I don't suppose there's anyone out there who's unfortunate enough to have extra wide feet like me and can recommend some brands?
I keep ordering beautiful shoes and nothing seems to fit - I'm hoping there's someone out there that can point me in the right direction.
I have incredibly wide feet that are super flat and a high arch. They might as well just be slabs of meat, LOL! To give you an idea, if I were to wear wide width shoes I would go down to a 9, but in regular width I'm pretty much always a 12 in designer shoes. I find purchasing shoes incredibly difficult so when I find a brand that works, I stick with it. I don't actually own any wide width shoes because it's hard to find fashionable ones and I'm picky, so these will be brands that I found stretch with wear really nicely and are comfortable. I have a lot of issues with shoes rubbing the backs of my heels, too. For less expensive brands I would try:
Coach, Toms (their canvas stretches super fast, also if you can locate their all leather version, I lived in them until it got too hot), Tory Burch, Pretty Ballerina, BP shoes, and Sam Edelman. The Lucky Brand Emmie flats come in wide widths and are pretty comfortable.
For higher price point brands, I swear by Chanel. My black ballet flats from Chanel have been resoled and have stretched so comfortably for me and there's no rubbing whatsoever. I own three pairs of Chanel flats and I live in them practically, plus a pair of Chanel wedges. If I could only own one brand of shoe for the rest of my life, it would hands down be Chanel. Sadly the prices for the flats keep going up, but what can you do? If you're looking for a heel I own and find the Louboutin "apostrophy" to be super comfortable. I own two pairs of Charlotte Olympia: heels and the cat flats and they work fantastically for me, too. If you're looking for boots, I have the Jimmy Choo "youth" boots and they have stretched nicely and work great for my thick calves. If you want flats, I recommend their "waine" style. The other brand I swear by is YSL. Anything I've ever tried on fits great and I love my tribtoos. Interestingly enough, I'm always a 12 in designer shoes because of the width of my foot, but in my tribtoos I'm an 11. I also found Chloe flats to be super comfortable width wise, but they rubbed the back of my heel, so I'm thinking of trying them in a smaller size.
Brands I've tried and don't work for me: Roger Vivier, Valentino and Nicholas Kirkwood are all brands I stay clear from, also anything that's patent. Patent just doesn't stretch enough to accommodate my foot, so I don't bother looking. Eloquii actually just released some pretty cute shoes and I'm tempted to try a pair. It's hard with wide feet because you have to take into account if the pinching you feel when you first try on shoes will go away or not. People always say only buy shoes if they're comfortable straight out of the box, but as someone with incredibly wide feet I don't live by that saying. For instance, the Chanel flats always take about a week for me to break in and are tight at first, but then become like little clouds of heaven.