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so ladies, here's a question... I bought my first bangle based on the online measurements. 57.3. It used to fit a bit loose and was super easy to take on and off. In 2 months time, that same bangle is not going on my hand without lotion. What happened? Meanwhile, I went into a local jade shop near me in OC (california) and she determined I was a size 53-54 and not above a 55 because I liked the snug fit. Now, to get a bangle on or off it's a serious struggle and will result in bruising. Should I continue with smaller sizes or go bigger? I'm so confused as to why my hand bones hardened up like that and can't think of anything other than hormone meds that I started in the same time. (2 mos) OR, and this is a scary or.... by bruising my hand it hardened up the bone structure and is widening due to damage. Anyone else with a similar issue? I'm thinking of getting a big ass bangle and thinking it'll be so nice to take it on and off every night because the smaller bangles that I wear to bed sometimes feel like it's strangling my arm and not enabling blood flow/circulation.

side note: I started the group on FB but I have nothing in it for now. No nice pics, no members, lol. Just got the name. It's the jade forum. slight nod to purse forum :) come join and we can chat and build it up together?
 
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j3ntan said:
so ladies, here's a question... I bought my first bangle based on the online measurements. 57.3. It used to fit a bit loose and was super easy to take on and off. In 2 months time, that same bangle is not going on my hand without lotion. What happened? Meanwhile, I went into a local jade shop near me in OC (california) and she determined I was a size 53-54 and not above a 55 because I liked the snug fit. Now, to get a bangle on or off it's a serious struggle and will result in bruising. Should I continue with smaller sizes or go bigger? I'm so confused as to why my hand bones hardened up like that and can't think of anything other than hormone meds that I started in the same time. (2 mos) OR, and this is a scary or.... by bruising my hand it hardened up the bone structure and is widening due to damage. Anyone else with a similar issue? I'm thinking of getting a big ass bangle and thinking it'll be so nice to take it on and off every night because the smaller bangles that I wear to bed sometimes feel like it's strangling my arm and not enabling blood flow/circulation.

side note: I started the group on FB but I have nothing in it for now. No nice pics, no members, lol. Just got the name. It's the jade forum. slight nod to purse forum :smile: come join and we can chat and build it up together?
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For me, even before I gained actual weight, there is a difference in how well my bangles come on and off depending on how hydrated I am. When I'm on my period, my hands swell. Too much salt, my hands and wrists swell. I have a few different rings to wear, too.

I have to lose another 10lbs to take my bangle off. And then I'd have to lose another 15lbs to comfortably wear the first few bangles in my collection. Larger bangles can be fun to add in, but you do have to be a bit more careful against accidental knocks.
 
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Junkenpo said:
Amazing!

Now that I've seen it, I would love a fidget stone like that. I really like the idea of something that size to keep in my hands to flip over and to feel the carvings on it. Thank you for the idea!
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No problem! I too think the idea of a fidget stone made for flipping and feel the ridges is a perfect idea, especially when you can display it afterwards once you're finished with it. :lol:
 
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Junkenpo said:
For me, even before I gained actual weight, there is a difference in how well my bangles come on and off depending on how hydrated I am. When I'm on my period, my hands swell. Too much salt, my hands and wrists swell. I have a few different rings to wear, too.

I have to lose another 10lbs to take my bangle off. And then I'd have to lose another 15lbs to comfortably wear the first few bangles in my collection. Larger bangles can be fun to add in, but you do have to be a bit more careful against accidental knocks.
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Yes, Definitely! Time of the month really does make a difference. I'm not sure if I've gained a lot of weight since Pandemic began but the jeans are definitely tighter :(. Oh no, you have a bangle stuck on your hand now? I have taken off impossible bangles but that's because my meaty hands have soft bones. I went in to Churk's place in OC today just to try on bangle sizes and I am perfectly happy with a 57-58 though I think I can even do 59. I am turning 44 next month and perimenopausal for sure, so I think I'd rather err on the side of caution with hardening bones.....
 
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AJadecent Angle said:
Thanks and that's really cool you know someone who works there! I actually don't live in Cali at all, I just really really like their products and service. :biggrin:
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It was actually REALLY nice, jade ppl seem to be super nice, in general. She met up with me and showed me some pieces since they don't currently have a storefront. She is gonna send me pics of a new blueish one that's getting polished up soon. It's so amazing to have access to ppl because I realize I really DO prefer to see things in person... esp since... let's be real... the pics on their site isn't exactly Yokdee quality, am I right????? lollll... but that's when I realized how fat my hands actually were and that I shouldn't have listened to the lady at Churk's and just buy for comfort too, I don't want to be bruising myself with each change of jewelry... life doesn't have to be that hard..... :) so it's high 57's or 58's or maybe even 59's for me from now on...
 
