Ah, I hope the ones that you're hoping will grow on you really will! Some things in life are a surprising acquired taste.
The sizing really is a big factor! I thought "better slightly too big than too small to wear," but in a fairly chunky bangle, that extra size makes me hyper-conscious of knocking it all around, not to mention it looks awkward falling down my arm halfway to my elbow,
Here's the offending bangle in gloomy evening light, lol. It's a bit of a chameleon depending on what the light conditions are - I swear it mostly looks gray to me in person most of the time - but in every case it still leaves me completely cold! If I saw someone else wearing this I'd compliment them, but even besides the sizing issue it just doesn't feel like it's meant for me. I just wish I had jade-savvy close friends or family that would appreciate it as a gift, or that there was enough demand in my area that I could resell it for more than a penny on the dollar. I'll get over it eventually, haha! I'm going to Taiwan later this year so hopefully by then I won't be cut up about this one anymore, and may research some options for buying jade in person while I'm there.
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