2019 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

[More bags]

So, I’m experiencing some fashion weirdness. Lol! I’m obsessed with finding matching shoes for bags I loved but, don’t wear often enough. I’m hoping this will increase the wear without a lot of mental gymnastics from me. I can wear the bag/shoe combo with the many white / black / grey clothes I own without any additional thought.

This is odd, though, because I don’t typically like matchy ... I keep saying that. I’m still thinking it’s true. I wear my black bags a lot but, relatively speaking, I don’t wear black shoes often. I literally just bought black pumps for work after 3-4 years of not having (needing) black work pumps. So... I dunno.

Anyway, I mentioned this new matching affliction to my daughter (she’s still here in my city on a long work assignment) and while she was shopping last night, she
brought home these sandals.

I squealed because they are super cute and match my Fendi bag. They aren’t costly so, if I tire of them end of summer, I can donate them without angst.

Who knew this odd pink shade (we’ve taken to calling it piglet pink) had matches?

Now if only I could find some high quality strappy heels in this color. You’d think Fendi would have had a pair but, I haven’t seen any in the boutique. View attachment 4407300View attachment 4407301
Anyway, we went for a girl’s night to see Shazam (I’m the sci-fi / action / fantasy nerd. Mr. S definitely is not. Lol!) The movie was but, I looked cute in my Fendi bucket and new sandals with my pale grey sundress.

I’ve ordered these Badgley Misha shoes for the Fendi bag. They will be bite with summer dresses. I wish they were leather vs satin but, if they are comfy, I’ll let it slide. View attachment 4407810

Congratulations on your recent shoe additions, they look great!

 

[More bags]

We’ve talked about our most used bags. What are your 5 LEAST used bags? You can share for this year or for all time.

These are mine for all time.

5) Miss Dior Sliding Chain in yellow lamb - No worries here. Its color plus gold hardware means it won’t get a lot of wear until spring / summer. But, I bought it for next to nothing preloved and it makes me so happy when I wear it. She’s a keeper!!! However, no yellow shoes are on the agenda Isn’t it hilarious that I don’t feel any need to match this bag with shoes and still happily manage to wear it.

4) Fendi Ltd. Edition Pink Pearl Small Mon Tresor - It’s small and I’ve struggled to coordinate it with my wardrobe. Which is pure silly. I’m making a point of getting this special bag out and about much more.

3) Dior black studded Diorama WOC - I thought I wore this more. But, I’ve only had it a few months so it’s not surprising it’s not as high on the all time wear count. I don’t have any worries that I’ll wear this quite a bit - if I look at number of wear for this year only, it’s actually middle of the pack.

3) Fendi silver flowered WOC - like with the black WOC, this is new to my collection. It doesn’t have “historical” wear but, it’s getting worn quite a bit this year. So, it’s a keeper!

1) Dior white and gold Diorama - This bag flummoxes me. It’s not pure white and it’s not beige. It’s not even really eggshell. Add, the ghw and it’s not getting worn. Only 3 wear so far

But, I’m on a mission. I’ve bought strappy high heels and flat sandals that match. I’m on the lookout for pastel clothes (I now own a couple pastel casual dresses) And, I’m telling myself it’s not too loud with the black and red I own. This bag WILL be happily worn as the purse gods are my witness.

Interestingly, I’m not worried about these 5 bags. The ones I am eyeballing are my Chanel jumbos - the red and grey just aren’t getting the wear I expected and want. I think it’s because they are amongst the least functional bags I have.

I despise the double flap on the red. Truly despise it!!! It serves no purpose except to take up space and add weight. I’m not buying the “it needs it for structure” foolishness as I have yet to see any other bags with a double flap and they all seem to perform the “magic” of holding shape. And, my single flaps are holding their shape despite being the oldest bags I own. On the grey, the bijoux chain is LOUD! When I sit the bag down on a table, the chain click clack can be heard across the globe.

These factors are NOT enough to make me sell. I adore how these bags look, they’re comfortable to wear, they work with my wardrobe and they hold my things nicely. But, this is a lesson that I need to consider if quirks of a bag will irritate me even if it isn’t a true functional issue.

That being said. I’m having a brain burp. I want to buy a bag. For no good reason. I just want a bag. Not going to do it. I need to keep focused on looking for summer dresses - fun to own a pain to look for.

My 5 Least Used Bags of All Time
No surprises, major concerns or issues, 4/5 are newer additions and haven’t garnered the historical count of other bags in my wardrobe. The vintage clutch is from my MIL and has a place in the collection even though I don’t carry it as frequently as other bags. What I did learn is to exercise caution before adding more clutches, they are not a great fit with my current lifestyle. The Coco Handle is in my top 5 most frequently carried year to date.

