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I love reading this. I too will never let go of my B40 made of VN from the 1980s which patina well. It is not flashy, it is big and roomy and functional. (I can see why the original Birkin is a 40). It looks like it has lived a thousand years
Everything else is up for grabs as I am working towards being "collection free" by the time I am 60. (I am in my mid 50s and selling branded bags from where I live is a bit of a logistical nightmare).
Yes - I have always found it strange that H customers don't interact with each other. Some clueless guy will be buying a scarf for his mother/wife/GF and we scarfies watch silently as the SA says only "Does she like blue?" LOL
I’ve talked to other H clients and others have talked to me. It usually happens while we’re standing in line to pay or sitting waiting for our respective SAs
I've only had a few brief conversations with other clients in Hermes. There's a difference between having an excited, energetic conversation about the latest collection at Chanel compared to exchanging pleasantries at Hermes.
But why not?? I think you SHOULD be excited and energetic for Hermes in Hermes! I am!! This is why my appts always take 3hrs lol! I think your SA would love talking to a client who is passionate about Hermes, and not just “where’s my bag?” which they must get all day. I always learn interesting information when I talk to my SAs or SM about H. My Paris SA told me there is a story behind every piece, and he always tells me the story and I love hearing it! The materials, how it’s made, the inspiration behind it. It really makes purchasing the piece more meaningful for me.
about Space Dandy you should let it out! Go ahead!!
I want to shop with you.But why not?? I think you SHOULD be excited and energetic for Hermes in Hermes! I am!! This is why my appts always take 3hrs lol! I think your SA would love talking to a client who is passionate about Hermes, and not just “where’s my bag?” which they must get all day. I always learn interesting information when I talk to my SAs or SM about H. My Paris SA told me there is a story behind every piece, and he always tells me the story and I love hearing it! The materials, how it’s made, the inspiration behind it. It really makes purchasing the piece more meaningful for me.
I have to say I do have a fun time with my SAs at Hermes. My local SA and I joke that I bring my picnic lunch and we cop a spot in the chairs in the middle of the store (my local store doesn’t have private rooms) and literally gab and laugh for an hour before I start looking at anything. Like we are making a scene but we don’t care lol! Last time the SM came over and brought me a glass of champagne and joined us lol.
So I know this is the slowing down thread, and my goal this year is to slow down lol, but doesn’t mean I can’t still have fun when I go to the store. I can still be excited about H products- I just won’t buy as many of them lol! I think many of us on the H forum admire and enjoy many of the offerings from H, which is why we’re on this forum. So if you are like this
Agreed.
Thank you for so perfectly articulating my very feelings! As much as I am striving to be more mindful and considered with my purchases and as such that correlates to a "slowing down", it has not changed whatsoever my enjoyment of visiting stores and SAs, learning and listening about the brand and their experiences, having a great time, and enjoying myself. So, thank you, and perhaps we will share the opportunity to make a scene together one day!But why not?? I think you SHOULD be excited and energetic for Hermes in Hermes! I am!! This is why my appts always take 3hrs lol! I think your SA would love talking to a client who is passionate about Hermes, and not just “where’s my bag?” which they must get all day. I always learn interesting information when I talk to my SAs or SM about H. My Paris SA told me there is a story behind every piece, and he always tells me the story and I love hearing it! The materials, how it’s made, the inspiration behind it. It really makes purchasing the piece more meaningful for me.
I have to say I do have a fun time with my SAs at Hermes. My local SA and I joke that I bring my picnic lunch and we cop a spot in the chairs in the middle of the store (my local store doesn’t have private rooms) and literally gab and laugh for an hour before I start looking at anything. Like we are making a scene but we don’t care lol! Last time the SM came over and brought me a glass of champagne and joined us lol.
So I know this is the slowing down thread, and my goal this year is to slow down lol, but doesn’t mean I can’t still have fun when I go to the store. I can still be excited about H products- I just won’t buy as many of them lol! I think many of us on the H forum admire and enjoy many of the offerings from H, which is why we’re on this forum. So if you are like this
But why not?? I think you SHOULD be excited and energetic for Hermes in Hermes! I am!! This is why my appts always take 3hrs lol! I think your SA would love talking to a client who is passionate about Hermes, and not just “where’s my bag?” which they must get all day. I always learn interesting information when I talk to my SAs or SM about H. My Paris SA told me there is a story behind every piece, and he always tells me the story and I love hearing it! The materials, how it’s made, the inspiration behind it. It really makes purchasing the piece more meaningful for me.
