I know what you mean by onyx being "angry". I have had my 5 motif onyx YG bracelet for 4 years now . I like atleast 2 pieces in the same stone to form a set and I have been trying to find something to go with the bracelet for a long time. I have tried vintage and magic earrings onyx, 10 motif and magic necklace onyx. It all ends up looking edgier than I am comfortable with and sometimes harsh as well. Maybe its time for me to give up on onyx and mix it with other pieces in my collection or even consider selling the 5 motif onyx.
I want a darker stone in Alhambra line and I am considering GMOP. I am planning to try both the magic pendant and 5 motif as a set before getting it to avoid the same mistake as onyx. Did you look into GMOP?
OMG! This is EXACTLY my dilemma. I like sets too, and I like sets of 3 (20 motif, VA earrings, 5 motif bracelet). I am also trying to buy a dark stone set as my next set.
My look is casual elegant feminine. I do not want to look edgey (e.g. rocker chic, harsh). I want to look bold, but feminine. And I hate to say this, but people often talk of look "edgey" like it's a cool thing to look edgey. For me, it's a big no.... edgey = harsh to me. It is elegant feminine for me all the way now. I already went through the harsh edgey phase. For jewelry, I'm all about pearls, diamonds, emeralds, sapphires, rubies. No big gold chains or spikey edged pieces for me.
Add to that, I'm no spring chicken, but I am not old. However, I think oynx sometimes look aging. I tried on the 5 motif oynx bracelet and have also seen mod shots online. A few times, I thought... hmm... that makes the hand look harsh and old. The piece I love the most is the 20 motif, but not so much the oynx earrings nor the bracelet.
I love the oynx stone for how bold it is, but I don't seem to love the look and vibe. When I have tried on other pieces, in 10 seconds, I will say to my SA "okay, love it, I'll take it". I can't seem to say that with oynx. My new plan for a 3 piece set (from ideas from other TPFers in another thread) is the oynx pave alternating bracelet, VA pave earrings, and the 20 motif oynx. It's not a perfect matchy matchy set to me, but it's a compromise.
Yes, I just looked at GMOP three weeks ago as my plan B! The difference I see in GMOP vs oynx...
Oynx is dark and bold which I love. But to me, it is also harsh, an angry stone. GMOP is a dark stone, but it has a softer elegance, more refined. It is definitely not as bold, but it is still striking, think Tahitian Black Pearls.
So, that's my dilemma and why I have not ordered my oynx set.
What do you think of GMOP? I would love to hear your thoughts!