The problem with being on this board for a number of years is that you occasionally see posts you made in the past and thing "My god, who was this idiot... ooh... me." Yeah, see where I said "in 6mo to a year..." didn't happen. The jewelry box still needs to be cleaned out.
BUT, 4 years after my initial post:
Worth it:
-Vintage pieces, big and bold costume or delicate real. I've become a quality snob; more inclined to look at the back of a piece than I did at the front of it.
-Pins and brooches in sterling or gold
-DBTY set; I've worn the earrings for about 250 days out of the year - well over a third. My other earnings are sulking in their boxes about being neglected. I haven't worn the necklace as much, but its great as a dainty bit of sparkle.
-My double-strand pearl necklace. I have enough pearls to turn it into a three, and I've been debating if it would add or not...
-The big chunky white plastic necklace from the 40s that the Knight gave me for Christmas one year. It's appalling how much I wear it.
Not worth it:
- Anything I have functional duplicates of. Again, One is good, Two is not better, Three is just plain bad.
Looking through my jewelry, I had a tendency to buy into things I loved.
What I mean is, I loved the piece; it was beautiful and full and a joy to wear. Because I loved the one piece, I thought I loved the maker. So I bought more pieces by the same maker. I don't love them as much, and I'd rather wear the piece I found first. So... it only took me four years, and some painfully expensive lessons to learn to sit down, look at why I like something, and only get things that spark joy.