So I have been quietly pondering this phenom for a while and I decided that in the spirit of the thread itself I should post the thought...
When we start a thread asking for opinions on our SOs, our spending habits, our personal and sometimes private behavior, do we *really* want a host of vastly differing opinions to read and consider--- or do we want validation for our own thoughts???
When we read someone else's posts on their request for opinions, do we tend to get into a group think mode (ack, maybe even somewhat of a mob mentallity!) and forget that even though the post asked for opinions, that the way in which they are shared can be hurtful??
(geez, I should really check tPF motto again and do some shallow obsessing instead, huh??)
When we start a thread asking for opinions on our SOs, our spending habits, our personal and sometimes private behavior, do we *really* want a host of vastly differing opinions to read and consider--- or do we want validation for our own thoughts???
When we read someone else's posts on their request for opinions, do we tend to get into a group think mode (ack, maybe even somewhat of a mob mentallity!) and forget that even though the post asked for opinions, that the way in which they are shared can be hurtful??
(geez, I should really check tPF motto again and do some shallow obsessing instead, huh??)