2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

[Cookiefiend]

Thank you @More bags , @dramaprincess713 , and @dcooney4 for your kind thoughts - I am feeling better now that I know at least one employee (the diabetic one) will be able to work at home, and I know I'm not alone. I think everyone is suffering a bit mental health-wise right now.
Bring on the puppies!
@dramaprincess713 - I've read your posts over on the Massaccessi thread - did you make a decision? I'm still tempted by the burgundy croc (though I know it's discontinued) and I very much like my Juliet Midi in the gray Flor.

During this stressful time I have been trying to keep to some kind of schedule. I started dieting before it started but am sticking to it. I want to be that butterfly that comes out of its cocoon when this is over. Mind you an older butterfly but a butterfly never the less. As an artist with postponed events I have started to try different media that I am not comfortable with ,but I am learning new things that challenges my brain and hands. It is also a fantastic distraction.
Bag wise during this time I find I am happy with what I have in my closet even if I am not using it. I have discovered I am not always comfortable wearing my higher end bags. I live in a somewhat rural area and most people don't carry them . I now just go with what works with my life style . My main thing is that it has to be good quality no matter the price point. I save my higher end stuff for the little towns I like to visit that are a bit more affluent. Unless it flies under radar then I wear them anywhere.

I think sticking to a schedule is extremely important.
Yesterday, some friends and I had/did a Zoom Happy Hour - which was fun; it was nice to see everyone and hear them too. But one person was… un-kept. Hair was a wreck and she was wearing a holey sweatshirt. She's been under a lot of stress as well, she's on several boards and they are having to make hard decisions on letting people go… so I'm worried for her as well. Without her regular schedule, I am concerned she might be feeling discombobulated, because her everything is off.
Plus I know she's trying to help keep 'us' (the group of friends) connected.
I know I need a little structure (heck I like structure in my purses!) - showers must be taken, beds must be made, the house must be cleaned, dog walked and fed, bills paid, all of that stuff that makes a day 'regular' needs to be done. Including getting dressed in real clothes (I went to the hospital in my jammies - oy… < face palm >) and brushing my hair, mascara too if I'm feeling nekkid.
I will probably still go in once a week, there is a program on my office computer that I can't get on my home computer (due to incompatibility with the company's software) and I need to do payroll and comp sheets.
Yesterday, especially after reading the Purse Blog article about cleaning our purses, I looked at mine and decided I was only going to carry the ones I know I can replace. That way if I ruin the handles or strap of my LV Pallas or LockMe Bucket with bleach wipes, I won't be as upset as I would be if I ruined my H Drag or my Dior Be Dior. I was going to carry the H tote I made because I can throw it in the wash, but decided I didn't like it enough!

 

[momasaurus]

Thank-you! The Seeger bag is of an amazing quality. It´s really heavy, too. Seeing it still in distress and dusty in my photos I should muster the energy to get it on the table and fixed up a bit. It has been sitting on an open shelf for ages.

Well, maybe now's the time! Such a beauty.

 

[momasaurus]

Congratulations on finding the shoes - I really hope the boot comes off tomorrow!

Our state is starting 'Stay at Home' effective Wednesday, they're saying for 2 weeks only but I think it will be longer.

While I think this is great - my co-worker (also known as Mr Cookie) thinks he will just keep on working.
My face =
My job now is to convince him to at the very least compromise and go in twice a week. One day to complete all the reports, another to get them packaged up and in the mail, all appointments go to teleconference - no excuses. Employees work from home.
Yesterday I had a panic attack, hyperventilated and wound up in the hospital.
Today, I'm working, but really spending it winding up things like the forwarding the mail and phones to make the transition as smooth as possible.

EDIT - My co-worker has told one office to bring their laptops home, PROGRESS!!

I will PM you.

 

[dramaprincess713]

Thank you @More bags , @dramaprincess713 , and @dcooney4 for your kind thoughts - I am feeling better now that I know at least one employee (the diabetic one) will be able to work at home, and I know I'm not alone. I think everyone is suffering a bit mental health-wise right now.
Bring on the puppies!
@dramaprincess713 - I've read your posts over on the Massaccessi thread - did you make a decision? I'm still tempted by the burgundy croc (though I know it's discontinued) and I very much like my Juliet Midi in the gray Flor.

