2019 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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and then omg - I had a terrible epiphany. I am label conscious.
Now I'm mad at myself
and deleted all the bags I was watching.
Except for the Chanel at a really good price… :giggle:


I’m with you on this..was just thinking this the other day. why and how did this happen? DH says it’s a phenomenon called “signaling” but I’m not trying to project anything to other people. I actually get uncomfortable when people comment on my bags etc ..so I suspect I just do it for myself..but why? :confused1:

On a separate note, I’ve mentioned before that I am trying to “manage” my SLG and H scarf “problem.” So of course I bought another SLG and another scarf:facepalm: What’s worse is that they are both delightful but not functionally perfect (and I knew it going in) But they’re so pretty! I’m treating them like nifty little tchotchkes and this is bothering me. I have issues...clearly. So just to share

Isn’t this just so pretty? It’s a bit too thick and the bill slot too tight. But it’s sooo pretty with its stylized blossoms ..like a little gem:love:
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And then this ...sheesh ... I constipated on this for a long time..loved the image, the moon, the starry sky, the lines in the trees, the contrast border, the rose highlights in the wolf’s fur :girlsigh: le sigh...but it is partially cashmere (to which I’m allergic) So now I own it. Love it but can’t wear it. WTH:eek:

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I’m an idiot.
 
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Yep. You nailed it. This was my one because it is so cute. But, I’ll never buy this style again. I’m an easy access / structured bag gal all the way.

So now, what to do about the bag since it’s not selling. It’s a $1700 bag that’s only 3 years old on very good condition. I have it listed for $450 so it’s not like I’m trying to hold to a high price. DD doesn’t like it and I don’t have friends into bags. Hmmmm :thinking:
What about your boho friend. Could you send it to her?
 
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With regard to your question about the handbag market...gosh i think its super slow right now....i’ve only ever sold my bags on ebay, and i used to do really well. But now it seems like people want bargains, and they are very difficult to deal with. Things have really changed. It’s almost not worth it, unless you are selling premier bags you can expect to take a huge hit. I’ve lost so much money on bags still new with tags, i am going to be much less impulsive with my buying!

Keep your Chanel! Not worth losing that much money. I love Samorga organizers for my LV and Chanel, but there are lots of other options on Etsy. Many sellers customize, so perhaps one can create the perfect organizer for your Jimmy Choo?
Great idea on reaching out about something custom for the JC. I’ll do that. I’d even be happy to send it in somewhere to get it right.

I completely agree on buyers being more difficult now. I think part of it is the overall culture that has gotten much less civil. People have become emboldened in showing their worst sides as a result of running unchecked on social media.
View attachment 4448418 I’m happy to share my new Massaccesi bag. Zhoe Legend in Port Merinos leather.
Beautiful, classic bag!
Most designer stuff is a snooze fest atm. I think it's because we have better. :drinks:

I like Gucci's Zumi bag and some jewellery, otherwise I just miss my SAs. I wish Gucci would lose money just so they'd do something different again, I have mountains of vintage clothes that look like Gucci's RTW, what I need is elegant, well made, well cut pieces that calm down all my vintage stuff.

Chanel's costume jewellery is appalling quality. I still have a beautiful runway chain belt every time I wear it another stone falls out. Chanel undoubtedly looks good on others, I have a couple of jackets, bags, shoes etc but mainly I still don't feel grownup enough to pull it off. I can't feel like Chanel looks great on very young, 'ladies of millage' and those who are ultra-petit and/or feminine. I think I should do a Chanel challenge to wear the stuff I have... and that'll include RTW.

Dior I have not forgiven for it's terrible CS in Harrods. I had a bag on hold and they sold it, they had one more the UK and it was faulty. I'm pretty sure that's why 'mine' was sold before. I don't go into LV, it's hard to find anything that isn't branded, not impossible but hard.
Yes, Yes, Yes!
That's lovey, modded wonderfully too

