2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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Yes - places like a Dress for Success and Salvation Army. I used to donate a lot through the Junior League’s resale shop, but it has closed. I give things to family members first though if possible!
Ha! Yes, if I’m going through the effort to package it up nicely and haul it to the post office - I’d like a little more than $2.00, thank you very much! I haven’t gotten any snarky messages yet - thank goodness - but seriously... I’m not having a fire sale, I’m not making a living by selling on PM, I’m just trying to pass on a quality item for a third or less than retail.
Now I feel like pulling everything and just donating it!
Oof - let’s talk about something more cheerful! What’s everyone carrying today?
I carried my red Ferragamo Studio bag - I’m so happy with it!
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Gorgeous!
 
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@sexycombover - I totally hear you about feeling conflicted about taking low offers for bags. You say it so well - “literally paying for past poor buying choices”. I have a vintage Ferragamo classic gancini flap that I LOVE the look of but it just doesn’t suit my lifestyle or wardrobe. And I know I’d only get pennies on the dollar for it. But, in the spirit of this thread, I either need to use it or let it go...not languish in the back of my closet!

Vacations and sales are bad temptations for impulse purchases...but does anyone else also have problems with really nice salespeople? There have been a few independent boutiques where I’ve gotten to know the owner and then I almost feel pressured to support their business and buy every time I visit. Anyone else feel this? How do you leave a store gracefully without buying when you’ve spent a lot of time with the SA?
This is me too! Lately I try to not go in the store rather than come out empty handed.
 
I don't have too many goals when it comes to my handbags. I want to keep them at a minimum but I am allowed to purchase items to collect (Louis Vuitton LEs for example). I also need to keep remembering that I shouldn't normalise spending so much money on a handbag or accessories. I adore fashion but to normalise that excessive spending is unhealthy and unrealistic. The Purse Forum is a great place but it can also be really enabling. I almost ran out to purchase another item until reality hit me: that I cannot purchase it without feeling financially guilty. It was hard to say no to myself but I have self control. A full savings account is better than any handbag.
 
I don't have too many goals when it comes to my handbags. I want to keep them at a minimum but I am allowed to purchase items to collect (Louis Vuitton LEs for example). I also need to keep remembering that I shouldn't normalise spending so much money on a handbag or accessories. I adore fashion but to normalise that excessive spending is unhealthy and unrealistic. The Purse Forum is a great place but it can also be really enabling. I almost ran out to purchase another item until reality hit me: that I cannot purchase it without feeling financially guilty. It was hard to say no to myself but I have self control. A full savings account is better than any handbag.
Proud of you!!!! It is hard! Keep up the good work
 
Great goals Annabel Lee. Best wishes on your January no extra spend challenge!


Great 2020 goals. I have a Bolide 31 - I love its beauty and how functional it is for my lifestyle. When you’re ready, there is a wonderful Ode to the Bolide thread with tons of pics.

Thank you! So far, so good, though I have been tempted a couple of times. I'm planning a trip in March to an area with a lot of great shopping, so now I'm actually going to make it no extra spending in January AND February. Eeek.

Warning - purse nerd alert, long post
December Update and 2019 Year End Stats
  • Carried 16 bags in December 2019
  • Read 39 books in 2019
  • Maintained 1 in 1 out policy on bags in 2019
Dec Stats
Bags - 0 in, 0 out
SLGs - 0 in, 0 out

2019 Year End Stats
Bags - 2 in, 2 out
SLGs - 3 in, 4 out

2019 Top 11 Bags, by Usage
  1. Hermes Evelyne III PM, Etoupe - 40
  2. Gucci Soho Disco, Black - 37
  3. Chanel Reissue 226, Black - 36
  4. Hermes Bolide 31, Etain - 35
  5. Chanel Reissue 226, Red - 25
  6. Chanel Coco (Lizard) Handle Small, Burgundy - 24
  7. Chanel Reissue Camera bag, Silver Metallic - 22
  8. Hermes Garden Party 36, Rouge H - 21
  9. Hermes So Kelly Eclat 22, Bleu Sapphire/Bleu Izmir - 21
  10. Chanel WOC, black - 21
  11. Longchamp Le Pliage, Gun Metal - 21
2019 Colours, by Usage
  1. Black - 123
  2. Grey/Silver - 118
  3. Red/Burgundy - 84
  4. Blue - 36
Goals and Habits

