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My parents stopped babysitting when we had the third kid. They didn't think they could handle more than two.We settled on taking my mom for dinner next week. That is what she chose, she likes eating out.
Not doing anything for mil. DH and and I are quite frustrated with her and fil. They make generic promises but never actionable or when it comes time to step up they refuse since they realize it requires them to compromise or give something up - simple example my mil literally refused to hold our baby at DH’s birthday dinner...the dinner in-laws insisted ‘treating us’ to. How is managing 3 young kids at a restaurant a treat. I do not understand how some people do not have the nurturer gene when it comes to their own kids. Plus it is a massive contrast compare to my mom!
That is kind of funny! 3 is a lot, I’ll give folks that!My parents stopped babysitting when we had the third kid. They didn't think they could handle more than two.
My MIL had a new younger boyfriend when our second child was born. We came to visit to show him to her but she wouldn't let us come to her house. She didn't want her younger boyfriend to know she was old enough to have grandchildren.
@Sparkletastic (or anyone interested), Just passing on info because Marco Massaccesi is doing a Kickstarter and he just added a big pledge item that I thought you might be interested in because you had mentioned it would be cool to design a bag. The price is steep, but here's the description:I’m so happy for you!
Where have I been. I’m a sci fi kooky fan. When I get home from vacay, I’m looking it up.
And, yes! Isn’t TPF great for learning. I think that after our color weeks, I’ll sponsor a pre TPF week where we can share tales and <gasp!> photos of bags, ideas and thoughts we had pre TPF. Gosh, I had some horrors. LOL! And, I didn’t know much of anything about handbags. That being said. I did have some good instinct which meant I had a few good bags. A couple of which I miss a little.
Marvelous greys. That Muse takes my breath away. I should have ordered one before he closed.
And, I adore the Milla. I know I’ll add this to my collection at some point. This was a great bag for you to add to your collection.
LOL! I get it. This is why I limit my bag buying. I run out of time to wear them.
So sorry this happened... you must have been beside yourself.Had a heart attack today. I was carrying my Dior WOC in my Max Mara large Whitney tote so that I could use the smaller bag when I went to lunch with colleagues.
Because I’m traveling and had done the same the day before, I didn’t “check” my bag before I went into the office this morning.
When lunch came around - no WOC. I looked all over the borrowed office where I‘d been working - no WOC. Rental car? Nope. I went back to the my hotel room - no bag. I was sick to my stomach.
Later that afternoon, building security reached out to me. Evidently the WOC had somehow fallen out of my bag in the parking lot. (I had been juggling too many files, etc.) The office is in a large multi use shopping area / business park. Some teenagers found it and turned it in with everything in place!!!I was happy to find out one of them had left contact information. I called and got all their names / addresses so I can send each of them a thank you note and gift card. The girl was so sweet. She really didn’t want me to do anything but, good acts should be acknowledged and rewarded.
The world can seem a little crazy at times. It makes me so happy to know there are still honest people around.
It's absolutely none of my business, but I simply can't resist asking: what ever happened to that boyfriend? It's funny, in a way, but it isn't. But it is.My parents stopped babysitting when we had the third kid. They didn't think they could handle more than two.
My MIL had a new younger boyfriend when our second child was born. We came to visit to show him to her but she wouldn't let us come to her house. She didn't want her younger boyfriend to know she was old enough to have grandchildren.
Well, looking on the bright side, at least you & DH see eye-to-eye on the subject of his parents. Imagine if you were annoyed, and he was defending them!We settled on taking my mom for dinner next week. That is what she chose, she likes eating out.
Not doing anything for mil. DH and and I are quite frustrated with her and fil. They make generic promises but never actionable or when it comes time to step up they refuse since they realize it requires them to compromise or give something up - simple example my mil literally refused to hold our baby at DH’s birthday dinner...the dinner in-laws insisted ‘treating us’ to. How is managing 3 young kids at a restaurant a treat. I do not understand how some people do not have the nurturer gene when it comes to their own kids. Plus it is a massive contrast compare to my mom!
Yes, my family too requires a ratio of 1:1 so the kids don't outnumber the adults. When we just had 2 kids, BOTH my Mom and my MIL were needed to babysit because they each didn't think they could do it alone. Now, with more than that, they need reinforcements, lol.That is kind of funny! 3 is a lot, I’ll give folks that!
They lived together until he died of cancer. Eventually we were allowed to meet him and visit. I don't think he ever knew her age!It's absolutely none of my business, but I simply can't resist asking: what ever happened to that boyfriend? It's funny, in a way, but it isn't. But it is.![]()
I’m hoping that someone can do some beautiful transformations. Some of the items just look dated.