I think sticking to a schedule is extremely important.
Yesterday, some friends and I had/did a Zoom Happy Hour - which was fun; it was nice to see everyone and hear them too. But one person was… un-kept. Hair was a wreck and she was wearing a holey sweatshirt. She's been under a lot of stress as well, she's on several boards and they are having to make hard decisions on letting people go… so I'm worried for her as well. Without her regular schedule, I am concerned she might be feeling discombobulated, because her everything is off.
Plus I know she's trying to help keep 'us' (the group of friends) connected.
I know I need a little structure (heck I like structure in my purses!) - showers must be taken, beds must be made, the house must be cleaned, dog walked and fed, bills paid, all of that stuff that makes a day 'regular' needs to be done. Including getting dressed in real clothes (I went to the hospital in my jammies - oy… < face palm >) and brushing my hair, mascara too if I'm feeling nekkid.
I will probably still go in once a week, there is a program on my office computer that I can't get on my home computer (due to incompatibility with the company's software) and I need to do payroll and comp sheets.
Yesterday, especially after reading the Purse Blog article about cleaning our purses, I looked at mine and decided I was only going to carry the ones I know I can replace. That way if I ruin the handles or strap of my LV Pallas or LockMe Bucket with bleach wipes, I won't be as upset as I would be if I ruined my H Drag or my Dior Be Dior. I was going to carry the H tote I made because I can throw it in the wash, but decided I didn't like it enough!

I'm happy to hear you are feeling better. I agree - puppies for the win!

My confirmed MM orders are my black metallic Victoria (dark gunmetal HW, marine lining) and deep blue Africa Selene (letting Marco pick the HW and lining). I am fairly certain a metallic color-block and a pink/black/silver color-block will happen as some point, but I am still super undecided about styles. I'm wavering between a Selene, midi Selene or Victoria for a metallic color-block and a Zhoe, Grande Aura or Angelica messenger for a pink/black/silver color-block. I can't justify another bag purchase at the moment though so I'm have time to figure it out. I'm super excited for the two I have ordered, even though I know it will be a while before I have them. Never had a MM before, and I am very much looking forward to it!

I do thin keeping a routine and doing "real world" things (like getting dressed, a normal morning routine, etc.) are important. I have had varying success with it, but I'm trying. Yesterday, was cold and rainy, and I never left the apartment. I literally spent all day in my sleep tank - I never even put on pants! Today though, I got dressed. I mean, I'm in leggings, but I'm dressed, and I put on a bit of eyeliner and mascara. I'm currently avoiding work because the emails that I've already received this morning have me stressed and on the road to grumpy already. But I'll have to get started on some work soon. I do have a noon virtual flexibility class scheduled, so that is something to look forward to!

I never even thought about sanitizing or disinfecting my bag until I read about it here! It makes sense, but I'm feeling weirdly conflicted about it. I have so little use for any of my bags these days that if I do have a reason to use one, I want to use the bags I love. I don't want to use my bags that I don't really care about or don't mind if they're ruined! But, I also don't want to ruin the bags I love, so I probably should use ones that I don't care about so much. I feel like such a child - I don't wanna!

 

[momasaurus]

Thank you! Glad to be here, and I welcome the help!


Thank you! I do believe that I have come to the right place. This is certainly an interesting time to be examining my bag passion. The obsessiveness honestly makes me feel crazy sometimes. When I get like that, it truly feels like purchasing is the only way to get me to stop obsessing. There has to be a better way!

I think this is a good time to examine our bag passion, but maybe not to do anything drastic. Keeping track of our thoughts (mine at least change by the hour right now!), take action later. I did treat myself to 2 of the new Hermes lipsticks, just for the feels (I think @ElainePG did the same thing).

 

[keodi]

Woke up in a grumpy mood today which is frustrating because I had a great weekend. I’m just reeeaaally tired of being in the house. Like seriously. It’s been almost continuous for 6 weeks.

Hopefully my doctor says I get to stop wearing the medical boot tomorrow! That would definitely lift my spirits. I feel like my foot is trapped in concrete.

