2018 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

[vink]

I didn’t even see a Chanel flap til I was in my 20’s. I do have the association of Chanel with old money wealth from somewhere?? but, since I know some people spend their rent on bags and super fakes are a “thing”, I don’t ever presume.

The bag that I have a hard past mental association with is the LV mono - particularly the speedy and the hobo (I don’t know what the style is called for LV) I saw sooooooo many fakes on women who were pretty crass that it stuck in my head that LV mono is tacky. TPF has absolutely opened my eyes to the reality of LV mono and the LV brand in general. So, I can see them for what they are. But, some of that still sticks a little.

Birkins suffer from overexposure from new money (often fake money / lots o’ debt) housewives and then celebretantes (Kardashians etc al). Again, so ridiculously unfair. But, we get imprinted in weird ways.

Being on TPF helped me realize how a lot of my perceptions were weird and erroneous. And, I find myself liking all kinds of bags.
That is so wonderful! I didn’t know that! I sew but don’t knit. My mom taught me to knit and I immediately abandoned it. I should try again.
True. But, if you can afford it, does it matter? I’m sure a bunch of Uber rich people spent the value of my home on their kids 1st birthday party. If they have it, so be it.

I haven’t yet fallen for the reissue. I need to look at it again.
I found this bag in Venice. I don’t know if it’s sold in the US. But, I just love it. The leather isn’t “chewy” but the quality is impeccable.

I work in land development and hospitality. More than often, I work side by side with lower income people such as construction workers or labors, even the immigrant type. Even though many of them work for my contractors, I somehow consider them working for me. And I don’t feel that it’s ok to walk around carrying such expensive bag in their face. I know some people they don’t care, but I do. Maybe it’s also the environment that encourages them not to care, too. If I work in a financial sector where people can flaunt what they have much more easily, maybe I’d care less.

 

[Sparkletastic]

I was at the coach outlet the other day and the bags with c's on them were all over the store again. I thought people were getting away from logos but I see you are right.

What?! Not again! God it reminds me of 2002.

Oh criminy! No! I thought we, the humans of the universe, had agreed that we sinned when we bought these bags.

Seriously, I know they will be bought and loved. But of all logos, the Coach C’s are my absolutely, unequivocal least favorite. I think it cheapens the brand and derails where it was going which was great quality at a “reasonable” price point. But, it’s not for me to manage.

Dear Sparkle, I am - not unselfishly - quite interested in you buying the Polène numéro un bag. It looks beautiful online and in the pictures here on tpf and instagram. Somehow I am considering it, too. So, a brutally honest review from your experienced and knowing self would be great! But, of course, I could experiment with it myself. You have such a streamlined collection now, you really have to think well about which bag will be allowed to cross the threshold of your closet!

Thanks for your vote of confidence in me. I’m not sure I’m worthy but, after a very, very tough day, I appreciate it.

If the Un Mini we’re still available in cobalt I would have gone for it in a heartbeat. I need a replacement for the Kate Spade I sold.

As it is now, I like the Un Mini in the pale pink. But I also like the pink Fendi which would have the same use. So that’s a no go. I also like it in the other pastels like mint and baby blue but I don’t usually do pastels. So, I’m still mulling what I want to do.

At €330 you can gift it away if you don't love it. What's your favorite color for the numero un, spark?

Maybe go for the all black smooth leather in case it's softer than the grainy leather?

http://www.temporaryhousewifey.com/...8/3/19/polene-review-numero-un-bag?format=amp

Thanks for sharing this review! I definitely wouldn’t do black. If I buy another black, non tote bag it will be my unicorn (black Miss Dior sliding chain with ghw), a black Chanel Boy or a Chanel Classic flap.

I love the N Un in Camel, sand and grey. It comes in other great colors but none that I need in my collection. I need a Bordeaux bag but I don’t see this as being “it”. I want a killer bag for that color. LOL!

I have some reissues. [emoji4] But they just don’t release it with as many exciting colors as classic flaps and I only like it in aged calf. [emoji4] I actually get more use out of my reissue, too.

I actually just came out of Chanel hibernate in February to buy a Gabrielle hobo and I just love it I couldn’t stop wearing it for weeks... until one of the up and coming actresses here confirm that she’s now dating one of the media darling actors (People love this guy. His all around talented (screen writing, acting, directing) and famous for keeping himself very low profile in everything while she’s well known for owning expensive things and going to Paris fashion week.) and the image of him carrying a Gabrielle bag for her made me put my bag away in the closet for a while. [emoji28] My friends laughed when they knew what I did, but yeah... it’s something I feel like I have to do since now the media start teasing the actor about carrying a six-figure (local currency) bag for his girlfriend while wearing his ratty t-shirt. As much as I love that bag, I don’t think it’s a good idea for people I work with to know how much I spend on stuff.

