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Coming here to confess a bit of a fail. I took photos today of bags that I have to list for sale. I almost faltered with my black, Alexander Wang Rockie w/iridescent hardware. I had put it on my "to sell" list even before I found this thread, and I thought I was fine with it, but when I pulled it out and saw it again, a part of me resisted. I really LOVE the iridescent hardware! But, I managed to take the photos I needed and will move forward with listing it. The aspect of the bag I love is the iridescent hardware, but the duffle shape of the bag isn't one I find the easiest to use. A part of me is still resisting because the iridescent hardware against that matte black leather! :loveeyes: But, I also don't seem to miss the bag when it's out of sight and haven't had a hankering to use it while it's been out of sight, so I make myself move forward with listing it and see what happens.

Two of the bags that had been moved to the closet for departing bags have been photographed to be sold, and I had no hesitations with those. So a small victory there. My Coach leopard print market tote remains in the closet for departing bags, but I cannot bring myself to move it to the official "sell" list. I feel quite in limbo with that one.

And, I also pulled out some bags that have been on "probation" in my mind - ones that I really have thought will be on the "sell" list but that I've been too lazy to actually move to the closet for departing bags. One of them, I successfully managed to photograph to sell. It the Coach prairie print Bowery with star rivets, and I love so many elements of the bag - the gunmetal hardware! The darling floral print! The rocker-chic chain and rexy, feather, and star charms! And the amazing studs and star rivets on the side! It is such a cool little bag, and I received SO many compliments when I used it. BUT, it is small. Smaller than is comfortable for me to use, and I feel like I need to play Tetris with it (which I find super annoying). So, I have twinges about listing this one, but I'm mostly ok-ish with it.

And then the fail - my Coach, leather sequins Dinky. I have really been set on selling it in my mind. It's another small bag (though bigger than the Bowery), and small bags just don't get a ton of use from me. Plus, I have two other leather sequins pieces - the wristlet/clutch and the large Rodarte clutch (that is big enough that it probably fits more than the Dinky). This is one that I have been so set in my head on selling that I've been already kind of not including in my "final" bag count. But I pulled it out of the dustbag, and I couldn't even take the photos. I just love the leather sequins. It's such a cool and unique feature to me. I know it is rarely used, it's not in any way sentimental, and thus, I *should* sell, but instead, I put it bag into its dustbag and back in my closet. So, it appears my collection will actually be growing by at least one because for now, what I just can't let go of what I though I easily could say bye to. :oh:

On the plus side though, echoing the sentiments of the last few posts, this is certainly a lovely "problem" to have. I am fortunate to own these pretty items that I love so much that I can't see to let go of them. And, of course, I am fortunate in much more significant ways than that. The state of things these days really do have me counting my blessings and feeling so very grateful. :heart:
 
Coming here to confess a bit of a fail. I took photos today of bags that I have to list for sale. I almost faltered with my black, Alexander Wang Rockie w/iridescent hardware. I had put it on my "to sell" list even before I found this thread, and I thought I was fine with it, but when I pulled it out and saw it again, a part of me resisted. I really LOVE the iridescent hardware! But, I managed to take the photos I needed and will move forward with listing it. The aspect of the bag I love is the iridescent hardware, but the duffle shape of the bag isn't one I find the easiest to use. A part of me is still resisting because the iridescent hardware against that matte black leather! :loveeyes: But, I also don't seem to miss the bag when it's out of sight and haven't had a hankering to use it while it's been out of sight, so I make myself move forward with listing it and see what happens.

Two of the bags that had been moved to the closet for departing bags have been photographed to be sold, and I had no hesitations with those. So a small victory there. My Coach leopard print market tote remains in the closet for departing bags, but I cannot bring myself to move it to the official "sell" list. I feel quite in limbo with that one.

And, I also pulled out some bags that have been on "probation" in my mind - ones that I really have thought will be on the "sell" list but that I've been too lazy to actually move to the closet for departing bags. One of them, I successfully managed to photograph to sell. It the Coach prairie print Bowery with star rivets, and I love so many elements of the bag - the gunmetal hardware! The darling floral print! The rocker-chic chain and rexy, feather, and star charms! And the amazing studs and star rivets on the side! It is such a cool little bag, and I received SO many compliments when I used it. BUT, it is small. Smaller than is comfortable for me to use, and I feel like I need to play Tetris with it (which I find super annoying). So, I have twinges about listing this one, but I'm mostly ok-ish with it.

