Phoenix, I am a huge fan of gray MOP ! I had placed two SO's - one was a pair of magic earrings (they have arrived) and the other is a necklace (that will be picked up shortly) and I had no control over choosing the stones for either piece. Yes, it was a chance however I was confident that I would be pleased. For me, GMOP is a terrific neutral that goes with everything. It is so elegant.
I think you should use your SO for something that truly makes your heart sing. If you have the slightest hesitation, I would wait until you are absolutely sure as there may be something else that will speak to you more.
Thank you so much for your input. Were they earrings close to/ did they match your preference? If it's not too much trouble and if you feel comfortable, would you mind sharing pics? I'd LOVE to see. Which necklace did you choose? Ooooh, I am sooo excited for you!! And pricing-wise, were you quoted the same/ similar prices to what I've been quoted? Again, please only share what you feel comfortable with. I'm grateful for whatever you'd like to share.
Tbh, I haven't seen that many grey MOP pieces IRL. Of the ones I saw, I love them all except 1 (a ring, which was pretty flat and had little iridescence). I am pretty sure I love grey MOP. I'm even willing to pay the extra premium, as long as I love the MOP. I am leaning towards a Magic pendant, so that it'd match with my Magic pave earrings in YG as well as my LE Onyx earrings.
Thank you again for your post. I'm super super excited for you!! I agree that grey MOP is a great neutral and is super elegant too.