Raven,
I am sorry to read you are going through this friend.
This is one of the reasons I stopped selling on Bay. I still buy, but mainly shoes. My feedback is about 2000.
My father tells me all the time that I have too much stuff and my free source doesn't help my habit. Yet, the thing with clothing like my mom used to say is that styles change so frequently.
I got frustrated with the bay mandating that sellers accept refunds for any reason. I also started finding stuff I wanted to keep and felt that the stuff that I was finding at my sources; I wouldn't probably see again for the same price.
I do have a lot of stuff, I would rather donate it or throw it in the dump then tale the abuse that the bay gives it's sellers.