And then the fail - my Coach, leather sequins Dinky. I have really been set on selling it in my mind. It's another small bag (though bigger than the Bowery), and small bags just don't get a ton of use from me. Plus, I have two other leather sequins pieces - the wristlet/clutch and the large Rodarte clutch (that is big enough that it probably fits more than the Dinky). This is one that I have been so set in my head on selling that I've been already kind of not including in my "final" bag count. But I pulled it out of the dustbag, and I couldn't even take the photos. I just love the leather sequins. It's such a cool and unique feature to me. I know it is rarely used, it's not in any way sentimental, and thus, I *should* sell, but instead, I put it bag into its dustbag and back in my closet. So, it appears my collection will actually be growing by at least one because for now, what I just can't let go of what I though I easily could say bye to. :oh:

On the plus side though, echoing the sentiments of the last few posts, this is certainly a lovely "problem" to have. I am fortunate to own these pretty items that I love so much that I can't see to let go of them. And, of course, I am fortunate in much more significant ways than that. The state of things these days really do have me counting my blessings and feeling so very grateful. :heart:
There will be other bags with that gorgeous iridescent hardware to replace your Rockie.

I couldn't resist the leather sequins so I bought the 1941 clutch, trying to convince myself I could make it work for me. It is way too small and I'm already past the return date. My cars keys alone are too bulky for it. I would probably have been better with the Dinky but I really wanted the black with the multicolor sequins and I never found that in the Dinky. So at this point I just take it out to admire it and then put it away again.
 
There will be other bags with that gorgeous iridescent hardware to replace your Rockie.

I couldn't resist the leather sequins so I bought the 1941 clutch, trying to convince myself I could make it work for me. It is way too small and I'm already past the return date. My cars keys alone are too bulky for it. I would probably have been better with the Dinky but I really wanted the black with the multicolor sequins and I never found that in the Dinky. So at this point I just take it out to admire it and then put it away again.
Yes, that is what I keep telling myself re. the Rockie. The part of me that is resisting doesn't want to hear it, lol! But the part of me that is determined to try and downsize and curate a well-loved collection that makes sense is telling myself that the Rockie is not the only bag out there with iridescent hardware!

OMG, the leather sequins just seem to do something to me! My Dinky is in the blue-silver color way, which I love. I don't think the Dinky ever came in the multi-color, which is honestly better for me because I would have then probably ended up with both! The foldover clutch (which, I think is really just the Callie?) did, but I don't think that layout would work well for me. I don't really like interior dividers. I also have the 1941 clutch with the multi-color sequins because I also love the multi-color. I find it too small as well, but I really wanted something with the multi-color, so I kept it. I can squeeze my phone, keys, and card case in it, so I sometimes get use out of it for quick runs out of the house, but not often because in those situations, I'm more likely to stick my phone and keys and card case in my pockets. I have thought about selling it because now I have the large Rodarte clutch with also has multi-colored leather sequins. But the colors are different (the 1941 clutch is more pastel? or silvery? not sure how to describe it...), and the design is different, so I haven't been able to convince myself to sell it.
 
Coming here to confess a bit of a fail. I took photos today of bags that I have to list for sale. I almost faltered with my black, Alexander Wang Rockie w/iridescent hardware. I had put it on my "to sell" list even before I found this thread, and I thought I was fine with it, but when I pulled it out and saw it again, a part of me resisted. I really LOVE the iridescent hardware! But, I managed to take the photos I needed and will move forward with listing it. The aspect of the bag I love is the iridescent hardware, but the duffle shape of the bag isn't one I find the easiest to use. A part of me is still resisting because the iridescent hardware against that matte black leather! :loveeyes: But, I also don't seem to miss the bag when it's out of sight and haven't had a hankering to use it while it's been out of sight, so I make myself move forward with listing it and see what happens.

Two of the bags that had been moved to the closet for departing bags have been photographed to be sold, and I had no hesitations with those. So a small victory there. My Coach leopard print market tote remains in the closet for departing bags, but I cannot bring myself to move it to the official "sell" list. I feel quite in limbo with that one.