I work in land development and hospitality. More than often, I work side by side with lower income people such as construction workers or labors, even the immigrant type. Even though many of them work for my contractors, I somehow consider them working for me. And I don’t feel that it’s ok to walk around carrying such expensive bag in their face. I know some people they don’t care, but I do. Maybe it’s also the environment that encourages them not to care, too. If I work in a financial sector where people can flaunt what they have much more easily, maybe I’d care less.

As I read your comments I’m flummoxed. For the US, in non fashion, non entertainment industry corporate environments, everyone kinda wears a uniform which is clothing in a fairly tight range. Yes, senior execs dress better than interns but no one really “flosses” on the job. In contrast, small business owners can (generally) wear what they want. Employees, etc. aspire and / or ignore. Smart owners don’t rub it in but, they do feel free to drive a big car or wear a luxe watch, etc. No one is under any illusion that they don’t have far more than others. It’s generally expected.

So, I wonder if this is cultural. We Americans labor under the belief (which is such a lie) that everyone has fulll opportunity to be equally successful. So displayed badges of success motivate others (or inspire awe) as often as they irritate.

I may be missing that in your culture there is deeper meaning (and possibly) offense when one carries a symbol of the disparity in wealth levels. If so, I “get” why you are circumspect in business. Still a little puzzled for personal unless it’s the same thing.

Bottom line we talk about these things like we are experiencing the same inputs but our cultural norms can be so different. Even region to region in the same country.

 

[dcooney4]

Oh criminy! No! I thought we, the humans of the universe, had agreed that we sinned when we bought these bags.

Seriously, I know they will be bought and loved. But of all logos, the Coach C’s are my absolutely, unequivocal least favorite. I think it cheapens the brand and derails where it was going which was great quality at a “reasonable” price point. But, it’s not for me to manage.

Thanks for your vote of confidence in me. I’m not sure I’m worthy but, after a very, very tough day, I appreciate it.

If the Un Mini we’re still available in cobalt I would have gone for it in a heartbeat. I need a replacement for the Kate Spade I sold.

As it is now, I like the Un Mini in the pale pink. But I also like the pink Fendi which would have the same use. So that’s a no go. I also like it in the other pastels like mint and baby blue but I don’t usually do pastels. So, I’m still mulling what I want to do.

Thanks for sharing this review! I definitely wouldn’t do black. If I buy another black, non tote bag it will be my unicorn (black Miss Dior sliding chain with ghw), a black Chanel Boy or a Chanel Classic flap.

I love the N Un in Camel, sand and grey. It comes in other great colors but none that I need in my collection. I need a Bordeaux bag but I don’t see this as being “it”. I want a killer bag for that color. LOL!


As I read your comments I’m flummoxed. For the US, in non fashion, non entertainment industry corporate environments, everyone kinda wears a uniform which is clothing in a fairly tight range. Yes, senior execs dress better than interns but no one really “flosses” on the job. In contrast, small business owners can (generally) wear what they want. Employees, etc. aspire and / or ignore. Smart owners don’t rub it in but, they do feel free to drive a big car or wear a luxe watch, etc. No one is under any illusion that they don’t have far more than others. It’s generally expected.

So, I wonder if this is cultural. We Americans labor under the belief (which is such a lie) that everyone has fulll opportunity to be equally successful. So displayed badges of success motivate others (or inspire awe) as often as they irritate.

I may be missing that in your culture there is deeper meaning (and possibly) offense when one carries a symbol of the disparity in wealth levels. If so, I “get” why you are circumspect in business. Still a little puzzled for personal unless it’s the same thing.

Bottom line we talk about these things like we are experiencing the same inputs but our cultural norms can be so different. Even region to region in the same country.

I only saw the cc‘s at the outlet not st the full price store.

 

[HopelessBagGirl]

That’s so interesting HopelessBagGirl.
For whatever reason .. I thought you were Scandinavian, living in Tennessee.
OMG

You just got it backwards. No worries.

So I'm copying your bag from Thanksgiving:



My early birthday present purse from my mom will be that one, but in beige.



I've admired it since it came out 8 years ago but at 90% off retail... it finally was meant to be mine!

 

[Sparkletastic]

You just got it backwards. No worries.

So I'm copying your bag from Thanksgiving:
View attachment 4106689


My early birthday present purse from my mom will be that one, but in beige.

View attachment 4106691

I've admired it since it came out 8 years ago but at 90% off retail... it finally was meant to be mine!

Nice bag! Congrats. I love the (slightly) older Diors from 2-15 years ago.