But, I won’t be back in heels for another month or so. In anticipation of being in flat shoes I bought these Jimmy Choo sneakers. They’re sparkly. View attachment 4695816
I missed them when they were in stores so I was happy to find a new pair resale. Yay! I’d love to have the silver ones as well so I’m keeping an eye out.

Other than that, I decided to list the green & pink Kate Spade bag I bought last year. I haven’t worn it once. So, it needs to go! That means two bags up for sale and my collection drops to only 22 bags. :faints: I’m more comfortable with 27-30 bags so, I really could do some bag hunting. But, nothing is interesting me at the moment. There are things I could buy that I’d really like but I don’t want to get back into that mode. I want to stick to only buying when a bag sits at the intersection of fitting a need (my lifestyle) and is one I crave.

How is everyone else fairing today?

Great score on the shoes!! i hope you get to take the medical boot off soon!

Congratulations on finding the shoes - I really hope the boot comes off tomorrow!

Our state is starting 'Stay at Home' effective Wednesday, they're saying for 2 weeks only but I think it will be longer.

While I think this is great - my co-worker (also known as Mr Cookie) thinks he will just keep on working.
My face =
My job now is to convince him to at the very least compromise and go in twice a week. One day to complete all the reports, another to get them packaged up and in the mail, all appointments go to teleconference - no excuses. Employees work from home.
Yesterday I had a panic attack, hyperventilated and wound up in the hospital.
Today, I'm working, but really spending it winding up things like the forwarding the mail and phones to make the transition as smooth as possible.

EDIT - My co-worker has told one office to bring their laptops home, PROGRESS!!

I'm sorry to hear about your panic attack, i'm glad you're doing better.

During this stressful time I have been trying to keep to some kind of schedule. I started dieting before it started but am sticking to it. I want to be that butterfly that comes out of its cocoon when this is over. Mind you an older butterfly but a butterfly never the less. As an artist with postponed events I have started to try different media that I am not comfortable with ,but I am learning new things that challenges my brain and hands. It is also a fantastic distraction.
Bag wise during this time I find I am happy with what I have in my closet even if I am not using it. I have discovered I am not always comfortable wearing my higher end bags. I live in a somewhat rural area and most people don't carry them . I now just go with what works with my life style . My main thing is that it has to be good quality no matter the price point. I save my higher end stuff for the little towns I like to visit that are a bit more affluent. Unless it flies under radar then I wear them anywhere.

I feel the same way!

Thank you @More bags , @dramaprincess713 , and @dcooney4 for your kind thoughts - I am feeling better now that I know at least one employee (the diabetic one) will be able to work at home, and I know I'm not alone. I think everyone is suffering a bit mental health-wise right now.
Bring on the puppies!
@dramaprincess713 - I've read your posts over on the Massaccessi thread - did you make a decision? I'm still tempted by the burgundy croc (though I know it's discontinued) and I very much like my Juliet Midi in the gray Flor.

I think sticking to a schedule is extremely important.
Yesterday, some friends and I had/did a Zoom Happy Hour - which was fun; it was nice to see everyone and hear them too. But one person was… un-kept. Hair was a wreck and she was wearing a holey sweatshirt. She's been under a lot of stress as well, she's on several boards and they are having to make hard decisions on letting people go… so I'm worried for her as well. Without her regular schedule, I am concerned she might be feeling discombobulated, because her everything is off.
Plus I know she's trying to help keep 'us' (the group of friends) connected.
I know I need a little structure (heck I like structure in my purses!) - showers must be taken, beds must be made, the house must be cleaned, dog walked and fed, bills paid, all of that stuff that makes a day 'regular' needs to be done. Including getting dressed in real clothes (I went to the hospital in my jammies - oy… < face palm >) and brushing my hair, mascara too if I'm feeling nekkid.
I will probably still go in once a week, there is a program on my office computer that I can't get on my home computer (due to incompatibility with the company's software) and I need to do payroll and comp sheets.
Yesterday, especially after reading the Purse Blog article about cleaning our purses, I looked at mine and decided I was only going to carry the ones I know I can replace. That way if I ruin the handles or strap of my LV Pallas or LockMe Bucket with bleach wipes, I won't be as upset as I would be if I ruined my H Drag or my Dior Be Dior. I was going to carry the H tote I made because I can throw it in the wash, but decided I didn't like it enough!