I have to say I do have a fun time with my SAs at Hermes. My local SA and I joke that I bring my picnic lunch and we cop a spot in the chairs in the middle of the store (my local store doesn’t have private rooms) and literally gab and laugh for an hour before I start looking at anything. Like we are making a scene but we don’t care lol! Last time the SM came over and brought me a glass of champagne and joined us lol.
So I know this is the slowing down thread, and my goal this year is to slow down lol, but doesn’t mean I can’t still have fun when I go to the store. I can still be excited about H products- I just won’t buy as many of them lol! I think many of us on the H forum admire and enjoy many of the offerings from H, which is why we’re on this forum. So if you are like this
It just occurred to me. That this may be because each customer see the other as a competitor. Which makes this whole thing ever sadder than it already is.Agreed.
Like I mentioned on Monday...it's almost like you have to look the part for Hermès, almost pageant-like...no chatting, stand tall, shoulders back, chin up. Answer each question completely but brief. Then, and only then, will you be eligible to win your award...if the judges choose you!
On my visit to the store yesterday, a couple was looking at a few bags on display and showed interest in a Picotin. After their SA walked away, I warmly smiled/greeted them and said "Oh you like the Picotin Cargo huh? That's a great bag & I've always admired the Cargo line." The wife looked to her husband for permission to talk and he looked at me and then her (speechless, with a nod) then the wife uttered one word "yes". It was so strange, it was like they were afraid to interact with other human beings and ddidn’t want to get caught engaged in a conversation with another client.
I totally agree with this. The fact that I don’t really need anything doesn’t change anything about how beautiful many of the products are or how much I enjoy seeing them. I have a blast when I visit; I love looking at everything, discussing the merits of style and color choices, and seeing how the boutique has put things together. It’s always an adventure and fun, otherwise I wouldn’t bother. I should add that because my boutique is not conveniently located for me I don’t ‘pop in’ on a regular basis, and that imposes a certain amount of shopping discipline, but when I do go it’s a party not a library. 😎Thank you for so perfectly articulating my very feelings! As much as I am striving to be more mindful and considered with my purchases and as such that correlates to a "slowing down", it has not changed whatsoever my enjoyment of visiting stores and SAs, learning and listening about the brand and their experiences, having a great time, and enjoying myself. So, thank you, and perhaps we will share the opportunity to make a scene together one day!
Maybe I'm looking too much into it. But that doesn't sound like a healthy situation. Almost hostage-like.Agreed.
Like I mentioned on Monday...it's almost like you have to look the part for Hermès, almost pageant-like...no chatting, stand tall, shoulders back, chin up. Answer each question completely but brief. Then, and only then, will you be eligible to win your award...if the judges choose you!
On my visit to the store yesterday, a couple was looking at a few bags on display and showed interest in a Picotin. After their SA walked away, I warmly smiled/greeted them and said "Oh you like the Picotin Cargo huh? That's a great bag & I've always admired the Cargo line." The wife looked to her husband for permission to talk and he looked at me and then her (speechless, with a nod) then the wife uttered one word "yes". It was so strange, it was like they were afraid to interact with other human beings and ddidn’t want to get caught engaged in a conversation with another client.
. I bought a donated vintage Vivienne Westwood dress instead and feel guilty enough after another major shopping haul at Bal, Valentino and Burberry on Weds. 
I'm gonna have to start support threads in every TPF forum soon.
The struggle is realI've intervened on a couple of occasions, I can't just watch someone throw away their hard-earned money on a past-season scarf that the SA recommends because s/he knows no other client will want it.
I have made more of an effort lately.
Yesterday:
1. I walked-up Bond St and didn't go into H even though I had 30 mins to kill. I have to admit, since I didn't have an appointment, it was more the thought I'd prob be given the runaround for an hour (and hence late) that put me off, but it was good to know there's nothing I actively want at the moment. Where did 'just looking' go in H (and all luxury) SA's are like honed snipers these days? Goodness forbid someone may want to browse and enjoy looking at ranges before going home to consider a £10K purchase.
2. After work I went to a charity auction and didn't buy a vintage blue and gold cw Tigre Royal 45 (est. £100). I almost did because I felt sorry for the scarf
