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Yes I also found it strange that he didnt go to bring his new son homeI read that Shilo stayed with dad while Mad and Z went to pick up the newest member. Makes me wonder why she didn't take Shilo or leave Mad and Z with Brad too.
Brad said he couldn't go because of contract but I would think he would have gone IF he wanted to.
^ ouch - you do know you are talking about children, yes?
actually I think that this is a discussion purely bec they are famous. my grandmother had 8 children (one passed away ) and raised 7 - would anyone have said to her that she can't give her children attention? if AJ had given birth to 4 children, and not adopted, no one would even bother to say anything bec that is her natural right. and I have met families with one child who doesn't get enough attention -
I just don't get why anyone would assume bec they are 4 (or more) they won't get all the attention they need.
also, even if their relationship doesnt work, do you think they are better off in an orphanage (or maybe worse) than between Jolie/Pitt houses? Cruise/Kidman adopted kids,and they seem ok with their situation... I wish them happiness, and really don't want to judge their situation bec they are not really harming anyone.
I don't think Brad could go to Viet Nam because Angelina adopted as a "single" woman. With Brad there it would have opened up the can of worms about them living together when Viet Nam doesn't allow adoption to couples who aren't married.
I don't think Brad could go to Viet Nam because Angelina adopted as a "single" woman. With Brad there it would have opened up the can of worms about them living together when Viet Nam doesn't allow adoption to couples who aren't married.
I hope Brad and Angelina last as a couple at least until their kids are grown and that they do right by all these children. Peggy
^ ouch - you do know you are talking about children, yes?
actually I think that this is a discussion purely bec they are famous. my grandmother had 8 children (one passed away ) and raised 7 - would anyone have said to her that she can't give her children attention? if AJ had given birth to 4 children, and not adopted, no one would even bother to say anything bec that is her natural right. and I have met families with one child who doesn't get enough attention -
I just don't get why anyone would assume bec they are 4 (or more) they won't get all the attention they need.
also, even if their relationship doesnt work, do you think they are better off in an orphanage (or maybe worse) than between Jolie/Pitt houses? Cruise/Kidman adopted kids,and they seem ok with their situation... I wish them happiness, and really don't want to judge their situation bec they are not really harming anyone.
I didn't say anything about getting enough attention in my post.
1) I don't know anything about your grandma. My grandma had 9 or 10, but that was years ago. That's when the women didn't have to work and they didn't know anything better in regard to birth control.
2) I don't think it's about adopting or giving birth, but most experts would agree that, it is wise to have them a year or two apart...so each children will have full attention from their parents, during their toddler years...the most important years in one's life. How they turn out as adults depends on those days.
3) Of course it's good to grow up in plenty than in poverty. But will they grow up and become productive members of society or become another Brandon Davis, Paris Hilton? That time will tell.
Jolie and Pitt are entertainers(or any other celebs), talking about them is not because I care about what they do or don't do. Spending some of my spare time talking about them(celebs in general) is just another form of entertaining for me.
I didn't say anything about getting enough attention in my post.
1) I don't know anything about your grandma. My grandma had 9 or 10, but that was years ago. That's when the women didn't have to work and they didn't know anything better in regard to birth control.
2) I don't think it's about adopting or giving birth, but most experts would agree that, it is wise to have them a year or two apart...so each children will have full attention from their parents, during their toddler years...the most important years in one's life. How they turn out as adults depends on those days.
3) Of course it's good to grow up in plenty than in poverty. But will they grow up and become productive members of society or become another Brandon Davis, Paris Hilton? That time will tell.
Jolie and Pitt are entertainers(or any other celebs), talking about them is not because I care about what they do or don't do. Spending some of my spare time talking about them(celebs in general) is just another form of entertaining for me.
I couldn't agree more. When our grandmothers had their kids all they did was staying at home and taking care of them, not leaving them to nannies and going to work on a new movie. Of course it's still better to live like this than to live in an orphanage but if they really want to take a good care about those kids, perhaps they should slow down with their work a little. They have enough money to stop working for some time, so maybe they could just spend some time with their kids. Especially now when they have a new addition to their family, a boy who's not an infant and who can't even speak English. He will definitely need a lot of time and a lot of attention. I hope he and his siblings will get than attention and time because it's the most important thing is a child's life.