I agree on maintaining structure. My state has now implemented mandatory stay in place with the exception of essential personnel. effective midnight so earlier this morning. I was already working from home because of my immune compromised issues. I'm work at home indefinitely, and I keep my week work days structured. i find it helps me a lot; I wake up do yoga, shower, put on make-up, and get ready as though i'm going in the office, take my brake, and lunch. on the weekends i do my regular chores around the house, and for company, i have you guys here on TPF, movies, and Last night I had a virtual "back in time" 70s dance party with my parents back home in NYC. After my near death experience in 2018, my outlook on life in general changed, and I'm just trying to make the best out of this situation.
as for bags, i'll post my black bags when i get off work. i do have some holes in my bag closet i want to fill, but that will come at the end of the year.

 

[Sparkletastic]

During this stressful time I have been trying to keep to some kind of schedule. I started dieting before it started but am sticking to it. I want to be that butterfly that comes out of its cocoon when this is over. Mind you an older butterfly but a butterfly never the less. As an artist with postponed events I have started to try different media that I am not comfortable with ,but I am learning new things that challenges my brain and hands. It is also a fantastic distraction.
Bag wise during this time I find I am happy with what I have in my closet even if I am not using it. I have discovered I am not always comfortable wearing my higher end bags. I live in a somewhat rural area and most people don't carry them . I now just go with what works with my life style . My main thing is that it has to be good quality no matter the price point. I save my higher end stuff for the little towns I like to visit that are a bit more affluent. Unless it flies under radar then I wear them anywhere.

Just a POV. I found that when I have lived in cities where others didn’t typically wear designer bags, it actually worked to my advantage. No one knew my bags or cared about my bags. So, except for work situations, I could wear them without any issue. Are you getting reaction to your bags or are you presuming reaction? Maybe it’s less of an issue than you think and you can start feeling more comfortable with your bags.

Thank you @More bags , @dramaprincess713 , and @dcooney4 for your kind thoughts - I am feeling better now that I know at least one employee (the diabetic one) will be able to work at home, and I know I'm not alone. I think everyone is suffering a bit mental health-wise right now.
Bring on the puppies!
@dramaprincess713 - I've read your posts over on the Massaccessi thread - did you make a decision? I'm still tempted by the burgundy croc (though I know it's discontinued) and I very much like my Juliet Midi in the gray Flor.

I think sticking to a schedule is extremely important.
Yesterday, some friends and I had/did a Zoom Happy Hour - which was fun; it was nice to see everyone and hear them too. But one person was… un-kept. Hair was a wreck and she was wearing a holey sweatshirt. She's been under a lot of stress as well, she's on several boards and they are having to make hard decisions on letting people go… so I'm worried for her as well. Without her regular schedule, I am concerned she might be feeling discombobulated, because her everything is off.
Plus I know she's trying to help keep 'us' (the group of friends) connected.
I know I need a little structure (heck I like structure in my purses!) - showers must be taken, beds must be made, the house must be cleaned, dog walked and fed, bills paid, all of that stuff that makes a day 'regular' needs to be done. Including getting dressed in real clothes (I went to the hospital in my jammies - oy… < face palm >) and brushing my hair, mascara too if I'm feeling nekkid.
I will probably still go in once a week, there is a program on my office computer that I can't get on my home computer (due to incompatibility with the company's software) and I need to do payroll and comp sheets.
Yesterday, especially after reading the Purse Blog article about cleaning our purses, I looked at mine and decided I was only going to carry the ones I know I can replace. That way if I ruin the handles or strap of my LV Pallas or LockMe Bucket with bleach wipes, I won't be as upset as I would be if I ruined my H Drag or my Dior Be Dior. I was going to carry the H tote I made because I can throw it in the wash, but decided I didn't like it enough!

I’m struggling a bit to keep a schedule and I’m surprised since I work from home as the norm. The main issue for me is that I’m now going into week EIGHT of being at home almost all the time.

