Yes, that is exactly my concern on the butterfly collection. I don't want to look childish or cutesy; that's not my look at all. As to which one, there are three choices. You are so right... off the top, my initial thought was the all pave WG. However, I really love color. I think all diamond pieces tend to just look the same after a while, so I thought maybe I could try on the pink sapphire and pave. Those are the two. I would not buy the yellow sapphire and pave, so that's not even on my list as a maybe.Thank you so muchWe are all such huge enablers for each other here and I love it! I draw my inspiration from all of you wonderful ladies here
… Can I just say I absolutely love love love the butterfly ring? I used to be afraid it’s too kiddish initially but have changed my mind completely. It’s quintessential VCA and such a whimsically elegant piece. Now, I need to spam you with a lot of pics here so you love it as much as I do
I know you are a white gold gal, so which one would you go for? The pink and white gold pave or the all pave WG one? Somehow I see you with the latter.![]()
The pink sapphire and pave I think is so pretty. It however, also very girly girl to me, but perhaps girly girl is ok every once in a while... shorts in the summer!

I love the ring on you, and it does not look childish on you. Feel free to spam away.


I tried on the butterfly ring once; I felt it was too cutesy, so I said no to the collection.
Because of that, I have since never even looked at any butterfly piece in real life and definitely not the earrings. I just walk past that butterfly case and say "no thanks" when my SA asks if I want to try on anything.

I will definitely try on the butterfly ring next time I go to the boutique. Better yet, I'll have my SA bring in my size to be sure of the fit. Did you get the same size ring as your Frivole BTF?
For my Frivole BTF, I had to go down a size, to a 52, as that ring is an open shank. For my Lotus ring, I stayed with my true ring size, which is a 53, The Lotus is a closed shank, a true "ring" so to speak, even though VCA calls it a BTF. My guess is I will be the same size as my Frivole BTF.
Lookking forward to your next mod shot!

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