I totally understand! I had also been on the fence about a pink bag for a while. I had come close - a nearly pink but kinda burgundy
Coach bag I had. And I kept it for a couple of years, but it just didn't work for me. Partially the color, but also the straps were a bit too short to be a shoulder bag. It eventually got consigned via Threadup (recently).
And then is started. First was an impulse bag at the Ferragamo outlet - it is a chain flag bag - which is something I really wanted. And while it is dressy for evening, it seemed to work casually as well. So while the cost per wear isn't down super low, it is surprisingly versatile.
And then last year (or maybe the year before?) - a Coach runway preview bag, it was a cute little pink camera bag based on a classic style. A darker take on hot pink. And this one became my work bag. Since I carried a backpack to work - I could just use it for essentials. And it got a lot of use. Even with pink outfits.
And for my n-day last year, I got a black bag customized with a pink lining. I love it because the lighter lining is so helpful for visibility. And it is fun.
And in quarantine times, carrying my old friends the black bags were depressing me. And I found a perfect shade of pink cross body / shoulder bag from Coach. And this has been my new daily bag when I get to go somewhere. It cheers me up. I think I have hit pink bag capacity.
So I really need to work on editing my purses. I have been a purseoholic since like 10 years old. Of course then, you didn't really have a need for purses. But I had a few to rotate for church. My purse then had some gum, a pen, and a dollar for the offering.

And as I got older I added some chapstick. By the time middle school rolled around, I started getting more into purses. My collection wasn't huge but I had an array of Target/Kmart/Walmart/Ross bags. I brought a purse to school - with my backpack. And this is when I started switching it up based on mood. This continued through college. And I always had quite a few purses. And of course into early adulthood. I was so excited to splurge on a Coach bag - but it was my love of Kellys that brought me here. And I found out the price was a year's rent and there went that dream from childhood (I had picked out that Kelly purse as my dream bag around 9 or 10 - I just didn't find out the name till I got a lot older).
So where are we now? Well I am always the one who is looking for the "perfect" bag for whatever category. And I do not always choose winners. And many times I have multiples of like a black crossbody, or a black evening bag or whatever. I have always considered multiples, many times over the years, but I generally miss the boat.
But I do have one bag in multiples in my collection now: Coach fold over clutches.
small and
big. The name and finishes change every season, and I am around 6 years in at this point. I have 4 - but one is in my Threadup pile. The original one was a black snake embossed with a silver wash. The second one way a black and white python. The third is quilted and lightly studded. And the 4th is a black grained leather and double size - the only one with gold tone hardware. The black/silver one is going away - silver is no longer for me.
I have a could of variation on black chain flap bags - and each one seemed good, and then reality set in. One is Mulberry - great leather but the chain is annoyingly short and the clasp is really sharp. One is Coach. This one has a little too much organization for me, and I found the finish is not durable. And the strap is only short shoulder/long shoulder. And adjusting the two is a little finicky. And so is the strap - it has come undone a few times. And then there is the Coach link Dinky - which is very cute but small. And a few colors which is nice but not for everything. And the newest one is Akris. And the shape is great - but it kinda has too many pockets, and is a little too plain. Now that I have really rethought my preferences, I realize I can no longer handle relatively plain black bags. I want a little more detail - in the form of texture and hardware. So I am searching again.
And I have too many evening bags - I am finally getting rid of my cute gold bag that is just too small. I kept it for the lovely leather and interior, but in reality I only used it a couple of times because it can barely handle keys, a phone, lipstick, and cards. And I really need to also add eye drops and hand lotion at the bare minimum for evening.
And I have too many black bags - lots of small variations on similar themes.
And there are the bags that have memories but haven't been used in years. So it is time to purge. And purge again.
I did get rid of a lot earlier this year as part of a closet purge. And happily got a good chunk of money via Threadup, which was nice.
But I have added 2 bags this year with a 3rd on the way, so it is time to say goodbye to a few more, and the wallets I have abandoned for various reasons. I live in a small place and each inch of closet space is precious. So I need to clear out all categories and edit even more.
I do not have a number yet, but this thread gives me a lot to think about. I don't think I can ever get to 10. But maybe I should try to get to 20. I always seem to need that just in case bag!