Also, my usual week day starts with a workout. It gets me going mentally and physically. I can’t work out with my bottom half healing or unstable - not even rehab or simple walks. Yeah, I could do a chair workout but I’m not motivated or interested. So, that structure and mental boost I get from the early am workouts is gone. That means I’m sleeping later and more likely to be inexplicably sad / grumpy. I’m not a moody person so I hate it!

I’ve held a few social zoom meetings for my clubs and friends. Some I’ve moderated, some free form. I’m literally trying it all. Lol! While others seem to really enjoy them and be grateful for me doing so, I gotta admit. They are doing nothing for my mood. I’m just not a “talker”. I don’t like Skyping and I hate talking on the phone. I prefer being with people and doing things where conversation is a fun byproduct OR having solitude to read, exercise, meditate, etc. The only time I really enjoy endless talk is in a class or lecture. Soooooo...

A bit of good news! The boot can come off! Now I just need to find a shoe that will accommodate my bandaged foot as the doctor wants me to keep it wrapped to support the ligaments. Whoo hoo! I may have to buy 2 pair of something. One regular width and one wide width and just wear one of each.

 

[Sparkletastic]

Thank you @More bags , @dramaprincess713 , and @dcooney4 for your kind thoughts - I am feeling better now that I know at least one employee (the diabetic one) will be able to work at home, and I know I'm not alone. I think everyone is suffering a bit mental health-wise right now.
Bring on the puppies!
@dramaprincess713 - I've read your posts over on the Massaccessi thread - did you make a decision? I'm still tempted by the burgundy croc (though I know it's discontinued) and I very much like my Juliet Midi in the gray Flor.

I think sticking to a schedule is extremely important.
Yesterday, some friends and I had/did a Zoom Happy Hour - which was fun; it was nice to see everyone and hear them too. But one person was… un-kept. Hair was a wreck and she was wearing a holey sweatshirt. She's been under a lot of stress as well, she's on several boards and they are having to make hard decisions on letting people go… so I'm worried for her as well. Without her regular schedule, I am concerned she might be feeling discombobulated, because her everything is off.
Plus I know she's trying to help keep 'us' (the group of friends) connected.
I know I need a little structure (heck I like structure in my purses!) - showers must be taken, beds must be made, the house must be cleaned, dog walked and fed, bills paid, all of that stuff that makes a day 'regular' needs to be done. Including getting dressed in real clothes (I went to the hospital in my jammies - oy… < face palm >) and brushing my hair, mascara too if I'm feeling nekkid.
I will probably still go in once a week, there is a program on my office computer that I can't get on my home computer (due to incompatibility with the company's software) and I need to do payroll and comp sheets.
Yesterday, especially after reading the Purse Blog article about cleaning our purses, I looked at mine and decided I was only going to carry the ones I know I can replace. That way if I ruin the handles or strap of my LV Pallas or LockMe Bucket with bleach wipes, I won't be as upset as I would be if I ruined my H Drag or my Dior Be Dior. I was going to carry the H tote I made because I can throw it in the wash, but decided I didn't like it enough!

If I do get an opportunity to leave the house, I’m going to wear whatever bag makes me happy. I don’t put my bags on the ground and with the quarantine, I won’t even have occasion to really be sitting in public where my bag would be on a table or in a seat. So, really it would be about to straps. I’m not wiping down keys, sunglasses, packaged food I bring in the house, etc. and other items I will touch when I’m out. So, if I won’t sanitize a gallon of milk, carton of eggs, or can of corn etc. that others may have touched before I bring them in the house, I don’t feel the need to sanitize my purse that only I will have touched. Just a perspective.

What I am doing is what I always did: no shoes in the house and washing hands as soon as I get home. (and of course washing hands / using sanitizer as many times as available while I’m out) I also use sanitizing wipes on my phone while I’m out and when I get home.

 

[keodi]

Just a POV. I found that when I have lived in cities where others didn’t typically wear designer bags, it actually worked to my advantage. No one knew my bags or cared about my bags. So, except for work situations, I could wear them without any issue. Are you getting reaction to your bags or are you presuming reaction? Maybe it’s less of an issue than you think and you can start feeling more comfortable with your bags.
I’m struggling a bit to keep a schedule and I’m surprised since I work from home as the norm. The main issue for me is that I’m now going into week EIGHT of being at home almost all the time.

