Just read all 38 pages of this thread... I LOVE this bag



I have loved it since I first saw it at Neiman's over a year ago. My boyfriend ended up ordering one for me this past weekend as a gift, the shaggy deer falabella foldover small tote. I don't know if he ordered black or black-silver (I think the diff btwn the two is that black-silver has a sheen? Y/n?), as it was the last one on Gilt and he's known for a while that I adore the foldover Falabella and I'm a "black" person-- that is, black bags, black heels, black sunglasses, a lot of black basically.
I'm confused by some of the posts here. A few people mentioned you can't wear the foldover bag on your shoulder. Do you mean you can't wear it on your shoulder when the foldover isn't folded? I've tried this bag on in multiple colors at Neimans/Saks over the past 1.5 yrs and at 5'4" 95 lbs have no problem wearing it on my shoulder when it's folded over..? How else would you carry a foldover falabella? In the crook of your arm? Would that be uncomfortable?
Also, I have a major issue with carrying too much sh*t with me. My daily bag atm is a black w/ rose gold HW Alexander Wang Rocco. My ipad, iphone, MJ quilted wallet, makeup bag, makeup brush/lipgloss bag, meds, keys & fobs, and my sunglasses in a case are always in my bag (nvm everything else) and I can't go walking around the store without it killing my back and neck. Admittedly, I broke my neck a few years ago and I don't have a lot of upper body strength (and the bag is heavy as it is). My goal was/is to get a bag that I can easily use at night, ideally carrying it on my shoulder. I think that's why the foldover Falabella has always appealed to me aside from its 'edginess.' There's no possible way I could carry it folded over with all my supposed essentials, so it forces me to carry less stuff. This translates to less complaining when I'm out for dinner, drinks, whatever.
What do you guys keep in your foldover small Falabella? Or rather, how "full" is it? It seems at some point it would start to bulge and look awkward. I'm just nervous my grand plan won't work out and I'll end up with another large bag. The small foldover is a small bag in my eyes because I used to big bags. I'm also realizing they're super inconvenient when you're out socially. My Rocco needs it's own chair in a restaurant for example... I'm tired of lugging my bag around. I won't be able to carry my life in this one right?
Also nervous I won't like the silver-black color... I'm sure I will and I'm probably over-analyzing the pics I find online. I used to want the bag in "redwood" and currently navy. I can't find a good pic of redwood online-- nothing that does that gorgeous color justice. It's a nude/taupe with a slightly glittery sheen, very subtle. Maybe the first step is owning a "small" bag. My next step will be buying a bag that isn't black.

Maybe.