense fear of getting caught and tortured. The book is full of suspense; I even held my breath at some points as I read on to see what happened next.

My handbag today, LV SpeedyB 25:
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beautiful handbag! I will checkout the book recommendation.
 
Yesterday I popped into H and used 1 of my 6 RTW/shoe quota for the year for a non-sustainable brand. I got this gorgeous cashmere cardigan that I know I will enjoy wearing it.

Also taking home this Kelly 25 today. It’s an amazing color and finally gold will stick in my handbag wardrobe. This is my fourth gold colored Birkin or Kelly, and it is the only one that I can imagine keeping for a longtime!
Loooove the gold kelly! It goes nicely with your black coat, should be a keeper.
 
I know that feeling of too much sparking joy. :smile: So I've started looking at what is actually getting used and loved. If it is spending too much time sitting around or stored away, it isn't sparking enough joy. ;)[/QUOTE]

Sometimes what we don't use just sits there because we forget how fab it is (or just forget about it). That's what this thread is about. Something not worn for a while can feel as thrilling as a new bag - without the expense.[/QUOTE]

TRUTH! (Sending you a virtual hug!)
 
For me, this past year, "sparking joy" was the catalyst for me being able to curate the items in my home instead of being overtaken by clutter. Now I think my mindset is more "mindful spending", which is a big thing for me.. it encompasses a few things, but most importantly--

1. Why do I want to buy this? is it the trends or am I upset about something?
2. Is this something that I would enjoy for the long haul? I try to remind myself that bags (very rarely) go rotten in the same way that fresh groceries can, so I should be mindful of whether or not I want to put my resources into that.


“Why... buy?.... Am I Upset about something?”

So True!!!! Thank you for articulating that. Some people are emotional eaters. I think I am an emotional handbag purchaser. Oy Vey! (But soooo pretty.)
 
I have to be honest with myself along with holding myself accountable: I decided to purchase the other item. This isn't something I usually do;however, I am a collector of limited edition LV. It was brand new, with tags, for a reasonable price. When I made this choice I ensured that all of my necessities have been covered. Do I feel guilty about this purchase? Somewhat, but I have created a responsible framework to ensure that this purchase does not affect my budget (too much). I know what needs to be done and the sacrifices I am making to purchase it. One of the things that I have realised is that it is okay to make the "wrong choice" sometimes - we aren't perfect, neither are the choices we make. I am BANNED though!
 
These Coach bags aren’t from my closet. My mother passed them on to me, and I gave them some TLC. They’re from the mid-90s and both were made in the United States. The black one is an original Willis bag. The brown one was a favorite of my mother’s. I remember she wore that one continuously for several years.
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Beautiful leather on both bags!
 
I have to be honest with myself along with holding myself accountable: I decided to purchase the other item. This isn't something I usually do;however, I am a collector of limited edition LV. It was brand new, with tags, for a reasonable price. When I made this choice I ensured that all of my necessities have been covered. Do I feel guilty about this purchase? Somewhat, but I have created a responsible framework to ensure that this purchase does not affect my budget (too much). I know what needs to be done and the sacrifices I am making to purchase it. One of the things that I have realised is that it is okay to make the "wrong choice" sometimes - we aren't perfect, neither are the choices we make. I am BANNED though!
Don’t be too hard on yourself and it’s good that you’re very consciously making the decision to purchase a bag! I’d love to see what you picked up!
 
Don’t be too hard on yourself and it’s good that you’re very consciously making the decision to purchase a bag! I’d love to see what you picked up!

I weighed the pros and cons to the best of my abilities. The orange perforated piece was purchased by someone close to me while I purchased the green one today. I am happy with these purchases despite the minimal debt I acquired for it (less than $150, so easy to pay off). It, to me, was well worth it.
 

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Yesterday I popped into H and used 1 of my 6 RTW/shoe quota for the year for a non-sustainable brand. I got this gorgeous cashmere cardigan that I know I will enjoy wearing it.

Also taking home this Kelly 25 today. It’s an amazing color and finally gold will stick in my handbag wardrobe. This is my fourth gold colored Birkin or Kelly, and it is the only one that I can imagine keeping for a longtime!
Both classics
Both amazing
Love them on you - beauties !
 
I wore the same bag for a week straight and even on a Sunday at the mall - Alexander McQueen Padlock bag! Ever since the incident in December (I mentioned this in the 2019 thread but I’m still not ready to discuss it), I’ve stayed longer in my bags. And this bag is so versatile! Actually, this shot was today. The gold flats were a last minute change since my original choice (black) didn’t look good. Then I had no time to change my bag, so metals/colors are not in sync. :smile: Told myself nobody cares. :biggrin:

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These Coach bags aren’t from my closet. My mother passed them on to me, and I gave them some TLC. They’re from the mid-90s and both were made in the United States. The black one is an original Willis bag. The brown one was a favorite of my mother’s. I remember she wore that one continuously for several years.
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Love how timeless they are
 
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Totally pleased with myself, massive attack on clothes and shoe room, managed to photograph and measure quite a few clothes, and put them up on the resale sites straight away, one velvet jacket sold within 30 minutes of listing... Then got the mails from my fashion sites and couldn't resist looking, was quite tempted to buy something but reminded myself that even for unworn items you only get a fraction of the price back, decided to take dog for a walk instead!
 
Book recommendation: The Paris Architect, by Charles Balfoure

It’s about an atheist French architect during the Occupation in Paris during WWII. He grudgingly accepts work from a wealthy Gentile to design ingenious secret hiding places for Jews, all while he and the Gentile work directly with the Reich in designing and building arms factories. As he helps his fellow humans escape death, he learns a lot about himself—-that he has courage despite his immense fear of getting caught and tortured. The book is full of suspense; I even held my breath at some points as I read on to see what happened next.

My handbag today, LV SpeedyB 25:
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I remember reading The Paris Architect a few years ago, and liking it a lot. He's a very good writer!

I'm nearly finished with The Good Lord Bird, by James McBride, which was also recommended on this thread (last year, I think). The writing is beautiful. And the story is so compelling.
 
I wore the same bag for a week straight and even on a Sunday at the mall - Alexander McQueen Padlock bag! Ever since the incident in December (I mentioned this in the 2019 thread but I’m still not ready to discuss it), I’ve stayed longer in my bags. And this bag is so versatile! Actually, this shot was today. The gold flats were a last minute change since my original choice (black) didn’t look good. Then I had no time to change my bag, so metals/colors are not in sync. :smile: Told myself nobody cares. :biggrin:

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I like the pop of your gold flats against your dark outfit & bag. It really elevates the look! :smile:
 
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