I am writing today about a very unfortunate transaction I had with eBay seller
chanelilovechanel in the U.S.
This is not an authentication issue; the item was authenticated by bababebi.
But the seller informed me today that she changed her mind and decided to keep the bag herself. This is for an item I'd "won" on eBay through the Best Offer/counteroffer process and paid the immediate deposit through PayPal. Her terms required I pay the balance through wire transfer, which I agreed to do since I trusted the authenticity and had bought a couple of H bags that way years ago from CDL.
chanelilovechanel said she was fine to wait
one week till the date I returned home to go to my bank to process the balance payment through wire transfer. But then after the sale to me, invoicing me and receiving my PayPal deposit of $1000, she insisted to refund and cancel the transaction to re-start in August when she returned from an emergency she had to leave town for. First she asked if I could instead immediately wire transfer the balance to ship the item to me next day; but since it was still before I'd be home to do the balance wire transfer (on the date she'd accepted to receive funds) I offered her instead to immediately pay the balance on PayPal. She refused to accept PayPal for the balance, but assured me the bag would be safe and reserved to sell exclusively to me upon her return from her emergency. I checked in with her through eBay messages about her anticipated return date from her emergency and offered to pay if there was someone available to receive and ship and she replied she'd be back this month. No hint that the transaction wouldn't be honored upon her return. I have no idea when she changed her mind to keep the bag.
Well today she informed me she decided to keep the bag herself, and asked for me to understand but then she added false details about how I hadn't paid per the listing requirements in time. This was after I'd shown all kindness, patience, trust in her to understand her emergency (from July 11-Aug 29!) while waiting to receive the bag in time this week to take to a wedding
Sorry me, I know it's a "first world problem" as they say, but I felt it important to share the experience in this thread since she does have an active eBay store.