I feel as though designer bags are getting uglier, logo-louder and more ridiculous and contemporary is looking better.
Ridiculous is the word. I like unique and interesting - even if it’s not my style. But, we’re falling into a tacky land. When I was in Gucci, I saw these shoes and thought “Ok for real. Unless you are in the entertainment industry, how could these possibly look nice / appropriate / stylish.” IMHO they’re just tragically tacky! And they’re $1400!!!! 1CD5C8C2-125B-4473-8C69-521338824609.jpeg
I just hope fashion doesn’t overcorrect and start bringing us dull / bland items in 3 years. There has to be a middle ground.
I’m with you on this..was just thinking this the other day. why and how did this happen? DH says it’s a phenomenon called “signaling” but I’m not trying to project anything to other people. I actually get uncomfortable when people comment on my bags etc ..so I suspect I just do it for myself..but why? :confused1:

On a separate note, I’ve mentioned before that I am trying to “manage” my SLG and H scarf “problem.” So of course I bought another SLG and another scarf:facepalm: What’s worse is that they are both delightful but not functionally perfect (and I knew it going in) But they’re so pretty! I’m treating them like nifty little tchotchkes and this is bothering me. I have issues...clearly. So just to share

Isn’t this just so pretty? It’s a bit too thick and the bill slot too tight. But it’s sooo pretty with its stylized blossoms ..like a little gem:love:
View attachment 4448516

And then this ...sheesh ... I constipated on this for a long time..loved the image, the moon, the starry sky, the lines in the trees, the contrast border, the rose highlights in the wolf’s fur :girlsigh: le sigh...but it is partially cashmere (to which I’m allergic) So now I own it. Love it but can’t wear it. WTH:eek:

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I’m an idiot.
That red wallet is TDF!!!

And, I agree. I’m brand conscious but, I greatly prefer items without branding and / or that are not well known. So, I’m not really signaling. I think for me it’s that having certain brands does a couple of things: practically it does get me items with better quality, material and styles. As I’ve said a thousand times no, I don’t get 5x or 10x the value or whatever the price multiple is. But I do get some increase that I value.

The second thing is that buying premier items in some categories is how I spoil me. The brands have an intangible meaning / feel that I participate in when I wear my items. I feel good in them. That is for me. Not for others to gawk at or even participate in.

It’s like why I have nice undies. I feel good when my undies are pretty, colorful, feel luxe and match. Lingerie is for DH - I’d be happy in Hello Kitty PJ’s. :lol: But, pretty undies are purely for me.
 
I’m with you on this..was just thinking this the other day. why and how did this happen? DH says it’s a phenomenon called “signaling” but I’m not trying to project anything to other people. I actually get uncomfortable when people comment on my bags etc ..so I suspect I just do it for myself..but why? :confused1:

On a separate note, I’ve mentioned before that I am trying to “manage” my SLG and H scarf “problem.” So of course I bought another SLG and another scarf:facepalm: What’s worse is that they are both delightful but not functionally perfect (and I knew it going in) But they’re so pretty! I’m treating them like nifty little tchotchkes and this is bothering me. I have issues...clearly. So just to share

Isn’t this just so pretty? It’s a bit too thick and the bill slot too tight. But it’s sooo pretty with its stylized blossoms ..like a little gem:love:
View attachment 4448516

And then this ...sheesh ... I constipated on this for a long time..loved the image, the moon, the starry sky, the lines in the trees, the contrast border, the rose highlights in the wolf’s fur :girlsigh: le sigh...but it is partially cashmere (to which I’m allergic) So now I own it. Love it but can’t wear it. WTH:eek:

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I’m an idiot.
Not an idiot - you like nice things! I do too.
That wallet makes my heart happy - it's gorgeous!
I don't think I'm signaling - but I really do like nice things. But nice things without major branding slathered all over it. I do have a few LV items but they are the only ones that anyone would recognize. Well maybe the Gucci, but you'd have to get close to see the Gs and then I'd be freaked out. :hrmm:

Great idea on reaching out about something custom for the JC. I’ll do that. I’d even be happy to send it in somewhere to get it right.

I completely agree on buyers being more difficult now. I think part of it is the overall culture that has gotten much less civil. People have become emboldened in showing their worst sides as a result of running unchecked on social media.
Beautiful, classic bag!
Yes, Yes, Yes!
Ridiculous is the word. I like unique and interesting - even if it’s not my style. But, we’re falling into a tacky land. When I was in Gucci, I saw these shoes and thought “Ok for real. Unless you are in the entertainment industry, how could these possibly look nice / appropriate / stylish.” IMHO they’re just tragically tacky! And they’re $1400!!!! View attachment 4448636
I just hope fashion doesn’t overcorrect and start bringing us dull / bland items in 3 years. There has to be a middle ground.
That red wallet is TDF!!!

