I totally understand and I'd be a skeptic too. I'm not a longtime member of TPF and I'm an occasional reader. The information on TPF can be overwhelming although great. Any online forum is never good with categorisation or findability and catching up years of comments and backreadig is impossible.
I think I came across loukpeach posts and snide comments after it, some time ago and I was confused what was going on and NOW I KNOW WHY!! *Smh*
But back to the point, nothing is perfect and anywhere in the world, there will be malicious people who want to abuse others. We have to deal and the honest people in this community need to help one another without ostracizing newbies, but also helping dismantle scammers here!!
I personally am dying to build my H collection and I have a million questions as I'm rather new to the H-brand (all I have are scarves and plenty small goods and one bag that I have not used/don't plan to keep) But because the community is tight knit and overwhelming I was afraid to ask. I understand now why! But I still hope the community will continue to engage And be fun for everyone!!
OP, Any update? Also, are you able to answer the further questions asked here? If possible, help the community help you! Understand that skepticism goes both ways and while you are not obliged to reveal anything, posting here you kind of opened yourself to that. It's only fair IMHO.
Don't think that you should be afraid to ask any question here on tPF.
This forum is meant to share thoughts good, bad or indifferent & to learn. We all have various opinions some
at times can be harsher than others .Comments/opinions need to be put in perspective & not to take personally, IYKWIM
Enjoy the forum as there is much to learn & enjoy building your H collection .