Oh WOW!
Thank you so much ladies. You all are the best.
Which one would you choose? Seeing pictures did not make it easier. I had a chance tried magic on. But not the flowerlace. Decisions decisions....
I think you are going to have to try them both on to see what you think on you! Pictures are helpful, but seeing them on you own ear will probably make the decision easy for you.
I went through a phase about 5 years ago where I desperately wanted the flowerlace. I tried them on often and they were always on my mind. I have no doubt that I probably declared my love for them here on the forum!

I think it came down to this.... daily wearability. I have a very casual lifestyle and have decided to generally only buy pieces that I could wear on a daily basis. I love wearing diamonds casually so I have been able to integrate most of my VCA wardrobe into daily wear. I have the Magic yg pave earrings and although they have a lot of flash, I find I can wear them very casually. I have no doubt I would do the same with the Magic wg pave. I easily wear the Frivole yg and wg paves casually and in fact the only VCA earrings I own that I haven’t been able to convince myself could be worn casually is my small yg Cosmos earring. Lol — they pack so much “wow” that I have only been able to bring myself to wear them in more dressy situations.
So the question for me is the everyday wearability of the flowerlace. When I tried them on last week I fell back in love with them. They are truly amazing, sitting up on the ear similar to the Frivole earrings. What I just don’t know is whether the size of them makes me rule them out for daily wear — I think it might, for me.
I’m interested to see where you end up — keep us posted!