“Sheltering in Place” with Hermès
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Dear @tlamdang08, I just saw the status on your profile and looked up to find out what had happened to your DH.
I haven’t been around too much, so I’m sorry I didn’t reach out to you before.
Just wanted to send you my love. It’s all so sad and sudden and I can’t even begin to imagine how hard it must have been for you and your family! I hope you can find peace and happiness in your life again.
Xx
Thank you so much for reaching out. I am glad that I join the TPF and receive so much care from all over the world. Thank you, everyone and May God keeps you and your family happy and the best of health.
Enjoy morning breeze - fresh spring feel like
My neighbor makes a great cream of broccoli soup. I saved some from yesterday and had it this morning....
A church member gave me her favorite fish dish (mackerel with pineapple )
I used to have this when I was young.
I don't have French baguette so I eat with potato sandwich slices.
This is my brunch.
I used to have this when I was young.
I don't have French baguette so I eat with potato sandwich slices.
This is my brunch.
OmG, please let me share my dream early this morning.
Yesterday was my crying day. My choir’s text group was planning what gifts to give for a member’s son who will have confirmation in the next two weeks. Reading through all the happiness texts from everyone I start to break down because my youngest will not have his Dad beside him when he’s confirmation. After that my tears just would not stop for all day long. My second son was terrified of my voice when he came down to talk to me. He thought I got sick. I told him I missed his dad. That was my cry voice Not sick.
At around 4:30 I went into my beloved husband’s office to pick up my daughter. I walk into his room and sat there to look around and continue to cry. Then I saw a pair of bamboos one was dry / dead, the other was about too if I did not take care of it.
My heart went calm immediately, a light flashed into my head. Just like He wanted to show me That I need to take care of myself. I need to take care of the last bamboo.
I brought the pot home and added more water and placed it under his altar.
This morning when I was half as sleep, I saw myself at an open market looking for a pair of jade earrings then I saw him peak behind me. He show his face next to my ear and smile with his happy face just like before-in real time. Then he disappeared.
I woke up. And I am so happy. My son came in and told me it is 15 more mins to drive him to school.
I even put on my lipstick, wear his warmth up Hermes jacket.
Thank you for letting me share my first dream after his death.
Yesterday was my crying day. My choir’s text group was planning what gifts to give for a member’s son who will have confirmation in the next two weeks. Reading through all the happiness texts from everyone I start to break down because my youngest will not have his Dad beside him when he’s confirmation. After that my tears just would not stop for all day long. My second son was terrified of my voice when he came down to talk to me. He thought I got sick. I told him I missed his dad. That was my cry voice Not sick.
At around 4:30 I went into my beloved husband’s office to pick up my daughter. I walk into his room and sat there to look around and continue to cry. Then I saw a pair of bamboos one was dry / dead, the other was about too if I did not take care of it.
My heart went calm immediately, a light flashed into my head. Just like He wanted to show me That I need to take care of myself. I need to take care of the last bamboo.
I brought the pot home and added more water and placed it under his altar.
This morning when I was half as sleep, I saw myself at an open market looking for a pair of jade earrings then I saw him peak behind me. He show his face next to my ear and smile with his happy face just like before-in real time. Then he disappeared.
I woke up. And I am so happy. My son came in and told me it is 15 more mins to drive him to school.
I even put on my lipstick, wear his warmth up Hermes jacket.
Thank you for letting me share my first dream after his death.
Hi Tlamdang, Sending you my biggest and warmest virtual hug to you.
Dreams are where I see and hear my parents again. No matter the context/content or how I feel after I awake, they are gifts. I hope you receive many more of these gifts in the coming days, months and years.OmG, please let me share my dream early this morning.
Yesterday was my crying day. My choir’s text group was planning what gifts to give for a member’s son who will have confirmation in the next two weeks. Reading through all the happiness texts from everyone I start to break down because my youngest will not have his Dad beside him when he’s confirmation. After that my tears just would not stop for all day long. My second son was terrified of my voice when he came down to talk to me. He thought I got sick. I told him I missed his dad. That was my cry voice Not sick.
At around 4:30 I went into my beloved husband’s office to pick up my daughter. I walk into his room and sat there to look around and continue to cry. Then I saw a pair of bamboos one was dry / dead, the other was about too if I did not take care of it.
My heart went calm immediately, a light flashed into my head. Just like He wanted to show me That I need to take care of myself. I need to take care of the last bamboo.
I brought the pot home and added more water and placed it under his altar.
This morning when I was half as sleep, I saw myself at an open market looking for a pair of jade earrings then I saw him peak behind me. He show his face next to my ear and smile with his happy face just like before-in real time. Then he disappeared.
I woke up. And I am so happy. My son came in and told me it is 15 more mins to drive him to school.
I even put on my lipstick, wear his warmth up Hermes jacket.
Thank you for letting me share my first dream after his death.
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Hi tlamdang08,OmG, please let me share my dream early this morning.
Yesterday was my crying day. My choir’s text group was planning what gifts to give for a member’s son who will have confirmation in the next two weeks. Reading through all the happiness texts from everyone I start to break down because my youngest will not have his Dad beside him when he’s confirmation. After that my tears just would not stop for all day long. My second son was terrified of my voice when he came down to talk to me. He thought I got sick. I told him I missed his dad. That was my cry voice Not sick.
