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Anyone else struggle with letting go of bags that don't quite work for you but are super pretty? I have two Cities - Bleu Lavande and Amethyst - that are absolutely gorgeous and I bought them back when I was still trying to figure out which Bal style worked for me. I have learned over time that the City is just too small for my needs majority of the time, but whenever I pull these out to consider selling them, they immediately go back into their dustbags because I can't let go of pretties. :nuts: :lol: It doesn't help that Bleu Lavande is my favorite Bal color ever and so it makes it 10 times harder for me to sell it. I also have this color in a Day, but one bag is not enough. :lol:

Yes, definitely struggled with this over the past few years. I had 3 Cities before (B Lavande, Amethyst, and 05 Black). I only have BL left. It was hard to let the other two go due to them being very pretty and special and I paid way too much for them even preowned. Whenever I see an Amethyst or Z Black posted, I think “I miss this color or this special year” but never “I miss this bag”. Funny, the City is a bit too big for me both in terms of too big for my needs and physically too big looking on me. One of the reasons I still have the BL City is that it was my first Bal and am a bit sentimental about it, lol. I am still trying to find the perfect long strap for it so that I can carry it long on the shoulder (vs the short little strap). Good luck deciding.
 
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Yes, definitely struggled with this over the past few years. I had 3 Cities before (B Lavande, Amethyst, and 05 Black). I only have BL left. It was hard to let the other two go due to them being very pretty and special and I paid way too much for them even preowned. Whenever I see an Amethyst or Z Black posted, I think “I miss this color or this special year” but never “I miss this bag”. Funny, the City is a bit too big for me both in terms of too big for my needs and physically too big looking on me. One of the reasons I still have the BL City is that it was my first Bal and am a bit sentimental about it, lol. I am still trying to find the perfect long strap for it so that I can carry it long on the shoulder (vs the short little strap). Good luck deciding.
We don't hear nearly enough about the Town, I keep thinking it might be a great size. Anyone have one? I remember trying one on when they were still available in the boutiques and really liking it but as I recall the strap was too long for me...
 
I have to keep a list of my bags, organized by brand, on my phone so that I don't lose track of what I have! :nuts:

Me too. I also have it on my phone (and on my IPAD) organized by brands, styles (if I have multiples), in the order of purchase, lol. Also further down on the same list — organized by colors so I can see what colors I am missing etc.
 
We don't hear nearly enough about the Town, I keep thinking it might be a great size. Anyone have one? I remember trying one on when they were still available in the boutiques and really liking it but as I recall the strap was too long for me...

I still have 2 Towns left. It is a great size for me although sometimes I need a tad bit more room so that it doesn’t look a stuffed sausage, lol. The strap is longish but not too long (I think) for a shorty like me (5’3”). I posted a mod shot in the what Handbag you carrying thread last month. I can’t do Towns pre-2012 (?) where the strap seems longer and non adjustable
 
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I still have 2 Towns left. It is a great size for me although sometimes I need a tad bit more room so that it doesn’t look a stuffed sausage, lol. The strap is longish but not too long (I think) for a shorty like me (5’3”). I posted a mod shot in the what Handbag you carrying thread last month. I can’t do Towns pre-2012 (?) where the strap seems longer and non adjustable
What seasons do you have and do you like the leather?
 
I saw that pearly rose, very pretty. I think you'll like it IRL, I have the M/U bag and it's a lovely colour.
Massaccesi isn't for me, unfortunately. The styles just don't call my name. Similar to Arayla really, the only style of theirs I have is the Harlow but that one I love. Rough and Tumble I'm not familiar with.
Would love to see your Chanel, I'm not a flap gal but I can appreciate the style.
I will definitely take some pictures of the Chanel when it arrives, should be later this week. Rough & Tumble has a pretty laid back style, a lot of hobos, and nice leathers. I tried them out when I was itching to try a new brand. They unfortunately have some quality control issues similar to Arayla but I love all of the custom design choices they have (down to the zippers!).

