I've never had an issue with any other luxury brand. I don't own any handbag that isn't a designer brand. I walk into chanel and if they have the bag I'm looking for, they sell it to me. I shouldn't have to purchase second hand. I'm not really worried about getting a birkin from a specific store, I know that there are stores around the world you can walk in and get one if they have one, so it's a moot point. I'm mainly speaking on the opinion of women on here that think they deserve preferential treatment because they spend more money there than I do and that makes them more valued as a customer. Obviously someone who loves everything hermes makes and considers it "their brand" will spend more than I. I would never tell someone looking for a chanel flap that I deserve it more and they can go get theirs from secondhand if they want one, that's preposterous.
I beg to differ.
I've been a loyal customer of my store for 20+ years. I've spent hundreds of thousands of dollars there. I'm glad that I get preferential treatment. I've earned it. My store knows my wish list an lets me know when my items come in.
If you don't like the politics, resellers are the best route.
While I certainly can sympathize with your frustration, my advice is to develop a relationship with a store and a SA, then your chances of getting a coveted bag increase.