At around 4:30 I went into my beloved husband’s office to pick up my daughter. I walk into his room and sat there to look around and continue to cry. Then I saw a pair of bamboos one was dry / dead, the other was about too if I did not take care of it.
My heart went calm immediately, a light flashed into my head. Just like He wanted to show me That I need to take care of myself. I need to take care of the last bamboo.
I brought the pot home and added more water and placed it under his altar.
This morning when I was half as sleep, I saw myself at an open market looking for a pair of jade earrings then I saw him peak behind me. He show his face next to my ear and smile with his happy face just like before-in real time. Then he disappeared.
I woke up. And I am so happy. My son came in and told me it is 15 more mins to drive him to school.
I even put on my lipstick, wear his warmth up Hermes jacket.
Thank you for letting me share my first dream after his death.
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What a wonderful dream and an incredible gift for your DH to visit you. Definitely a cherish moment. Virtual hugs to you and your children.
Thank you for sharing. 
I cried as I read this. Big hugs to you.OmG, please let me share my dream early this morning.
Yesterday was my crying day. My choir’s text group was planning what gifts to give for a member’s son who will have confirmation in the next two weeks. Reading through all the happiness texts from everyone I start to break down because my youngest will not have his Dad beside him when he’s confirmation. After that my tears just would not stop for all day long. My second son was terrified of my voice when he came down to talk to me. He thought I got sick. I told him I missed his dad. That was my cry voice Not sick.
At around 4:30 I went into my beloved husband’s office to pick up my daughter. I walk into his room and sat there to look around and continue to cry. Then I saw a pair of bamboos one was dry / dead, the other was about too if I did not take care of it.
My heart went calm immediately, a light flashed into my head. Just like He wanted to show me That I need to take care of myself. I need to take care of the last bamboo.
I brought the pot home and added more water and placed it under his altar.
This morning when I was half as sleep, I saw myself at an open market looking for a pair of jade earrings then I saw him peak behind me. He show his face next to my ear and smile with his happy face just like before-in real time. Then he disappeared.
I woke up. And I am so happy. My son came in and told me it is 15 more mins to drive him to school.
I even put on my lipstick, wear his warmth up Hermes jacket.
Thank you for letting me share my first dream after his death.
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I am sure that we will meet our loved ones again some day. But that doesn't make the temporary separation any easier. Please take great care of yourself. Our loved ones want us to enjoy our time here.
Sending you warmth and love on this special day.OmG, please let me share my dream early this morning.
Yesterday was my crying day. My choir’s text group was planning what gifts to give for a member’s son who will have confirmation in the next two weeks. Reading through all the happiness texts from everyone I start to break down because my youngest will not have his Dad beside him when he’s confirmation. After that my tears just would not stop for all day long. My second son was terrified of my voice when he came down to talk to me. He thought I got sick. I told him I missed his dad. That was my cry voice Not sick.
At around 4:30 I went into my beloved husband’s office to pick up my daughter. I walk into his room and sat there to look around and continue to cry. Then I saw a pair of bamboos one was dry / dead, the other was about too if I did not take care of it.
My heart went calm immediately, a light flashed into my head. Just like He wanted to show me That I need to take care of myself. I need to take care of the last bamboo.
I brought the pot home and added more water and placed it under his altar.
This morning when I was half as sleep, I saw myself at an open market looking for a pair of jade earrings then I saw him peak behind me. He show his face next to my ear and smile with his happy face just like before-in real time. Then he disappeared.
I woke up. And I am so happy. My son came in and told me it is 15 more mins to drive him to school.
I even put on my lipstick, wear his warmth up Hermes jacket.
Thank you for letting me share my first dream after his death.
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Tears are sometimes necessary for your mental health. Big virtual hug to you and take care of yourself!OmG, please let me share my dream early this morning.
Yesterday was my crying day. My choir’s text group was planning what gifts to give for a member’s son who will have confirmation in the next two weeks. Reading through all the happiness texts from everyone I start to break down because my youngest will not have his Dad beside him when he’s confirmation. After that my tears just would not stop for all day long. My second son was terrified of my voice when he came down to talk to me. He thought I got sick. I told him I missed his dad. That was my cry voice Not sick.
At around 4:30 I went into my beloved husband’s office to pick up my daughter. I walk into his room and sat there to look around and continue to cry. Then I saw a pair of bamboos one was dry / dead, the other was about too if I did not take care of it.
My heart went calm immediately, a light flashed into my head. Just like He wanted to show me That I need to take care of myself. I need to take care of the last bamboo.
I brought the pot home and added more water and placed it under his altar.
This morning when I was half as sleep, I saw myself at an open market looking for a pair of jade earrings then I saw him peak behind me. He show his face next to my ear and smile with his happy face just like before-in real time. Then he disappeared.
I woke up. And I am so happy. My son came in and told me it is 15 more mins to drive him to school.
I even put on my lipstick, wear his warmth up Hermes jacket.
Thank you for letting me share my first dream after his death.
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Dreams are where I see and hear my parents again. No matter the context/content or how I feel after I awake, they are gifts. I hope you receive many more of these gifts in the coming days, months and years.
Hi tlamdang08,
What a wonderful dream and an incredible gift for your DH to visit you. Definitely a cherish moment. Virtual hugs to you and your children.
Sending you warmth and love on this special day.
Thank you, everyone, and Thank you for all of the virtual hugs
I have completed a day without him in happiness and thinking that all the warm hugs that you all send to me making me a happier person and give me the strength to keep walking on my path.