So I'm looking for some bucket support here! I love bucket bags; they've always been my favorite. I love the look of the brandy/avion. The only issue I'm having with it is how stiff it is. And I still have the tags on it and there are already scratches. Since I'm not able to return it--I'd love some feedback--have any of you felt this way about your buckets at first and did it pass? I'm not usually a structured bag kind of person but I love the shape. Any enabling and positive feedback will help!! TIA!