You mentioned potentially selling your red Dior. I thought you loved that bag.

 

[Sparkletastic]

Stop the presses...

Ok. So... I am loving on a bag like a madwoman. The Valentino Rockstud Spike is killing me! Every time I see a photo I love it more.So, I have got to get into a store and see this bag. It’s funny I never liked the shoes. But I adore this bag.

Has anyone seen this in person? I love the way the hand carry strap looks when it’s hand carried and when it’s draped (?) on the top when shoulder carried. It’s such a fun bag.

But my gosh. This has a lot of studs. I tend to stay away from bags with do hickeys because I worry about what happens if one falls off. And now I’m liking this and the Fendi with pearls all over it. Sheesh! LOL! I’m a little concerned because I’d be ready to throw the bag in the trash if a stud fell off. I wouldn’t be able to deal with the missing stud. Do these come with extras???? Anyone have any intel on Valentino after care?

I’d love to buy this in store on sale. Not sure what color though I don’t want the black or red. I don’t really do beige although it’s nice in this bag because the studs blend in a little more. I saw the green but don’t think this is “my” green bag. Would the metallic be overkill? This is a crazy busy bag. Hmmmm... I’ll try to take a look this weekend.

 

[essiedub]

You just got it backwards. No worries.

So I'm copying your bag from Thanksgiving:
View attachment 4106689


My early birthday present purse from my mom will be that one, but in beige.

View attachment 4106691

I've admired it since it came out 8 years ago but at 90% off retail... it finally was meant to be mine!

OMG. GET OUT OF TOWN...90% off? So awesome! It’s a terrific size..just large enough but doesn’t look it. Isn’t the lamb so totally smooshy? I’m getting all valley-girl on you...Congratulations! I was just looking at mine this morning but I’ve been carrying my Kate Spades in memoriam. May she rest in peace. You live in Scandinavia now?

 

[More bags]

Sparkle and Missie,

Having a DH who is, um, involved in my handbag collecting can be a double-edged sword. On one hand, DH knows what suits me, sometimes better than I do. He can look at a bag and immediately tell me I’ll never wear it. Or that it does, indeed, fit the description of what I say I’m trying to be or look like. Going back to @papertiger’s comment about feeling “worth it,” — while I struggle with this, DH has no such demons! The fact that he thinks I’m worth it makes the whole buying experience more fun.

On the other hand, he won’t enable me (or maybe he will, but it has limits). Case in point: I have become ever so slightly obsessed with Chanel’s Coco Handle bag. I don’t know what took me so long, since I love Chanel flaps, love the Kelly bag, and this is Chanel’s version of a Kelly. It’s a no brainer for me. But, since I just got the Chanel tote for my birthday, I have absolutely no business thinking of getting another bag this soon. In spite of that, there I was yesterday, at the Chanel boutique, trying on bags. DH was traveling, so I sent him an email with photos and the question, “Which color do you like better?” (the choices were blue and light gold). His answer: “Is there a third option?” Well, that burst my bubble! But I know deep down he’s right: the blue has gold HW and I want silver, and the light gold color isn’t really me.

So, I will wait for the right color to come along. I know he’s right. I hate that.

What a great story, I love how your DH gave awesome feedback. I hope you find the perfect colour of Coco Handle for you!

 

[tealocean]

That’s so interesting HopelessBagGirl.
For whatever reason .. I thought you were Scandinavian, living in Tennessee.
OMG

This is so fun! I do this too without even thinking about it. If you tell me about a coworker or someone I haven't met, I get a mental image of them, and I only realize it when I finally meet that person. I'm often close if I know enough details, but little things like hair color/texture and height are off, and it's funny. It's like when you read a book and then see a movie and everything is not as you pictured!

 

[Candyfiend]

Stop the presses...

Ok. So... I am loving on a bag like a madwoman. The Valentino Rockstud Spike is killing me! Every time I see a photo I love it more.View attachment 4106905So, I have got to get into a store and see this bag. It’s funny I never liked the shoes. But I adore this bag.

Has anyone seen this in person? I love the way the hand carry strap looks when it’s hand carried and when it’s draped (?) on the top when shoulder carried. It’s such a fun bag.

But my gosh. This has a lot of studs. I tend to stay away from bags with do hickeys because I worry about what happens if one falls off. And now I’m liking this and the Fendi with pearls all over it. Sheesh! LOL! I’m a little concerned because I’d be ready to throw the bag in the trash if a stud fell off. I wouldn’t be able to deal with the missing stud. Do these come with extras???? Anyone have any intel on Valentino after care?

I’d love to buy this in store on sale. Not sure what color though I don’t want the black or red. I don’t really do beige although it’s nice in this bag because the studs blend in a little more. I saw the green but don’t think this is “my” green bag. Would the metallic be overkill? This is a crazy busy bag. Hmmmm... I’ll try to take a look this weekend.

