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I voted for the Idylle Speedy cuz that's the one I have... I'm about your size.
I tried on the Bloomsbury PM today... wanted it for an upcoming trip to NYC... but I think it's too long for me. I had it on the shortest setting and it was ok for cross-body... but way too long if I wanted to wear it just on the shoulder.
Have you thought about the Idylle Elegie? It has many carry options and it's nice because it lays flat against your body like a cross-body should imo... the Speedy sticks out a bit.
Oh, and definitely no age limit on cross-body bags!