I think the town is fabulous in RG an GH! I don't think RH would look too young for you. I love the tassels, if you get RH own it and have fun with it. I think the two things to decide between the 1st the size difference between the Town and City if you carry around a lot a city might be better suited for you because the Town is smaller. The 2nd thing is how you want to carry/wear it The town you can wear cross body where the city can hang on your shoulder(some people do have issues with trying to keep the strap on their shoulder it slips off easily for them) both can be carried by the handles. Buy what you love don't worry what others may or may not be thinking. Your the one carrying it around it you should love it. You don't want to regret not getting the bag you really wanted.