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j3ntan said:
It was actually REALLY nice, jade ppl seem to be super nice, in general. She met up with me and showed me some pieces since they don't currently have a storefront. She is gonna send me pics of a new blueish one that's getting polished up soon. It's so amazing to have access to ppl because I realize I really DO prefer to see things in person... esp since... let's be real... the pics on their site isn't exactly Yokdee quality, am I right????? lollll... but that's when I realized how fat my hands actually were and that I shouldn't have listened to the lady at Churk's and just buy for comfort too, I don't want to be bruising myself with each change of jewelry... life doesn't have to be that hard..... :smile: so it's high 57's or 58's or maybe even 59's for me from now on...
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Oh that's wonderful! I was always wondering if they have a Brick and Mortar store or was a studio of sorts, and I do agree the listing photos aren't Yokdee quality and do seem blurry at times lol :lol:. Also I agree that it's better you buy some bangles that are larger than intended bangle size if it means no longer bruising your hands.
Do post updates when WaterCrystal's finished polishing up your piece!
 
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j3ntan said:
It was actually REALLY nice, jade ppl seem to be super nice, in general. She met up with me and showed me some pieces since they don't currently have a storefront. She is gonna send me pics of a new blueish one that's getting polished up soon. It's so amazing to have access to ppl because I realize I really DO prefer to see things in person... esp since... let's be real... the pics on their site isn't exactly Yokdee quality, am I right????? lollll... but that's when I realized how fat my hands actually were and that I shouldn't have listened to the lady at Churk's and just buy for comfort too, I don't want to be bruising myself with each change of jewelry... life doesn't have to be that hard..... :) so it's high 57's or 58's or maybe even 59's for me from now on...
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It’s better to buy bigger bangles for comfort. As we age, our bones get harder. I used to wear a small oval bangle on my left wrist, compared to the 57-58mm D bangles I usually buy. As I fattened up by 4-5kg during the last couple of years, I realised it had to come off. I had the person who sold the bangle take it off for me. He did it in under half a minute while I had struggled twice before on my own and with my hubby. No more small bangles!
 
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SmokieDragon said:
It’s better to buy bigger bangles for comfort. As we age, our bones get harder. I used to wear a small oval bangle on my left wrist, compared to the 57-58mm D bangles I usually buy. As I fattened up by 4-5kg during the last couple of years, I realised it had to come off. I had the person who sold the bangle take it off for me. He did it in under half a minute while I had struggled twice before on my own and with my hubby. No more small bangles!
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I agree to this as well, speaking from my mother's experience, as she ages, she isn't as tolerant to pain as she was back then especially since her skin + veins get delicate which caused more bruising and skin inflammation. But I've seen her still rock on a 54mm agate bangle on and off, how she's still doing it despite knowing it's painful I'll never know.
 
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j3ntan said:
so ladies, here's a question... I bought my first bangle based on the online measurements. 57.3. It used to fit a bit loose and was super easy to take on and off. In 2 months time, that same bangle is not going on my hand without lotion. What happened? Meanwhile, I went into a local jade shop near me in OC (california) and she determined I was a size 53-54 and not above a 55 because I liked the snug fit. Now, to get a bangle on or off it's a serious struggle and will result in bruising. Should I continue with smaller sizes or go bigger? I'm so confused as to why my hand bones hardened up like that and can't think of anything other than hormone meds that I started in the same time. (2 mos) OR, and this is a scary or.... by bruising my hand it hardened up the bone structure and is widening due to damage. Anyone else with a similar issue? I'm thinking of getting a big ass bangle and thinking it'll be so nice to take it on and off every night because the smaller bangles that I wear to bed sometimes feel like it's strangling my arm and not enabling blood flow/circulation.

side note: I started the group on FB but I have nothing in it for now. No nice pics, no members, lol. Just got the name. It's the jade forum. slight nod to purse forum :smile: come join and we can chat and build it up together?
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Jade bangle collector here! I had a 57 that used to slide on and off with ease...I gained 20 lbs in 2 years (covid and working from home/less active, unfortunately). That bangle became harder to get on and off but I still could. I ordered a new 55 recently + was shocked it was *NOT* going on...but I was determined to get it on. With much pushing and bruising I was successful in putting it on, but know I won't be taking it off ever if I don't lose weight again lol. I don't think of my hand as losing or gaining but clearly that was not the case.
 
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