1. Hermes Garden Party
2. Vintage Clutch
3. Chanel Black WOC
4. Chanel Coco Handle
5. Hermes So Kelly

 

[More bags]

My least used bags are small bags and ‘repeat bags’ that I have other options I wear more. So far this year I have not used:
- birkin 35 black - I keep thinking I should use for work
-Kelly 28 red sellier - I looooove this bag but I find the ridged structure hard to use for a day out
- Kelly cut blue - clutch, not going out much with little kids but will use in future
- red medor - clutch
- Prada tote black - I need to switch into this for work since I use to use equally as my neverfull, just been lazy

Beautiful set of bags!

 

[Sparkletastic]

I figured it was a slang term that I was too over-the-hill to know about!

That is absolutely hilarious!!!! My bad typing could start a trend!

Maybe, I should try to make “OMG! That is so bite!” happen a la “fetch” from the MeanGirls movie!!

 

[Sparkletastic]

I’ve gone matchy crazy! Today I wore my Fendi WOC. (obviously stock photo) I had just picked up these sandals which match perfectly. I wore them with a pastel pink raw silk sundress and my “everyday” wg/diamond jewelry. Perfect for a teeny bit of mall shopping followed by attendance at a “day party” with Mr. S. The lower (than my usual) heel on the shoes made them comfy to walk around and dance in. But, with this, I’m done with matching. I need to get back to my more thoughtful shoe wardrobe building (and back to coordinating not matching my shoes to bag).

Re: day parties. I’ve now lived in five cities in different US states and one other country. But, I’d never heard of the concept of day parties. That’s a new thing for me since I’ve moved to my new city. Do you do these in your town / area / country? I’m used to gatherings and events during the day being more on the casual side unless it’s something like a charity event. But, I’m enjoying the opportunities to dress up a little more during the day - without getting fully formal - on weekends. This one had a pre-Easter pastel theme. Mr. S is not big on wearing a lot of pastels but was relieved to know he could wear a pink dress shirt and still qualify. The rest of his outfit was shades of grey to coordinate with my silver and white gold. It was a lot of fun.

The guests looked so happy and spring-y in all the pastels! Lots of handbag eye candy. One woman had a beautiful pastel blue Chanel classic flap. I almost swooned. I also spotted a pretty grass green Bal city, a silver (pewter?) BV knot, a cream YSL WOC and a gorgeous blue Gucci amongst other lovely bags.

 

[Sparkletastic]

To all who celebrate:

 

[dcooney4]

dc, congratulations, I love this - “my least used bags are at the consignment shop”. Well done on the self awareness and acting to get these out the door! Also, “everything else I am using”, great job!!!

Thank you!

 

[dcooney4]

To all who celebrate:View attachment 4410034

To you as well!

 

[lynne_ross]

I’ve gone matchy crazy! Today I wore my Fendi WOC. (obviously stock photo)View attachment 4410031 I had just picked up these sandals which match perfectly.View attachment 4410032 I wore them with a pastel pink raw silk sundress and my “everyday” wg/diamond jewelry. Perfect for a teeny bit of mall shopping followed by attendance at a “day party” with Mr. S. The lower (than my usual) heel on the shoes made them comfy to walk around and dance in. But, with this, I’m done with matching. I need to get back to my more thoughtful shoe wardrobe building (and back to coordinating not matching my shoes to bag).

Re: day parties. I’ve now lived in five cities in different US states and one other country. But, I’d never heard of the concept of day parties. That’s a new thing for me since I’ve moved to my new city. Do you do these in your town / area / country? I’m used to gatherings and events during the day being more on the casual side unless it’s something like a charity event. But, I’m enjoying the opportunities to dress up a little more during the day - without getting fully formal - on weekends. This one had a pre-Easter pastel theme. Mr. S is not big on wearing a lot of pastels but was relieved to know he could wear a pink dress shirt and still qualify. The rest of his outfit was shades of grey to coordinate with my silver and white gold. It was a lot of fun.

The guests looked so happy and spring-y in all the pastels! Lots of handbag eye candy. One woman had a beautiful pastel blue Chanel classic flap. I almost swooned. I also spotted a pretty grass green Bal city, a silver (pewter?) BV knot, a cream YSL WOC and a gorgeous blue Gucci amongst other lovely bags.

What was reason for day party? I am use to them for baby showers, engagement parties, and the like. Or friends milestone birthday. Or family get together (my extended family on dad’s side dresses up). We were invited to a party from 2-4 yesterday (did not attend to hang out with kids, and since it was political). I like the idea of them....not a late night person.

 

[lynne_ross]

Happy Easter!
It finally stopped raining here so will get out for walk with family today. Been using my raisin birkin since it is one of my all weather purses. Can switch to something else today.
DH and I spent Friday going through house quickly and listed stuff for sale that will be a pain to donate. Over half the stuff we listed has been picked up - mostly baby stuff, the family room looks less cluttered. Also finished our basement storage room. Bought bins and baskets online so once they arrive will organize stuff in it. My rule is whatever goes in there must be to use in the future!

 

[Sparkletastic]

What was reason for day party? I am use to them for baby showers, engagement parties, and the like. Or friends milestone birthday. Or family get together (my extended family on dad’s side dresses up). We were invited to a party from 2-4 yesterday (did not attend to hang out with kids, and since it was political). I like the idea of them....not a late night person.