The guiding principles I declared back in the 2017 version of this thread,
2017 Goals/Habits
I created a general set of goals for my bags/SLGs and overall closet. No planned acquisitions, no ban, enjoy what I have, mindful purchases are okay.
  • Edit my belongings to what I love, use or find beautiful
  • Use and enjoy with gratitude what I choose to keep, shop my closet (I think I got this from someone on this thread, @bakeacookie, was it you?)
  • Reduce my possessions, I have enough
  • Be selective, thoughtful and mindful for things I purchase
  • 30 day delayed gratification list
  • 1 in 1 or more out
2020 Goals/Habits
  • Practice a “no settling” philosophy, per @Annabel Lee and @papertiger
  • Edit my belongings to what I love, use and find beautiful
  • Use and enjoy what I choose to keep, shop my closet
  • Reduce my possessions, I have enough
  • Be selective, thoughtful and mindful for things I purchase
  • Continue tracking my wears of bags (since 2014), clothing, shoes and jewelry (since 2015)
  • Continue to put perceived wants on a 30 Day Delayed Gratification List
  • Continue practicing a 1 in 1 or more out policy
  • Review and assess wardrobe adds (bags, SLGs, jewelry, clothing and shoes) throughout the year and at year end for frequency of use (were they good purchases or was I wearing sales goggles?)
  • Remember this quote which I have at the top of my 30 Day Delayed Gratification List, “Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for” - Epicurus or as @diane278 simply stated on her thread, “Remember when you wanted what you currently have.”
The above methods may not work for everyone, they work for me at this stage of life. My goal is to have a well edited collection of bags that work for my lifestyle, that I love and use regularly. I use and enjoy with gratitude what I choose to keep and continue shopping my closet.

Happy new year to my pocket friends and good luck with all of your 2020 goals!

I love all of this so much. Great analysis on all your stats, and I love the guiding principles you put forth.

I recommend “The Good Lord Bird” by James McBride. Finishing it up right now. It’s about the adventures of John Brown, the abolitionist, and his runaway slave companion named Onion who’s disguised as a girl. Some parts are quite hilarious.

Edit: I’ll PM you re: future recommendations to avoid hijacking this thread.
I apologize in advance to thread members if I'm incorrect, but I believe we've posted book recommendation here from time to time.
I certainly have benefited from this, and I think other thread members have as well… yes? No? What do we all think? If we're reading, we can't be shopping, right? :biggrin:
I'm going to look for "The Good Lord Bird." :smile:

I'll be shopping for books, haha. Count me among those who love book recommendations!

It is… thank you for asking. The concussion symptoms are very nearly all gone.
I saw my doctor on Friday, and she was amazed at how quickly I've healed. She also cleared me to drive!!! :yahoo:
Yay! That's terrific news, Elaine!


For me the nothing in is to hard and will almost guarantee I fail, but is me. What I have done is set aside a little bit of money that I have earned from selling old junk or bags and my extra coffee money and keep it at the ready so if I see something I truly love I can have it as long as there is space in my closet. Though I have found once I have the cash at hand I don't like spending it.

Same! I'd rather keep the cash. I also could never do a nothing-in challenge for long. I can (and need to) be choosy about a new purchase, but odds are that there will be one.

Is anyone else having fomo when selling bags? I feel like I've been getting low offers, but at the same time, I know I never use the bags I'm selling. It seems silly at the end of the day. I need to be in the mindset of I'm paying for (proverbially) my poor purchases. Or I've already enjoyed this bag for what it's worth, I think. Ugh.

I do think it's easy to keep an inflated idea of a bag's worth in mind, and I'm definitely guilty of this. I have to remind myself that even when I used something gently or infrequently, what I paid is not what it's worth. But there are some brands that just do not hold their value for resale, and that's a real shame.

Reading everyone’s goals and getting inspired.
This is a big year for me. I will be leaving my long-time corporate job in a few months to venture in new waters. That means new wardrobe needs, but also significantly less income for the time being so I am going to have to thread carefully!

So, joining this thread with these 2020 goals:

- Stop buying blazers! I have already sold my non-denim Balmains and a couple others. But I have also just fell for a Ganni one on the sale... Not a big expense but blazers are my weakness and I need to keep that in check.

- Don’t add to my total number of handbags. That doesn’t mean not buying a new handbag, as my needs are going to change. But if one comes in one goes out, no way around it. I am quite happy with my handbags at the moment, so if I buy anything, I should like it better than something I already have.

- Repeat to myself like a mantra: I have no need for more coats. And truly, I don’t.

- Set up a budget for fashion/clothes and stick to it religiously.

- Within that budget, buy more vintage/ pre-loved. I don’t tend to buy pre loved clothes but when I have done I have been very happy, so I want to explore that more as I am attracted by the sustainability aspect, the chase for unique pieces, and, of course, the prices.

