I just got a veau madame K25! I love it more than my epsom K28! I've always wanted a chevre kelly, and never thought about veau madame before but there are limited offerings in sellier bags.
Clearly I have told you my bias, but here's how I would break it down:
Look -
Epsom is a printed leather/embossed grain. Its grain is slightly bigger than that of veau madame. It also has a slight sheen to it, only noticeable when you are under direct light.
Feel -
Veau madame feels softer! It's like you added some of the feeling of chevre to epsom. It's probably also because of the size of the grain on the leather that makes epsom not feel as nice (to me). (Or maybe not because chevre has an even larger grain and I like the feeling more.)
Weight -
I think Veau madame is lighter! And I'm not just saying this because I'm comparing a K25 to K28
Stiffness-
They're both pretty stiff right now for me. My K25 is new so it's particularly stiff.
Scratches -
I haven't had any problems but my bag is new. Here's another TPF thread for you.
I have a belt in veau Madame. I love how scratch resistant it is and still looks very refined. (I can’t find any adjectives to describe my lovely belt!)
forum.purseblog.com
Covetousness/Rarity -
I don't think either are that rare since they're making a lot of new bags out of Veau Madame now. Truth be told I haven't personally seen a lot of these (even in accessories) but that's what it seems like online. People tend to know mostly about togo/epsom so they will forever be the most popular I think. I do think there is some snootiness around disliking epsom as well, but I have no problem with epsom. Just pleasantly surprised how much I liked this leather.
Here are some pictures of my bags for comparison! The rose azalee is epsom and the rouge piment is veau madame.
It comes down to personal preference! Hope I could make your choice easier! But both sound like gorgeous bags and so you can't go wrong
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Whoops gotta peel my stickers off.