I'm so sorry for the delay in responding. I decided to take a step back and breath to try to relieve the pressure on myself. Then I got sick - again - 4th time since Thanksgiving - and then DH got the Flu. Like seriously?!?
Thank you for your kind words and insight. I'm finding that I have to minimize in small doses right now. Sometimes one or two things at a time. This is hard because I tend to be an all or nothing type person. I purged the bathroom and accidentally threw away something I needed so maybe slower is better

I'll see something I don't want anymore and I get rid of it right then. DH was looking for a shirt in the dresser the other day. He pulls one out and says "Oh I need to get rid of that" but proceeds to put in back in. I said don't put it back if you don't want it.
I saw this and had to get since it's related to "light". Thought I would share. Designed by a 22 year old gal with downs syndrome and she donates part of the profits to charities. Her site is
www.candidlykind.com
I am NOT affiliated. Just spreading some light...