I think the reason is just to have an excuse to entertain and have fun. They are very similar to regular parties in the evening. Music, food, drinks, lots of socializing. And, usually have a simple theme. In this case it was wear pastels.

I used to be a late night person. I’m just working a lot as is Mr. S and we’re just sleepier than normal. So the day party was great. We didn’t have to wait to have fun and were in bed by 10:30. Lol

 

[lynne_ross]

I think the reason is just to have an excuse to entertain and have fun. They are very similar to regular parties in the evening. Music, food, drinks, lots of socializing. And, usually have a simple theme. In this case it was wear pastels.

I used to be a late night person. I’m just working a lot as is Mr. S and we’re just sleepier than normal. So the day party was great. We didn’t have to wait to have fun and were in bed by 10:30. Lol

Love that! We go to bed between 9-10pm even on weekends. We wake up early to work out or cause kids are up.

 

[catsinthebag]

I’ve gone matchy crazy! Today I wore my Fendi WOC. (obviously stock photo)View attachment 4410031 I had just picked up these sandals which match perfectly.View attachment 4410032 I wore them with a pastel pink raw silk sundress and my “everyday” wg/diamond jewelry. Perfect for a teeny bit of mall shopping followed by attendance at a “day party” with Mr. S. The lower (than my usual) heel on the shoes made them comfy to walk around and dance in. But, with this, I’m done with matching. I need to get back to my more thoughtful shoe wardrobe building (and back to coordinating not matching my shoes to bag).

Re: day parties. I’ve now lived in five cities in different US states and one other country. But, I’d never heard of the concept of day parties. That’s a new thing for me since I’ve moved to my new city. Do you do these in your town / area / country? I’m used to gatherings and events during the day being more on the casual side unless it’s something like a charity event. But, I’m enjoying the opportunities to dress up a little more during the day - without getting fully formal - on weekends. This one had a pre-Easter pastel theme. Mr. S is not big on wearing a lot of pastels but was relieved to know he could wear a pink dress shirt and still qualify. The rest of his outfit was shades of grey to coordinate with my silver and white gold. It was a lot of fun.

The guests looked so happy and spring-y in all the pastels! Lots of handbag eye candy. One woman had a beautiful pastel blue Chanel classic flap. I almost swooned. I also spotted a pretty grass green Bal city, a silver (pewter?) BV knot, a cream YSL WOC and a gorgeous blue Gucci amongst other lovely bags.

Love the silver sandals! Funny, what you consider a “low” heel is the highest I can go!

Aside from something like a baby shower, I’m not familiar with the concept of “day parties.” Interesting, although I’ll admit I really hate theme parties — I don’t want anyone telling me what to wear! I don’t have a single pastel article of clothing, so I guess I’d be disinvited anyway!

 

[ElainePG]

I’ve gone matchy crazy! Today I wore my Fendi WOC. (obviously stock photo)View attachment 4410031 I had just picked up these sandals which match perfectly.View attachment 4410032 I wore them with a pastel pink raw silk sundress and my “everyday” wg/diamond jewelry. Perfect for a teeny bit of mall shopping followed by attendance at a “day party” with Mr. S. The lower (than my usual) heel on the shoes made them comfy to walk around and dance in. But, with this, I’m done with matching. I need to get back to my more thoughtful shoe wardrobe building (and back to coordinating not matching my shoes to bag).

Re: day parties. I’ve now lived in five cities in different US states and one other country. But, I’d never heard of the concept of day parties. That’s a new thing for me since I’ve moved to my new city. Do you do these in your town / area / country? I’m used to gatherings and events during the day being more on the casual side unless it’s something like a charity event. But, I’m enjoying the opportunities to dress up a little more during the day - without getting fully formal - on weekends. This one had a pre-Easter pastel theme. Mr. S is not big on wearing a lot of pastels but was relieved to know he could wear a pink dress shirt and still qualify. The rest of his outfit was shades of grey to coordinate with my silver and white gold. It was a lot of fun.

The guests looked so happy and spring-y in all the pastels! Lots of handbag eye candy. One woman had a beautiful pastel blue Chanel classic flap. I almost swooned. I also spotted a pretty grass green Bal city, a silver (pewter?) BV knot, a cream YSL WOC and a gorgeous blue Gucci amongst other lovely bags.

I love the idea of a day party. We're such big babies at our house... reading in bed by 9pm, and asleep by 10pm. So late nights out really aren't our thing. But other than baby showers, I've not heard of this. I don't think they have any such around here.
Then again, nobody gets terribly dressed up here in our little coastal community even in the evening, unless it's for a major event. Your pink & silver outfit sounds yummy.

 

[muchstuff]

Only three multi-coloured bags...
-Balenciaga original XS grafitti bag and matching wallet
-Balenciaga special edition 100th anniversary B4 tattoo Papier tote (to me multi-coloured is anything more than one colour!)
-Balenciaga plaid Everyday tote