And, I also pulled out some bags that have been on "probation" in my mind - ones that I really have thought will be on the "sell" list but that I've been too lazy to actually move to the closet for departing bags. One of them, I successfully managed to photograph to sell. It the Coach prairie print Bowery with star rivets, and I love so many elements of the bag - the gunmetal hardware! The darling floral print! The rocker-chic chain and rexy, feather, and star charms! And the amazing studs and star rivets on the side! It is such a cool little bag, and I received SO many compliments when I used it. BUT, it is small. Smaller than is comfortable for me to use, and I feel like I need to play Tetris with it (which I find super annoying). So, I have twinges about listing this one, but I'm mostly ok-ish with it.

And then the fail - my Coach, leather sequins Dinky. I have really been set on selling it in my mind. It's another small bag (though bigger than the Bowery), and small bags just don't get a ton of use from me. Plus, I have two other leather sequins pieces - the wristlet/clutch and the large Rodarte clutch (that is big enough that it probably fits more than the Dinky). This is one that I have been so set in my head on selling that I've been already kind of not including in my "final" bag count. But I pulled it out of the dustbag, and I couldn't even take the photos. I just love the leather sequins. It's such a cool and unique feature to me. I know it is rarely used, it's not in any way sentimental, and thus, I *should* sell, but instead, I put it bag into its dustbag and back in my closet. So, it appears my collection will actually be growing by at least one because for now, what I just can't let go of what I though I easily could say bye to. :oh:

On the plus side though, echoing the sentiments of the last few posts, this is certainly a lovely "problem" to have. I am fortunate to own these pretty items that I love so much that I can't see to let go of them. And, of course, I am fortunate in much more significant ways than that. The state of things these days really do have me counting my blessings and feeling so very grateful. :heart:
Sounds like more instances of loving the look, not using the bags. Why not sell them and use the money to buy bags with the same look that work for you.
 
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Coming here to confess a bit of a fail. I took photos today of bags that I have to list for sale. I almost faltered with my black, Alexander Wang Rockie w/iridescent hardware. I had put it on my "to sell" list even before I found this thread, and I thought I was fine with it, but when I pulled it out and saw it again, a part of me resisted. I really LOVE the iridescent hardware! But, I managed to take the photos I needed and will move forward with listing it. The aspect of the bag I love is the iridescent hardware, but the duffle shape of the bag isn't one I find the easiest to use. A part of me is still resisting because the iridescent hardware against that matte black leather! :loveeyes: But, I also don't seem to miss the bag when it's out of sight and haven't had a hankering to use it while it's been out of sight, so I make myself move forward with listing it and see what happens.

Two of the bags that had been moved to the closet for departing bags have been photographed to be sold, and I had no hesitations with those. So a small victory there. My Coach leopard print market tote remains in the closet for departing bags, but I cannot bring myself to move it to the official "sell" list. I feel quite in limbo with that one.

And, I also pulled out some bags that have been on "probation" in my mind - ones that I really have thought will be on the "sell" list but that I've been too lazy to actually move to the closet for departing bags. One of them, I successfully managed to photograph to sell. It the Coach prairie print Bowery with star rivets, and I love so many elements of the bag - the gunmetal hardware! The darling floral print! The rocker-chic chain and rexy, feather, and star charms! And the amazing studs and star rivets on the side! It is such a cool little bag, and I received SO many compliments when I used it. BUT, it is small. Smaller than is comfortable for me to use, and I feel like I need to play Tetris with it (which I find super annoying). So, I have twinges about listing this one, but I'm mostly ok-ish with it.

