Thank you for reassuring the wearability of jade! I have no problem washing my filthiest leather purses right in the washer and toss them in the dryer, but more aware of the jade knocking around. I should get used to the idea of enjoying the piece. Our rings are oxidized silver with 14kt gold decoration. The silver wears off at certain spots after 2 weeks or so. I just did my cleaning and re-oxidizing last weekend. My silversmith warned me about having to maintain the oxidizing at least once a month when he provided the last CAD draft-but I still opted to do blackened silver-maintenance the rings is just a reminder work is required for everything including relationship even if I knew this guy I’m marrying since college. The artist Joan is great, but he has limited jade on hand: he has exactly 2 cabs at the time since it’s not popular stone in Europe???? (but the upside of that was it took just a minute to decide what cab I wanted) . I should have bought my own cabs and sent it out to him, but he’s in Spain. And you know USPS and the Spain postal don’t shake hands? Once package leaves Spain, it is not tracked and updated by USPS!OH MY Vicky! This set is beautiful. You and BF have great taste. My sister has a jade ring which is way thinner and she has worn it for over 40 years and it never cracked. I think jade is very strong. I get that you feel conscious about protecting it but even diamonds, rubies and sapphires can crack or chip. After my lavender cracked I learned that you can only be as careful as you can but more than that you have to enjoy wearing and love your jade. I also believe now that anything can be fixed or replaced but people and relationships are most important. You are fortunate indeed to have dear BF. That is the true gem. Everything else is just icing on the cake so enjoy wearing your jade. It is SO BEAUTIFUL!!!!!! I love the whole look. Speaking of clumsy, I am the worst. LOL My jeweler is always scolding me because she says I have to take better care of my jewelry. (She does the cleaning and maintenance work on my jewelry) The last time I brought it in she said that she couldn't believe that I had knocked it around so much and how much it needed to be cleaned. She also said that I shouldn't be wearing my ring when I put on hand cream because it gets into everything and makes a mess. LOL I really am the worst. Luckily jewelry cleans up very well. My compliments to your ring artist. You must be so proud to wear this beauty.