Also, my usual week day starts with a workout. It gets me going mentally and physically. I can’t work out with my bottom half healing or unstable - not even rehab or simple walks. Yeah, I could do a chair workout but I’m not motivated or interested. So, that structure and mental boost I get from the early am workouts is gone. That means I’m sleeping later and more likely to be inexplicably sad / grumpy. I’m not a moody person so I hate it!

I’ve held a few social zoom meetings for my clubs and friends. Some I’ve moderated, some free form. I’m literally trying it all. Lol! While others seem to really enjoy them and be grateful for me doing so, I gotta admit. They are doing nothing for my mood. I’m just not a “talker”. I don’t like Skyping and I hate talking on the phone. I prefer being with people and doing things where conversation is a fun byproduct OR having solitude to read, exercise, meditate, etc. The only time I really enjoy endless talk is in a class or lecture. Soooooo...

A bit of good news! The boot can come off! Now I just need to find a shoe that will accommodate my bandaged foot as the doctor wants me to keep it wrapped to support the ligaments. Whoo hoo! I may have to buy 2 pair of something. One regular width and one wide width and just wear one of each.

That is fantastic news!!!

 

[Cookiefiend]

I'm happy to hear you are feeling better. I agree - puppies for the win!

My confirmed MM orders are my black metallic Victoria (dark gunmetal HW, marine lining) and deep blue Africa Selene (letting Marco pick the HW and lining). I am fairly certain a metallic color-block and a pink/black/silver color-block will happen as some point, but I am still super undecided about styles. I'm wavering between a Selene, midi Selene or Victoria for a metallic color-block and a Zhoe, Grande Aura or Angelica messenger for a pink/black/silver color-block. I can't justify another bag purchase at the moment though so I'm have time to figure it out. I'm super excited for the two I have ordered, even though I know it will be a while before I have them. Never had a MM before, and I am very much looking forward to it!

I do thin keeping a routine and doing "real world" things (like getting dressed, a normal morning routine, etc.) are important. I have had varying success with it, but I'm trying. Yesterday, was cold and rainy, and I never left the apartment. I literally spent all day in my sleep tank - I never even put on pants! Today though, I got dressed. I mean, I'm in leggings, but I'm dressed, and I put on a bit of eyeliner and mascara. I'm currently avoiding work because the emails that I've already received this morning have me stressed and on the road to grumpy already. But I'll have to get started on some work soon. I do have a noon virtual flexibility class scheduled, so that is something to look forward to!

I never even thought about sanitizing or disinfecting my bag until I read about it here! It makes sense, but I'm feeling weirdly conflicted about it. I have so little use for any of my bags these days that if I do have a reason to use one, I want to use the bags I love. I don't want to use my bags that I don't really care about or don't mind if they're ruined! But, I also don't want to ruin the bags I love, so I probably should use ones that I don't care about so much. I feel like such a child - I don't wanna!

hahaa! I get it - I don't wanna either!
The blue Africa will be beautiful - I can't wait to see them!

Great score on the shoes!! i hope you get to take the medical boot off soon!

I'm sorry to hear about your panic attack, i'm glad you're doing better.

I feel the same way!

I agree on maintaining structure. My state has now implemented mandatory stay in place with the exception of essential personnel. effective midnight so earlier this morning. I was already working from home because of my immune compromised issues. I'm work at home indefinitely, and I keep my week work days structured. i find it helps me a lot; I wake up do yoga, shower, put on make-up, and get ready as though i'm going in the office, take my brake, and lunch. on the weekends i do my regular chores around the house, and for company, i have you guys here on TPF, movies, and Last night I had a virtual "back in time" 70s dance party with my parents back home in NYC. After my near death experience in 2018, my outlook on life in general changed, and I'm just trying to make the best out of this situation.
as for bags, i'll post my black bags when i get off work. i do have some holes in my bag closet i want to fill, but that will come at the end of the year.

Thank you sweetie - I am feeling better and trying to make the best of a bad situation.
A '70s dance party sounds so fun!