And, I agree. I’m brand conscious but, I greatly prefer items without branding and / or that are not well known. So, I’m not really signaling. I think for me it’s that having certain brands does a couple of things: practically it does get me items with better quality, material and styles. As I’ve said a thousand times no, I don’t get 5x or 10x the value or whatever the price multiple is. But I do get some increase that I value.

The second thing is that buying premier items in some categories is how I spoil me. The brands have an intangible meaning / feel that I participate in when I wear my items. I feel good in them. That is for me. Not for others to gawk at or even participate in.

It’s like why I have nice undies. I feel good when my undies are pretty, colorful, feel luxe and match. Lingerie is for DH - I’d be happy in Hello Kitty PJ’s. :lol: But, pretty undies are purely for me.
Those 'shoes' are… unfortunate. :shocked:
Premier items are how you spoil you - YES!!
It's why we don't wear scratchy clothes (except maybe @essiedub with her new Awoooo! scarf :giggle:), why we don't carry grocery bags as a purse, and why you might catch me petting the leather of my purse when it's beside me in the car - we want to feel good and look good - even if no one but you knows why.
It's what gives me that certain 'Je ne sais quoi' feeling.
 
Sparkle’s May Stats

Month:
Bags In / Out: 0 / 1
SLG’s In / Out: 0 / 0

YTD:
Bags In / Out: 1 / 3
SLG’s In / Out: 0 / 0

TOTAL: Bags: 22, SLG’s: 3

I have 3 bags still left to sell. But, I’m waffling on all three.

Re: the Chanel. I’m seeing that others like this aren’t selling. And, I’ve gotten consistently low offers. So, I really think I’d have to take a four figure bath to sell. :whut: I’m absolutely, 100%, unequivocally not willing to do that. I’d rather dye it and enjoy it. (Or even wear it as a hat. LOL!) I know many have told me not to dye it but, I’ve had other bags dyed and been happy with the results. At this point, I’m not wearing it and it’s not selling. So... what’s really the downside? :shrugs:

The Jimmy Choo isn’t moving either. I actually love the look of this bag. I just hate the slouchiness. I can’t find my things so, it drives me batty. I tried pouches but, shocker! they got lost too. :roflmfao: Help!! I’m open to all suggestions. Perhaps a bag organizer? Do they exist for slouchy bags? I hate “rooting” around for my things!!!!

The last is my MK mini Hamilton. This bag has worked harder for me than anything else in my life. :lol: I haven’t worn it in at least 2 1/2 years but, I keep thinking “what if?” It’s worth next to nothing so, I’m tempted to keep it. But, I don’t like extra stuff in my house soooo...? I dunno.

Is the handbag market slower than in previous years? I’ve never had as much trouble selling bags. And, I’ve sold over 150 bags at all price points from $25 to $4000. Is there a glut of supply? Are people less interested in bag? I wondered as traffic on tPF and tPB seems to be slowing too. :thinking: Even more reason for me to buy veeeeeery carefully going forward.
Great stats, congratulations on all of your bag outs!
 
I feel for you dear Sparkle. I lost my mother last year after a fight on and off for years (she was born with a heart defect).

I want to do Summer Madness too. :tup:

We could also do a 'wear your bag as a hat' challenge
I remember you mentioning trips to see your mom in the hospital. I am sorry for your loss papertiger.

May stats

Bags
In 0
Out 0

SLG
In 1 Hermes Gold Swift Eazip Book Holder in the Globe Trotter size
. It's like an agenda holder without the steel hooks, easy generic notebook holder for me and I've already bought 3 that fit perfectly for apron $5 each in Waterstones. The Eazip has a zipped pocket as the front flap.
Out 0

Restocked on cashmere in the sale (this is part of an annual 'thing').
Brilliant stats, the book holder sounds divine in gold swift.
 