 

[minoxa33]

Thanks for your vote of confidence in me. I’m not sure I’m worthy but, after a very, very tough day, I appreciate it.

If the Un Mini we’re still available in cobalt I would have gone for it in a heartbeat. I need a replacement for the Kate Spade I sold.

As it is now, I like the Un Mini in the pale pink. But I also like the pink Fendi which would have the same use. So that’s a no go. I also like it in the other pastels like mint and baby blue but I don’t usually do pastels. So, I’m still mulling what I want to do.

Thanks for sharing this review! I definitely wouldn’t do black. If I buy another black, non tote bag it will be my unicorn (black Miss Dior sliding chain with ghw), a black Chanel Boy or a Chanel Classic flap.

I love the N Un in Camel, sand and grey. It comes in other great colors but none that I need in my collection. I need a Bordeaux bag but I don’t see this as being “it”. I want a killer bag for that color. LOL!

I love the little Fendi you have shown, but I guess the opportunities of use would be more limited. There is a Polène bag on eBay, by the way.

 

[minoxa33]

Stop the presses...

Ok. So... I am loving on a bag like a madwoman. The Valentino Rockstud Spike is killing me! Every time I see a photo I love it more.View attachment 4106905So, I have got to get into a store and see this bag. It’s funny I never liked the shoes. But I adore this bag.

Has anyone seen this in person? I love the way the hand carry strap looks when it’s hand carried and when it’s draped (?) on the top when shoulder carried. It’s such a fun bag.

But my gosh. This has a lot of studs. I tend to stay away from bags with do hickeys because I worry about what happens if one falls off. And now I’m liking this and the Fendi with pearls all over it. Sheesh! LOL! I’m a little concerned because I’d be ready to throw the bag in the trash if a stud fell off. I wouldn’t be able to deal with the missing stud. Do these come with extras???? Anyone have any intel on Valentino after care?

I’d love to buy this in store on sale. Not sure what color though I don’t want the black or red. I don’t really do beige although it’s nice in this bag because the studs blend in a little more. I saw the green but don’t think this is “my” green bag. Would the metallic be overkill? This is a crazy busy bag. Hmmmm... I’ll try to take a look this weekend.

Now, here we are hearing another kind of voice from you! [emoji169] You might be on to something. Check this bag out irl asap...

 

[HopelessBagGirl]

@Sparkletastic
I'm probably not going to sell the red new lock. It's a buyer's market so I'll just stay on that side of the secondary market. I just don't use that color very often unfortunately.

 

[HopelessBagGirl]

OMG. GET OUT OF TOWN...90% off? So awesome! It’s a terrific size..just large enough but doesn’t look it. Isn’t the lamb so totally smooshy? I’m getting all valley-girl on you...Congratulations! I was just looking at mine this morning but I’ve been carrying my Kate Spades in memoriam. May she rest in peace. You live in Scandinavia now?

Yes for 15 years.
Thanks! I'm thrilled to finally get it in my most usable favorite purse color (warm beige/camel) after admiring it in grey and black for nearly a decade. I'm assuming the lambskin will be just as soft as my other 2010 lamb Dior so yes! But I don't have it yet so I can't tell how much I love fondling it yet. In one week I will.

 

[dcooney4]

Stop the presses...

Ok. So... I am loving on a bag like a madwoman. The Valentino Rockstud Spike is killing me! Every time I see a photo I love it more.View attachment 4106905So, I have got to get into a store and see this bag. It’s funny I never liked the shoes. But I adore this bag.

Has anyone seen this in person? I love the way the hand carry strap looks when it’s hand carried and when it’s draped (?) on the top when shoulder carried. It’s such a fun bag.

But my gosh. This has a lot of studs. I tend to stay away from bags with do hickeys because I worry about what happens if one falls off. And now I’m liking this and the Fendi with pearls all over it. Sheesh! LOL! I’m a little concerned because I’d be ready to throw the bag in the trash if a stud fell off. I wouldn’t be able to deal with the missing stud. Do these come with extras???? Anyone have any intel on Valentino after care?

I’d love to buy this in store on sale. Not sure what color though I don’t want the black or red. I don’t really do beige although it’s nice in this bag because the studs blend in a little more. I saw the green but don’t think this is “my” green bag. Would the metallic be overkill? This is a crazy busy bag. Hmmmm... I’ll try to take a look this weekend.

I saw an older style with some spikes and almost bought it the other day. The only thing that stopped me was I need another black bag like a hole in the head. Now you have me worried about spike falling off if I got it. I was still thinking about it .