That's rather sad, there are so many wonderful things to do in both cities at night, especially with a loved one.
Wear your lovely things, take your husband, make some great reservations, walk the town and have a wonderful time. Really. Just let go and enjoy.
C'est la vie.
Oh, please don't feel bad about that!! We live in a city of over 2 million and unless we have concert,theater etc. to go to, we prefer to stay home in the evenings.
