Both are gorgeous bags - and, like you said, you'll probably never see the likes of them again. Seeing your pics makes me regret not buying them (I remember looking at them at the Vacaville CA outlet - they had piles of them - making me feel like nobody liked them). I think if you return them, regrets will come back to haunt you.
Unless, of course it's honestly not love......... I'm getting a vibe that you're having second thoughts though...... so leave them in plain sight for a few days, and decide if you'd miss them. Good luck with your decision!
You are right that is why I have sat on them for so long. You said you had piles of them in CA, I'm jealous, here in MI we, usually get one-sey two-seys.
I do feel that if I give these up I won't see their likes again.
It's not an easy decision.