Oh, I hear you! I used to be tall and skinny as h..ll, too skinny! After my second kid I got some health issues and now I weigh many pounds more than I was before. While I am still tall

I also am overweight, so I look big. BIG. Ughh.... I'd wear high heels to kinda distract from my large frame but with them I'd be taller than the average, even than DH. Plus, I'm afraid some of the high heels would just break. Didn't try yet since I had my baby daughter.

But seeing how you wear mk bags with loafers gives me some hopes.