I've been pining for a Kelly bag since I was about 10 or 12 years old (I am in my 30s). Then I didn't know how much they cost. I just thought they looked awesome.
When I graduated college, I knew that I needed to get a "nice" bag.
Purses represent your station in life if you will. I learned that people look at you and make some assumptions about you based on your bag. I got a nicer bag, on clearance at Ross or TJ MAxx. And I fely awesome. It had smooshy leather, and garnered lots of compliments when I carried it. (It was a hobo)
Eventually, I realized I needed something more polished. I got a no name leather tote from
Nordstrom and carried it for a few years until the strap broke.
I started looking into the Kelly bags I loved, and this probably how I landed here on TPF. I soon realized they were well out of budget, and that I wasn't really going to spend that much on a bag. Dream deferred. And one day I was in the mall. And one of those stands was there. They had the imitations of the
Fendi Spy. And some other things. And I saw one of those Kelly inspired bags. Similar structure. Lock and key. I got it. And used it a bit. But the color was all wrong. And it was handheld only. But for a least a few weeks, I thought I had my dream bag.
My faux Kelly wasn't going to fool anyone. And I wasn't expecting it to. I just thought it was a nice looking bag. Would I get a clear fake with a forged logo on it? No way. Would I get an inspired by? Absolutely if the quality is right. And I did, the Celoine Luggage inspired bag by MK.
One of my friends has a fake LV wallet. One of her relatives got it for her. She started using it, what looks to be a pretty good facsimile, because one day her wallet, a cheap one was on its last legs. And was looking ratty. People were giving her weird looks. She had this fake LV in her closet for years (she didn't want to carry the fake), and didn't have spare cash to spend on her wallet. So she just started using it. A continental style. And whenever she brings out her wallet, she notices that people treat her differently. Even if she looks a mess, or is dressed super casual (and she works outside.)
She has been carrying this wallet now for 5 years. It was a pretty good fake, it still looks new.
Will she replace it? When it wears out? But she did upgrade her purse. MbMJ. Because, even though in many ways she doesn't feel as accomplished as she imaged she'd be at her age. Getting the nicer purse makes her feel like she has arrived. Even if it is only for a minute. And the same thing happens when she takes out her wallet and people treat her better because of the gloss of prestige.
Most of us here have enough disposable income to buy or save up for the fancy bag we want. The average person thinks that over $100 for a bag is ridiculous. And even if just for a couple minutes. They get that rush of status from carrying a designer bag. It is probably worth it in for them.