Yes, definitely struggled with this over the past few years. I had 3 Cities before (B Lavande, Amethyst, and 05 Black). I only have BL left. It was hard to let the other two go due to them being very pretty and special and I paid way too much for them even preowned. Whenever I see an Amethyst or Z Black posted, I think “I miss this color or this special year” but never “I miss this bag”. Funny, the City is a bit too big for me both in terms of too big for my needs and physically too big looking on me. One of the reasons I still have the BL City is that it was my first Bal and am a bit sentimental about it, lol. I am still trying to find the perfect long strap for it so that I can carry it long on the shoulder (vs the short little strap). Good luck deciding.
BL City was my 1st Bal, too!! And Amethyst was my 2nd. I think that's part of the reason I have a hard time letting go of them. They are both still even in my avatar pic on here.
 
Anyone else struggle with letting go of bags that don't quite work for you but are super pretty? I have two Cities - Bleu Lavande and Amethyst - that are absolutely gorgeous and I bought them back when I was still trying to figure out which Bal style worked for me. I have learned over time that the City is just too small for my needs majority of the time, but whenever I pull these out to consider selling them, they immediately go back into their dustbags because I can't let go of pretties. :nuts: :lol: It doesn't help that Bleu Lavande is my favorite Bal color ever and so it makes it 10 times harder for me to sell it. I also have this color in a Day, but one bag is not enough. :lol:
There's bleu lavande Velo with RGGH on TRR right now. The Velo is one of my favourite Bal sizes, more north/south than the City and you can cross body it or double the strap for a shoulder bag. Maybe swap your City for a Velo?
https://www.therealreal.com/product...motocross-giant-21-velo-bag-6crz6?position=12
 
There's bleu lavande Velo with RGGH on TRR right now. The Velo is one of my favourite Bal sizes, more north/south than the City and you can cross body it or double the strap for a shoulder bag. Maybe swap your City for a Velo?
https://www.therealreal.com/product...motocross-giant-21-velo-bag-6crz6?position=12
I have actually been searching for another BL bag, either a Velo, Work or 2nd Day to replace the City. I ordered this Velo from TRR but it is not as described. All of the corners have been repaired/repainted and there are marks on the bag that they tried to paint over as well, but I could still see them (TRR, of course, did not add this to their description when relisting it). I also purchased the BL Day with RGGH from Yoogi's (the Day I have has SGH) but it had yellow discoloration on the front that I didn't like. I would love to find another BL bag with RGGH like my City has.
 
I have actually been searching for another BL bag, either a Velo, Work or 2nd Day to replace the City. I ordered this Velo from TRR but it is not as described. All of the corners have been repaired/repainted and there are marks on the bag that they tried to paint over as well, but I could still see them (TRR, of course, did not add this to their description when relisting it). I also purchased the BL Day with RGGH from Yoogi's (the Day I have has SGH) but it had yellow discoloration on the front that I didn't like. I would love to find another BL bag with RGGH like my City has.
So you've actually purchased this particular bag? And as usual they didn't change the description but just put it back out there?
 
I have actually been searching for another BL bag, either a Velo, Work or 2nd Day to replace the City. I ordered this Velo from TRR but it is not as described. All of the corners have been repaired/repainted and there are marks on the bag that they tried to paint over as well, but I could still see them (TRR, of course, did not add this to their description when relisting it). I also purchased the BL Day with RGGH from Yoogi's (the Day I have has SGH) but it had yellow discoloration on the front that I didn't like. I would love to find another BL bag with RGGH like my City has.
Were you able to return it as SNAD? As far as I know, bags on TRR are final sale and the descriptions and pictures are quite lacking :( So I never purchase unless I see the bags in person (there's stores near me since I'm in NYC).
 
Were you able to return it as SNAD? As far as I know, bags on TRR are final sale and the descriptions and pictures are quite lacking :sad: So I never purchase unless I see the bags in person (there's stores near me since I'm in NYC).
I've returned them as SNADs and I know of others who have as well. Even though they say final sale.
 
Were you able to return it as SNAD? As far as I know, bags on TRR are final sale and the descriptions and pictures are quite lacking :sad: So I never purchase unless I see the bags in person (there's stores near me since I'm in NYC).
Yes, I called them and told them what was wrong with the bag, they had me send pictures, and then sent me a return label. I rarely purchase from them because of their poor descriptions and pictures unless I really want a particular bag. I hate dealing with returns with TRR because I'm always on hold for 30 minutes.
 
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