Just a POV. I found that when I have lived in cities where others didn’t typically wear designer bags, it actually worked to my advantage. No one knew my bags or cared about my bags. So, except for work situations, I could wear them without any issue. Are you getting reaction to your bags or are you presuming reaction? Maybe it’s less of an issue than you think and you can start feeling more comfortable with your bags.
I’m struggling a bit to keep a schedule and I’m surprised since I work from home as the norm. The main issue for me is that I’m now going into week EIGHT of being at home almost all the time.

Also, my usual week day starts with a workout. It gets me going mentally and physically. I can’t work out with my bottom half healing or unstable - not even rehab or simple walks. Yeah, I could do a chair workout but I’m not motivated or interested. So, that structure and mental boost I get from the early am workouts is gone. That means I’m sleeping later and more likely to be inexplicably sad / grumpy. I’m not a moody person so I hate it!

I’ve held a few social zoom meetings for my clubs and friends. Some I’ve moderated, some free form. I’m literally trying it all. Lol! While others seem to really enjoy them and be grateful for me doing so, I gotta admit. They are doing nothing for my mood. I’m just not a “talker”. I don’t like Skyping and I hate talking on the phone. I prefer being with people and doing things where conversation is a fun byproduct OR having solitude to read, exercise, meditate, etc. The only time I really enjoy endless talk is in a class or lecture. Soooooo...

A bit of good news! The boot can come off! Now I just need to find a shoe that will accommodate my bandaged foot as the doctor wants me to keep it wrapped to support the ligaments. Whoo hoo! I may have to buy 2 pair of something. One regular width and one wide width and just wear one of each.

Well - yay the boot is coming off! Boo - having to buy 2 pairs of shoes… how long will you need to be wrapped? Maybe you can find something not too expensive?
I'm not much a talker either (something I noticed on the 2 Zooms I've done) but I do listen well. Some people are definitely talkers and they're not getting much of an opportunity to talk to (or at) others right now!

If I do get an opportunity to leave the house, I’m going to wear whatever bag makes me happy. I don’t put my bags on the ground and with the quarantine, I won’t even have occasion to really be sitting in public where my bag would be on a table or in a seat. So, really it would be about to straps. I’m not wiping down keys, sunglasses, packaged food I bring in the house, etc. and other items I will touch when I’m out. So, if I won’t sanitize a gallon of milk, carton of eggs, or can of corn etc. that others may have touched before I bring them in the house, I don’t feel the need to sanitize my purse that only I will have touched. Just a perspective.

What I am doing is what I always did: no shoes in the house and washing hands as soon as I get home. (and of course washing hands / using sanitizer as many times as available while I’m out) I also use sanitizing wipes on my phone while I’m out and when I get home.

Yeah… I hear you! It's why I didn't take the tote I made - it's washable and big enough… but I don't like it enough to carry it unless I absolutely have to. I did wipe the handle of my LV Pallas with a clorox wipe yesterday - I figure they're dark anyway and will get darker with time.
But you're completely right - my hands are clean and washed often (my poor cuticles), I don't set my purse anywhere dirty, and with the Shelter in Place order - I'm not going anywhere except the grocery that I would need to worry about it getting dirty/infected.
Now when I came home from the hospital, I was told by both my nurse and the ER doctor to undress (everything - which wasn't much because I was in my pjs) in the garage, shower, and wash everything, including my glasses. After showering I went out to the garage with tongs, picked up my clothes and put them directly in the washing machine. I did not feel like that was overkill, but their warning did kinda scare me.

 

[Rhl2987]

During this stressful time I have been trying to keep to some kind of schedule. I started dieting before it started but am sticking to it. I want to be that butterfly that comes out of its cocoon when this is over. Mind you an older butterfly but a butterfly never the less. As an artist with postponed events I have started to try different media that I am not comfortable with ,but I am learning new things that challenges my brain and hands. It is also a fantastic distraction.
Bag wise during this time I find I am happy with what I have in my closet even if I am not using it. I have discovered I am not always comfortable wearing my higher end bags. I live in a somewhat rural area and most people don't carry them . I now just go with what works with my life style . My main thing is that it has to be good quality no matter the price point. I save my higher end stuff for the little towns I like to visit that are a bit more affluent. Unless it flies under radar then I wear them anywhere.

