Please Help! I really need some advise. I bought a cd on presale 12/28/2007. (mindbleached see fb) It was available on the sellers site on 1/6. Contacted seller on 10th, he said I should get it any day. Many emails with promises throughout January and February. Finally got refund yesterday. Seller says he shipped but it was returned to him and he didn't think I wanted it. I have 10 + emails from him and his wife and they are total liars. He has had 18 negs in 1 month and gave retaliatory negs in return always claiming innocence and buyers problem. These are all similar situations as mine. He has had 6 mutual fb removals in 6 days. Anyway...to make a long story short I really NEED to neg him. I KNOW he will leave me ret. fb. I have NEVER neg'd anyone nor have I received any. Do you think I should just give him an earned neg and accept a hit on my 100% fb rating??