willowsmom: oh, these are so cute, and they fit!
kallison: I think you need them . . .
willowsmom: you're absolutely right (I don't need a whole lot of enabling to be pushed over the edge)
repeat conversation 2-3x per day

willowsmom: these are cute and practical!
me: they are. and, oh look, they come in three colors.
willowsmom: i just need black or white.
me: but they have turquoise.
willowsmom: i don't need turquoise.
me: come on...are you sure? they're cute. i think you need them. YOU NEED TURQUOISE.

willowsmom: oooh! pink ones too! *goes and buys all three pairs*
...and then life is good.