I have some crossbody bags but only small ones. I think larger bags are too heavy and stick out too much from my body when worn crossbody. I feel awkward putting the strap over my head and then having to reverse that to take it off. I don't carry them for long periods, just from the car into some place and back again, so I often just put them on my shoulder and carry them that way. I don't use crossbody bags when I shop or travel because that's when I feel I need more room for a water bottle and whatever else I might need when away from home or the car for a more extended period. I rarely hand carry anything. I do have a few top handle bags that I don't wear with a strap so those I do hand carry. It makes me feel especially ladylike when I use them. I have a few clutches but I don't use them often. Those also make me feel grown up and feminine.Interesting thoughts on the crossbody/satchel style. I posted a picture of my Alexa on Sunday as it’s my absolute go to casual weekend bag. I love the convenience of its long strap and the vibe as it bounces along beside or slightly behind me. It’s so easy to get things in and out plus my hands are free for shopping! I have a small bayswater satchel and a coach mercer I wear crossbody too. Great bags I use a lot but not quite my Alexa.
Shoulder or over the arm bags I generally use for more formal or work. I have some that have a crossbody option too.
It’s good to have different styles so I can pick by how I’m feeling and by what I’m doing that day.
How do you decide what works best for you?