As a conscious effort to avoid online temptations, I’ve consciously limited the shopping sites I regularly visit. But then again, there are still a lot of temptations on these limited sites!
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As a conscious effort to avoid online temptations, I’ve consciously limited the shopping sites I regularly visit. But then again, there are still a lot of temptations on these limited sites!
This year I had quite a bit of fun trying different styles of a less expensive bags. My rule to myself was I could not use new money and I must have more outs than ins. It worked and now I really know what works and what doesn't. Next year there should be a lot less movement. Despite all the crazy shopping I still have a lot less bags than I started the year with. I feel happy with what I did this year as I saved quite a bit and still had fun and my closet has lots of open space.
Either that or make a set budget or you have to sell first before buying or only buying off your needs list.I'm formulating a resolution that includes this, but I find that I need *some* recreational online shopping-related activity. I need to regulate it, though, or modify the terms so I don't end up spending. Maybe I can just call it "research" or something, without following through.![]()
Yes I still have a few at the consignment shop. If they don’t go by the time limit she sets I will drop the price and list myself or give a couple away. I have the slots for those bags kept open in my shelves in the mean time.What a positive year you've had, great that you've found out what works for you and had fun reducing your collection. It's not easy to gain closet space! I like the idea of not using new money. I do similiar and have a pot which I don't add to but it went a bit awry this year
Have you plans to move more on this year?
The truth is I love my premier bags I have left but nothing premier spoke to me this year. There were ones I liked but nothing I really loved so money saved.I’ve noticed the frequent movements you’ve had this year. Yay that you’re successful and happy!! You didn’t limit yourself to just highly expensive brands and you went for what worked for you. I would like to be in your place too.![]()
Your rules sounds as though they were very work-able. Plus, and this is critical, you say that you had fun! I think that's really the point, isn't it? All of this should be enjoyable!This year I had quite a bit of fun trying different styles of a less expensive bags. My rule to myself was I could not use new money and I must have more outs than ins. It worked and now I really know what works and what doesn't. Next year there should be a lot less movement. Despite all the crazy shopping I still have a lot less bags than I started the year with. I feel happy with what I did this year as I saved quite a bit and still had fun and my closet has lots of open space.
I hereby award you a doctorate in ORR, @momasaurus . (Online Retail Research.) Maybe you could get a grant???I'm formulating a resolution that includes this, but I find that I need *some* recreational online shopping-related activity. I need to regulate it, though, or modify the terms so I don't end up spending. Maybe I can just call it "research" or something, without following through.![]()
I love your sense of humour Elaine, I truly laughed out loud!I hereby award you a doctorate in ORR, @momasaurus . (Online Retail Research.) Maybe you could get a grant???![]()
I love your sense of humour Elaine, I truly laughed out loud!![]()
I found as much as I like big totes because I am tall they just don’t work for me. Weight remains an issue too . So if I want a leather bag ,handheld is doable but no weight on my shoulder. Crossbody bags work well but only if they are light weight. As far as color I like blues, burgundy’s , metallics , black , and a few others.Your rules sounds as though they were very work-able. Plus, and this is critical, you say that you had fun! I think that's really the point, isn't it? All of this should be enjoyable!
I'm curious: did you come away with any "big picture" points of what works and what doesn't for yo? Certain styles, colors, and so on?
I love your sense of humour Elaine, I truly laughed out loud!![]()
I hereby award you a doctorate in ORR, @momasaurus . (Online Retail Research.) Maybe you could get a grant???![]()
I love your sense of humour Elaine, I truly laughed out loud!![]()
I downsized my wallet earlier this year. Now I don't hesitate to carry my smaller bags as much. If I had to move everything to another wallet, most of the time I would think that was too much trouble. It is an amazing bag. You should carry it more.
Do you feel like your smaller wallet is just floating around in your larger bags?
That’s kind of a worry I have - as in Somewhere in here - rummaging - is my tiny wallet!!!
I also worry that - Gee I have this lovely Silk’in that I love... but I never carry it because I am carrying smaller purses. (Maybe it’s time to sell it? Because I do have 2 great French wallets that are much more compact, yet still fit everything I need in them..)
Or have you gotten smarter in that you’re only carrying smaller bags?
I do hate changing wallets - I Always leave something in the other wallet.![]()
I recently downsized my wallet too, but I technically still have my long zip wallet. I bring it along when I want to carry some of the extras in there (some gift cards and loyalty cards, my business cards, etc.) or when I'm carrying a larger bag.
However, I keep my ID, my medical card, my metro card, and my two most-used debit/credit cards in a card holder that has a lobster clip on it. I clip this onto one of the clips near the top of my bag, so it is easy to reach for when I am buying a quick coffee or snack during the workday, or when I have to use my metro card for the train.
This sounds like a good plan. But then do you also carry a small wallet in your bag? And is that where you carry your cash?