Whew, glad to hear that I'm not the only one. It's odd, because there are so many ladies (and men) that manage to pull off the Neo/Cuir style so well without looking like they're headed straight for the airport or yoga class, as seen in the many photos here on this forum. It must be something about the way that we both dressYou are not alone for the small cuir. Despite liking the cuir leather so much, I've rehomed all my small, medium cuirs+neos. Even on my frame, I was also asked whether I'm heading to the gym or travelling.

IMO, despite its size, the Cuir backpack doesn't look like a school backpack even on taller people because it's designed to be worn low and has a bucket bag shape, but your husband is entitled to his opinion
