2019 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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OMG! I DESPISE shapewear with the heat of a thousand suns!!! I’d rather workout a bit and then choose clothing that does the rest. No way I’m going to be uncomfortable. I don’t even like bras (which I do wear).

One of my friends and I are planning to do eyelash perms (curling) and I said “do you realize the ridiculous things we do as women to be attractive????” I mean seriously. Eyelash perms?

I’m still gonna do it because I do like being “pretty” and I admit my brain has been cooked in ridiculous American beauty standards. :lol: But, really the pink tax on our time, effort and cash is real. :whut: I often think about (and challenge by notions on) what is the balance between being comfortable with self and still caretaking of self. Being a careless slob and being an overdone Barbie Doll are equally heinous.
Thank you!
Thanks for keeping us on track!

I have not started mine too!! Last year by October I was maybe 80% complete.

It's a relief to hear that Mr. Sparkle is okay now!

I also like the tan! And I do like the bag. :smile:
Thanks for the well wishes for Mr. S.
Those Henri Bendels are pure gorgeous![/QUOTE]
Thanks!

I hate bras too. I'm large chested so no way I can go in public without one. When I was young, the strapless bras were very uncomfortable and there weren't many other options so I didn't get to wear the a lot of the skin showing summer fashions other girls got to wear. I even had to make my own bikini to get a top that fit. No matter how nicely they make a bra, for me, there is still a lot of weight it has to support and it isn't comfortable for long periods of time. As soon as I get home, the bra comes off.
 
I'm so old I remember also Bonwit Teller, Best, Peck and Peck, B Altman.....That entire stretch of Fifth Avenue!
Me too!

Do you remember Orbach's? It was mid price, not upscale like the ones you mentioned, but it was a good place for winter coats. My mother would take me "into the city" when I was a girl to buy my winter coat at Orbach's every year. And then to the Automat for lunch. The one across from Grand Central Station.

Oh my gosh, I really *am* dating myself! :blush:
 
Thanks for the well wishes for Mr. S.
Those Henri Bendels are pure gorgeous!
Thanks!

I hate bras too. I'm large chested so no way I can go in public without one. When I was young, the strapless bras were very uncomfortable and there weren't many other options so I didn't get to wear the a lot of the skin showing summer fashions other girls got to wear. I even had to make my own bikini to get a top that fit. No matter how nicely they make a bra, for me, there is still a lot of weight it has to support and it isn't comfortable for long periods of time. As soon as I get home, the bra comes off.[/QUOTE]



Everything you said. Ditto :biggrin: Felt like i was reading my story, u made me lol :lol:
 
Me too!

Do you remember Orbach's? It was mid price, not upscale like the ones you mentioned, but it was a good place for winter coats. My mother would take me "into the city" when I was a girl to buy my winter coat at Orbach's every year. And then to the Automat for lunch. The one across from Grand Central Station.

Oh my gosh, I really *am* dating myself! :blush:
I remember Orbach's but not where it was. Hm.
And the automat we went to was on 57th st I think.
My high school BFF and I had birthdays a week apart, just as school was beginning, so we'd take our birthday money and go shopping on 5th avenue to get the season going!
I didn't know you grew up near NYC! Or if I knew I forgot. :biggrin:
 
In your signature: 2020 wardrobe challenge - full ban
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I’m going to try! So far I haven’t bought any bags this year (I was surprisingly gifted a couple) and there have been a few that peaked my interest but nothing that has made me want to put down cash for; every year I set a wardrobe budget and this year has been the first year so far that I’m still under! And the more I look at what I have, the less inclined I feel to keep adding to it. There’s a couple staple pieces I need to replace so I’m just keeping an eye out for the right ones, but outside of that I think it might be possible to do a full ban we’ll see how I goes!
 
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