And then the fail - my Coach, leather sequins Dinky. I have really been set on selling it in my mind. It's another small bag (though bigger than the Bowery), and small bags just don't get a ton of use from me. Plus, I have two other leather sequins pieces - the wristlet/clutch and the large Rodarte clutch (that is big enough that it probably fits more than the Dinky). This is one that I have been so set in my head on selling that I've been already kind of not including in my "final" bag count. But I pulled it out of the dustbag, and I couldn't even take the photos. I just love the leather sequins. It's such a cool and unique feature to me. I know it is rarely used, it's not in any way sentimental, and thus, I *should* sell, but instead, I put it bag into its dustbag and back in my closet. So, it appears my collection will actually be growing by at least one because for now, what I just can't let go of what I though I easily could say bye to. :oh:

On the plus side though, echoing the sentiments of the last few posts, this is certainly a lovely "problem" to have. I am fortunate to own these pretty items that I love so much that I can't see to let go of them. And, of course, I am fortunate in much more significant ways than that. The state of things these days really do have me counting my blessings and feeling so very grateful. :heart:
Yes, that is what I keep telling myself re. the Rockie. The part of me that is resisting doesn't want to hear it, lol! But the part of me that is determined to try and downsize and curate a well-loved collection that makes sense is telling myself that the Rockie is not the only bag out there with iridescent hardware!

OMG, the leather sequins just seem to do something to me! My Dinky is in the blue-silver color way, which I love. I don't think the Dinky ever came in the multi-color, which is honestly better for me because I would have then probably ended up with both! The foldover clutch (which, I think is really just the Callie?) did, but I don't think that layout would work well for me. I don't really like interior dividers. I also have the 1941 clutch with the multi-color sequins because I also love the multi-color. I find it too small as well, but I really wanted something with the multi-color, so I kept it. I can squeeze my phone, keys, and card case in it, so I sometimes get use out of it for quick runs out of the house, but not often because in those situations, I'm more likely to stick my phone and keys and card case in my pockets. I have thought about selling it because now I have the large Rodarte clutch with also has multi-colored leather sequins. But the colors are different (the 1941 clutch is more pastel? or silvery? not sure how to describe it...), and the design is different, so I haven't been able to convince myself to sell it.

What do you think would happen if you limited yourselves to using only the bags in question for a period of time....perhaps a solid week? Do you think it would help you let go or might it convince you that you still want to keep it? You know what you like about them, but does what you like outweigh the negatives?
 
Sounds like more instances of loving the look, not using the bags. Why not sell them and use the money to buy bags with the same look that work for you.
This is such a simple and obvious thought, but so true and wise. Thank you for the dose of reality!

What do you think would happen if you limited yourselves to using only the bags in question for a period of time....perhaps a solid week? Do you think it would help you let go or might it convince you that you still want to keep it? You know what you like about them, but does what you like outweigh the negatives?
You know, I used to do this before deciding to sell or not, and I strayed from that a bit in the past few months. I did find it helpful, and I should really get back to doing it!
 
Great thread! As bag collectors we all have to eventually deal with the ones that didn’t work out as planned, even if the decision is just not making a decision about them. We have to accept that our tastes and circumstances change over the years.
It is hard to get rid of bags that you once loved enough to spend a lot of money on. And pulling them out to look them over and take pictures of them always rekindles some of that feeling for me.
But the truth is that if I’m not using them it means that those attractive characteristics aren’t enough to overcome some basic flaw of size or style or whatever. If everything was perfect I’d want to use that bag all the time. and I don’t.
So off they go. It’s hard to get started but once they’re gone they are almost never missed. Just my two cents, and good luck to you all! :smile:
 
Actually, I see our expansion as a sign of success for all of us who are editing any part of our lives. If we finish our bag closets (at least for a period of time) and then stop, we aren’t following our nature to make other areas of our lives fit the way we want them to. I don’t see this as “my thread”. I may have given birth to it, but it “takes a village” to keep it relevant and moving forward. I’m happy to be along for the ride with everyone else.....
I’m actually behind on reading all the posts due to the things that sometimes interrupt life.....
I’ve finally finished my “interior design edit”. I’m pretty pleased, but I know myself all too well to say that I’m ever officially done.

I think my space is an obvious extension of my wardrobe/handbag aesthetic. Everything is edited down to the stainless steel coasters and entry way key holder. The art pieces are by me.
 

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I’ve finally finished my “interior design edit”. I’m pretty pleased, but I know myself all too well to say that I’m ever officially done.

I think my space is an obvious extension of my wardrobe/handbag aesthetic. Everything is edited down to the stainless steel coasters and entry way key holder. The art pieces are by me.
OMG! I absolutely love your space. Every inch is stunning. You’ve achieved the minimalist look I aspire to.
 
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