Please share more about your diet! I am really struggling and am gaining weight currently, which does not help me mentally at all. I'm still working out almost everyday but food and eating is always my struggle.

 

[ElainePG]

Thank you so much dear Elaine. I am not on the prowl for anything new to add to my black bags, at the moment. I am focusing on enjoying and using what I have. I don’t get the clutch out as often as my other bags. I just don’t have a clutch lifestyle right now. If I did, I would certainly search out a BV Gigolo Red Lauren Clutch!

Me, too! I'm madly in love with that bag. If I were younger, sexier, taller, and had a "clutch bag" life style, that bag would already be in my hot(ish) little hands!

 

[Rhl2987]

Thank you @More bags , @dramaprincess713 , and @dcooney4 for your kind thoughts - I am feeling better now that I know at least one employee (the diabetic one) will be able to work at home, and I know I'm not alone. I think everyone is suffering a bit mental health-wise right now.
Bring on the puppies!
@dramaprincess713 - I've read your posts over on the Massaccessi thread - did you make a decision? I'm still tempted by the burgundy croc (though I know it's discontinued) and I very much like my Juliet Midi in the gray Flor.

I think sticking to a schedule is extremely important.
Yesterday, some friends and I had/did a Zoom Happy Hour - which was fun; it was nice to see everyone and hear them too. But one person was… un-kept. Hair was a wreck and she was wearing a holey sweatshirt. She's been under a lot of stress as well, she's on several boards and they are having to make hard decisions on letting people go… so I'm worried for her as well. Without her regular schedule, I am concerned she might be feeling discombobulated, because her everything is off.
Plus I know she's trying to help keep 'us' (the group of friends) connected.
I know I need a little structure (heck I like structure in my purses!) - showers must be taken, beds must be made, the house must be cleaned, dog walked and fed, bills paid, all of that stuff that makes a day 'regular' needs to be done. Including getting dressed in real clothes (I went to the hospital in my jammies - oy… < face palm >) and brushing my hair, mascara too if I'm feeling nekkid.
I will probably still go in once a week, there is a program on my office computer that I can't get on my home computer (due to incompatibility with the company's software) and I need to do payroll and comp sheets.
Yesterday, especially after reading the Purse Blog article about cleaning our purses, I looked at mine and decided I was only going to carry the ones I know I can replace. That way if I ruin the handles or strap of my LV Pallas or LockMe Bucket with bleach wipes, I won't be as upset as I would be if I ruined my H Drag or my Dior Be Dior. I was going to carry the H tote I made because I can throw it in the wash, but decided I didn't like it enough!

Thank you for sharing. I hope that your friend will be okay. I try to check in individually on friends when I can.

I like hearing about your routine. Perhaps I can get to that point. I will have a temporary slowdown with work starting tomorrow, unless my call tomorrow leads to more help with another project immediately. I want to try to take some time to begin accomplishing things that make me feel better overall. I'm just down in the dumps at the moment, so need to take more time and effort!

 

[Rhl2987]

Me, too! I'm madly in love with that bag. If I were younger, sexier, taller, and had a "clutch bag" life style, that bag would already be in my hot(ish) little hands!
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That's beautiful!

 

[Rhl2987]

Great score on the shoes!! i hope you get to take the medical boot off soon!

I'm sorry to hear about your panic attack, i'm glad you're doing better.

I feel the same way!

I agree on maintaining structure. My state has now implemented mandatory stay in place with the exception of essential personnel. effective midnight so earlier this morning. I was already working from home because of my immune compromised issues. I'm work at home indefinitely, and I keep my week work days structured. i find it helps me a lot; I wake up do yoga, shower, put on make-up, and get ready as though i'm going in the office, take my brake, and lunch. on the weekends i do my regular chores around the house, and for company, i have you guys here on TPF, movies, and Last night I had a virtual "back in time" 70s dance party with my parents back home in NYC. After my near death experience in 2018, my outlook on life in general changed, and I'm just trying to make the best out of this situation.
as for bags, i'll post my black bags when i get off work. i do have some holes in my bag closet i want to fill, but that will come at the end of the year.

That is incredible that you had a virtual 70's dance party with your parents. I love that so much!!