I’m an only child of two only children (which sucks). Anyway, after a very spartan childhood through early high school where they spent NOTHING as they built their business, my dad started to spoil me once he was financially successful. (I think it was good it happened late so I didn’t feel “owed” anything.)
Anyway, my dad liked to buy me very nice fine jewelry pieces that were far to grand for 15, 16, 17... year old me.One such piece is a ruby and diamond ring. It has large-ish, clear, high quality natural stones (5 rubies surrounding a diamond).
But, it doesn’t look current because it was the 80’s/90’s and gold was muuuuuuuuuch cheaper then. So, ring bands were substantial. Not the thin... er... ahem... dainty look that’s common now. And, yellow gold was “in” but, now I prefer white gold. It just looks so... Alexis Carrington from Dynasty.
When I had it appraised for sale, the gemologist said ruby prices are going through the roof (who knew?) So, I feel cuckoo selling this ring with great stones and lots of gold for next to nothing. It would be worth it to put money against this to have something I’d enjoy knowing it came from my dad.
He gave me another yg ring with a heart shaped emerald and diamond accents. Surely they can do something with that????
I wish there were better options for turning yg into wg. But, everything I’ve read says the rhodium plating will wear fairly quickly on originally yg pieces. In any case, if I do get a good transformation on any of the items, I’ll share before and after.
I do count them but as slgs= small leather goods in a separate category. I went a little crazy buying to many of these to at some point. Just buy ones you know you will use and maybe try and get rid of ones you won't. Another helpful thing is limit the amount of them . This will help you choose wisely.I was doing really well at shopping my own bag collection (mostly Mulberry but some contemporary in Coach and Kate Spade). New Year’s resolution not to buy anymore this year. This was to enjoy the bags I have and rotate more. I’ve been inspired to chart my usage by this thread (thanks for all the suggestions!) which has been revealing and certainly got me using some items more.
However, I was passing the Mulberry outlet in York and had to go in to look. I came away with a lovely medium French Purse in oak. I use a large porcelain blue Mulberry Darley purse most of the time which is gorgeous but I don’t switch it as I find that more hassle than bag switching. I think it the new purse will be a really useful size as it’s that bit smaller but still fits in loads.
So does buying a purse count as breaking my rule and how often do you all switch the purse inside your handbags. I’m keen to get something in pink if I can find it?
I don't switch wallets as it is too much trouble. When I carry a smaller bag, I just leave out my large wallet. I still have my card case, that has my license, insurance card, and major credit cards, and my coin purse, which includes an emergency $20 bill.I was doing really well at shopping my own bag collection (mostly Mulberry but some contemporary in Coach and Kate Spade). New Year’s resolution not to buy anymore this year. This was to enjoy the bags I have and rotate more. I’ve been inspired to chart my usage by this thread (thanks for all the suggestions!) which has been revealing and certainly got me using some items more.
However, I was passing the Mulberry outlet in York and had to go in to look. I came away with a lovely medium French Purse in oak. I use a large porcelain blue Mulberry Darley purse most of the time which is gorgeous but I don’t switch it as I find that more hassle than bag switching. I think it the new purse will be a really useful size as it’s that bit smaller but still fits in loads.
So does buying a purse count as breaking my rule and how often do you all switch the purse inside your handbags. I’m keen to get something in pink if I can find it?
I also count them as SLGs.I do count them but as slgs= small leather goods in a separate category. I went a little crazy buying to many of these to at some point. Just buy ones you know you will use and maybe try and get rid of ones you won't. Another helpful thing is limit the amount of them . This will help you choose wisely.
I count them, but not as bags. I used to have WAAAAAAY too many! Then I found that I wasn't switching them out the way I thought I would, so I sold or donated all but the most useful.I was doing really well at shopping my own bag collection (mostly Mulberry but some contemporary in Coach and Kate Spade). New Year’s resolution not to buy anymore this year. This was to enjoy the bags I have and rotate more. I’ve been inspired to chart my usage by this thread (thanks for all the suggestions!) which has been revealing and certainly got me using some items more.
However, I was passing the Mulberry outlet in York and had to go in to look. I came away with a lovely medium French Purse in oak. I use a large porcelain blue Mulberry Darley purse most of the time which is gorgeous but I don’t switch it as I find that more hassle than bag switching. I think it the new purse will be a really useful size as it’s that bit smaller but still fits in loads.
So does buying a purse count as breaking my rule and how often do you all switch the purse inside your handbags. I’m keen to get something in pink if I can find it?