- Take proper care of my clothes: mend buttons, deal with stains and small repairs quickly, handwash, take shoes regularly to the cobbler (better yet, learn how to properly treat leather shoes and bags) keep them tidy and well stored, that sort of thing.

I am sure there will be more. Work in progress.

Wishing everybody the best possible start of the decade!

Love this post - am with you on the blazer addiction - do you think it’s a work thing? Blazers elevate denim and dresses as well -
Something so smart about a well fitting blazer
Sigh

Blazers and coats are a major weakness of mine as well! I think I'm also about at capacity on those, but I'm not ready to admit it yet.
 
Here’s the bag I shopped from my closet today, LV Dora.
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@tenKrat I love your gorgeous red Dora! :love:

@Cookiefiend Contributing to the line up of red bags, I shopped my closet and today I carried my red Chanel Reissue 226.

Gorgeous!! I have red bag envy right now. :heart:

@sexycombover - I totally hear you about feeling conflicted about taking low offers for bags. You say it so well - “literally paying for past poor buying choices”. I have a vintage Ferragamo classic gancini flap that I LOVE the look of but it just doesn’t suit my lifestyle or wardrobe. And I know I’d only get pennies on the dollar for it. But, in the spirit of this thread, I either need to use it or let it go...not languish in the back of my closet!

Vacations and sales are bad temptations for impulse purchases...but does anyone else also have problems with really nice salespeople? There have been a few independent boutiques where I’ve gotten to know the owner and then I almost feel pressured to support their business and buy every time I visit. Anyone else feel this? How do you leave a store gracefully without buying when you’ve spent a lot of time with the SA?

I recently let go of five bags that had literally been sitting in my closet for at least several years, because the styles just didn't suit my wardrobe and I simply never reached for them. I think part of the problem, too, was that I didn't have an easy way to transfer my belongings from one bag to another - all of my little items, chapstick and random papers/receipts and so on, would just be stuffed haphazardly in whatever pockets my bag had - and that has definitely changed as of last year, as I now have a small collection of lovely SLGs that are helping with organizing in my handbags.

But I am glad I let go of them. Two of them went to a friend who re-gifted to her mom and her brother's girlfriend, and the other four went to another friend and her family. To me, the bags are more valuable gone because they free up closet space, but also because I know they will enjoy more use with someone else.

One of those bags was a (giant) Gucci canvas shopper tote with an included thick shoulder/messenger strap. My friend (who is a teacher, and has great need of large bags as a result) was SO happy to receive it. It almost made my heart burst to see her joy, as a fellow lover of beautiful bags.

I definitely have a problem with buying stuff on vacation. For me, it's like having a little memento of my trip with me once I'm back home. My most recent case was a Celine Nano Belt Bag that I purchased when I was on my solo trip to Switzerland - I took a quick detour/trip to visit friends in Milan, and on my last day there just strolled around a Rinascente shopping center looking at beautiful luxury handbags, and just couldn't resist the siren call (I had fallen in love with the bag during an earlier trip to Italy, when I walked away with only a beautiful continental zip wallet).

I do have to admit that it's such a beautiful bag. I love using it and I also remember the great lengths I went to in order to get my VAT refund!
 
Gorgeous!
Thank you!
Here’s the bag I shopped from my closet today, LV Dora.
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Ooo - gorgeous leather! I'm not familiar with this style - it looks very interesting!
Two bags out so far this month. One had been sitting around for a very long time. Happy it finally went.
Congratulations!! :yahoo:
@tenKrat I love your gorgeous red Dora! :love:

@Cookiefiend Contributing to the line up of red bags, I shopped my closet and today I carried my red Chanel Reissue 226.
What a beauty! :love:
Gorgeous!! I have red bag envy right now. :heart:



I recently let go of five bags that had literally been sitting in my closet for at least several years, because the styles just didn't suit my wardrobe and I simply never reached for them. I think part of the problem, too, was that I didn't have an easy way to transfer my belongings from one bag to another - all of my little items, chapstick and random papers/receipts and so on, would just be stuffed haphazardly in whatever pockets my bag had - and that has definitely changed as of last year, as I now have a small collection of lovely SLGs that are helping with organizing in my handbags.

But I am glad I let go of them. Two of them went to a friend who re-gifted to her mom and her brother's girlfriend, and the other four went to another friend and her family. To me, the bags are more valuable gone because they free up closet space, but also because I know they will enjoy more use with someone else.

One of those bags was a (giant) Gucci canvas shopper tote with an included thick shoulder/messenger strap. My friend (who is a teacher, and has great need of large bags as a result) was SO happy to receive it. It almost made my heart burst to see her joy, as a fellow lover of beautiful bags.

