I think one of the things I love about where i live is that no one knows VCA, so I feel comfortable wearing my bracelet without judgement, and I'm contemplating earclips because I love the vintage alhambra and it would just be so under the radar. It's easy to over look someone's bracelets and earrings... not so much with a necklace.
The "I shouldn't wear this with jeans" is the feeling I got with the 10 motif, and I knew i would still be nagging at me even with a 20 motif. I know it's dress up/down but in my mind the onyx & weight of the gold had too much presence and I'd be too self-conscious. I know some people think it looks like costume jewelry and not expensive at all... but to me the quality is so there.
I'm so excited to see everyone's new purchases! keep 'em coming ladies!