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I’m with you on this..was just thinking this the other day. why and how did this happen? DH says it’s a phenomenon called “signaling” but I’m not trying to project anything to other people. I actually get uncomfortable when people comment on my bags etc ..so I suspect I just do it for myself..but why? :confused1:

On a separate note, I’ve mentioned before that I am trying to “manage” my SLG and H scarf “problem.” So of course I bought another SLG and another scarf:facepalm: What’s worse is that they are both delightful but not functionally perfect (and I knew it going in) But they’re so pretty! I’m treating them like nifty little tchotchkes and this is bothering me. I have issues...clearly. So just to share

Isn’t this just so pretty? It’s a bit too thick and the bill slot too tight. But it’s sooo pretty with its stylized blossoms ..like a little gem:love:
View attachment 4448516

And then this ...sheesh ... I constipated on this for a long time..loved the image, the moon, the starry sky, the lines in the trees, the contrast border, the rose highlights in the wolf’s fur :girlsigh: le sigh...but it is partially cashmere (to which I’m allergic) So now I own it. Love it but can’t wear it. WTH:eek:

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I’m an idiot.
essiedub, I like your recent additions, they are pretty! I don’t think you’re an idiot. You have an eye to appreciate beauty in objects, like someone who appreciates art.
 
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I’m with you on this..was just thinking this the other day. why and how did this happen? DH says it’s a phenomenon called “signaling” but I’m not trying to project anything to other people. I actually get uncomfortable when people comment on my bags etc ..so I suspect I just do it for myself..but why? :confused1:

On a separate note, I’ve mentioned before that I am trying to “manage” my SLG and H scarf “problem.” So of course I bought another SLG and another scarf:facepalm: What’s worse is that they are both delightful but not functionally perfect (and I knew it going in) But they’re so pretty! I’m treating them like nifty little tchotchkes and this is bothering me. I have issues...clearly. So just to share

Isn’t this just so pretty? It’s a bit too thick and the bill slot too tight. But it’s sooo pretty with its stylized blossoms ..like a little gem:love:
View attachment 4448516

And then this ...sheesh ... I constipated on this for a long time..loved the image, the moon, the starry sky, the lines in the trees, the contrast border, the rose highlights in the wolf’s fur :girlsigh: le sigh...but it is partially cashmere (to which I’m allergic) So now I own it. Love it but can’t wear it. WTH:eek:

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I’m an idiot.

You're not an idiot but that's H commitment. Is there anyway you could wear the scarf over clothes or are you going to get ill just by being close to it?
 
Great idea on reaching out about something custom for the JC. I’ll do that. I’d even be happy to send it in somewhere to get it right.

I completely agree on buyers being more difficult now. I think part of it is the overall culture that has gotten much less civil. People have become emboldened in showing their worst sides as a result of running unchecked on social media.
Beautiful, classic bag!
Yes, Yes, Yes!
Ridiculous is the word. I like unique and interesting - even if it’s not my style. But, we’re falling into a tacky land. When I was in Gucci, I saw these shoes and thought “Ok for real. Unless you are in the entertainment industry, how could these possibly look nice / appropriate / stylish.” IMHO they’re just tragically tacky! And they’re $1400!!!! View attachment 4448636
I just hope fashion doesn’t overcorrect and start bringing us dull / bland items in 3 years. There has to be a middle ground.
That red wallet is TDF!!!

And, I agree. I’m brand conscious but, I greatly prefer items without branding and / or that are not well known. So, I’m not really signaling. I think for me it’s that having certain brands does a couple of things: practically it does get me items with better quality, material and styles. As I’ve said a thousand times no, I don’t get 5x or 10x the value or whatever the price multiple is. But I do get some increase that I value.

The second thing is that buying premier items in some categories is how I spoil me. The brands have an intangible meaning / feel that I participate in when I wear my items. I feel good in them. That is for me. Not for others to gawk at or even participate in.

It’s like why I have nice undies. I feel good when my undies are pretty, colorful, feel luxe and match. Lingerie is for DH - I’d be happy in Hello Kitty PJ’s. :lol: But, pretty undies are purely for me.

Agreed. And why does fancy and unique have to look as though it's made for 8 year olds. Not only Gucci, but Miu Miu, LV, Dolce, Bal...
 
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