I definitely have a problem with buying stuff on vacation. For me, it's like having a little memento of my trip with me once I'm back home. My most recent case was a Celine Nano Belt Bag that I purchased when I was on my solo trip to Switzerland - I took a quick detour/trip to visit friends in Milan, and on my last day there just strolled around a Rinascente shopping center looking at beautiful luxury handbags, and just couldn't resist the siren call (I had fallen in love with the bag during an earlier trip to Italy, when I walked away with only a beautiful continental zip wallet).

I do have to admit that it's such a beautiful bag. I love using it and I also remember the great lengths I went to in order to get my VAT refund!
Congratulations! 5 bags out is huge, and how wonderful it is to have given a bag to a friend who was so happy to receive it.
 
Love this post - am with you on the blazer addiction - do you think it’s a work thing? Blazers elevate denim and dresses as well -
Something so smart about a well fitting blazer
Sigh
I know right? I don’t even know how to wear jeans if not with a blazer :P

It is not a work thing for me. Or not only, because it’s true I would not be without one at the office. But I started wearing blazers as a teenager. I remember my first one perfectly. A Daniel Hechter madras print in blues and greens that I wore with surfer t-shirts and Levis 501s... They have been my uniform since, even through that dark period at the end of the 90s when no one even slightly fashionable wore them until Stella McCartney came to the rescue.

If I go shopping, for trousers, or a shirt, or underwear, whatever... somehow I come back with a blazer. It is all I see in the shops. It is some sort of condition...
 
Reading everyone’s goals and getting inspired.
This is a big year for me. I will be leaving my long-time corporate job in a few months to venture in new waters. That means new wardrobe needs, but also significantly less income for the time being so I am going to have to thread carefully!

So, joining this thread with these 2020 goals:

- Stop buying blazers! I have already sold my non-denim Balmains and a couple others. But I have also just fell for a Ganni one on the sale... Not a big expense but blazers are my weakness and I need to keep that in check.

- Don’t add to my total number of handbags. That doesn’t mean not buying a new handbag, as my needs are going to change. But if one comes in one goes out, no way around it. I am quite happy with my handbags at the moment, so if I buy anything, I should like it better than something I already have.

- Repeat to myself like a mantra: I have no need for more coats. And truly, I don’t.

- Set up a budget for fashion/clothes and stick to it religiously.

- Within that budget, buy more vintage/ pre-loved. I don’t tend to buy pre loved clothes but when I have done I have been very happy, so I want to explore that more as I am attracted by the sustainability aspect, the chase for unique pieces, and, of course, the prices.

- Take proper care of my clothes: mend buttons, deal with stains and small repairs quickly, handwash, take shoes regularly to the cobbler (better yet, learn how to properly treat leather shoes and bags) keep them tidy and well stored, that sort of thing.

I am sure there will be more. Work in progress.

Wishing everybody the best possible start of the decade!
Reading everyone’s goals and getting inspired.
This is a big year for me. I will be leaving my long-time corporate job in a few months to venture in new waters. That means new wardrobe needs, but also significantly less income for the time being so I am going to have to thread carefully!

So, joining this thread with these 2020 goals:

- Stop buying blazers! I have already sold my non-denim Balmains and a couple others. But I have also just fell for a Ganni one on the sale... Not a big expense but blazers are my weakness and I need to keep that in check.

- Don’t add to my total number of handbags. That doesn’t mean not buying a new handbag, as my needs are going to change. But if one comes in one goes out, no way around it. I am quite happy with my handbags at the moment, so if I buy anything, I should like it better than something I already have.

- Repeat to myself like a mantra: I have no need for more coats. And truly, I don’t.

- Set up a budget for fashion/clothes and stick to it religiously.

- Within that budget, buy more vintage/ pre-loved. I don’t tend to buy pre loved clothes but when I have done I have been very happy, so I want to explore that more as I am attracted by the sustainability aspect, the chase for unique pieces, and, of course, the prices.

- Take proper care of my clothes: mend buttons, deal with stains and small repairs quickly, handwash, take shoes regularly to the cobbler (better yet, learn how to properly treat leather shoes and bags) keep them tidy and well stored, that sort of thing.

I am sure there will be more. Work in progress.

Wishing everybody the best possible start of the decade!
A Great blazer is a wardrobe staple and it’s so hard not to buy everyone you see. I love to wear with jeans a blouse and pumps. I am currently eyeing a tan Balmain blazer but I’m trying to stay focused on my jewelry goals. I’m going to Vegas this weekend so I hopefully don’t get distracted. I plan to go to VCA as I need to try on the 4 motif bracelet that I have on list for my birthday.
 
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