Religious patriarchy?
“Yes. But that really didn’t hit me until we were shooting. It was the day of the presidential election. I really don’t want to talk about politics at all, no desire to. But it was the morning of the election and I was so excited, because there we were making this really feminist film, and then, you know…”
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“It was disheartening,” says Mara. “I remember we were on set that day and it was freezing cold and everyone was in disbelief… And maybe a few weeks before, something came out from the Catholic Church that women were never going to be allowed to be priests. Something like that. I was thinking, ‘Really?’ It was just amazing to me. I realised what a bubble I live in.”
Yet Mara isn’t so deep in the bubble that she doesn’t even know it’s there, as is so often the case with the successful, rich or famous. She seems suffused with intelligence and sensitivity, which is all the more delightful as she doesn’t appear to be aware of this, let alone have any interest in advertising it. Mara isn’t cerebral. She says that she doesn’t read books very often: reading scripts makes it seem too much like work. She didn’t read any Patricia Highsmith while filming Carol, or find out anything about this fascinating American writer, whose compelling books – such as Strangers on a Train, The Talented Mr Ripley, The American Friend – have been adapted into such terrific films.
Mara didn’t get on with school, graduating early to finish her education with a bohemian set-up called The Travelling School. It was during those travels that she became involved with orphan children in Kibera, a slum district in Nairobi, Kenya. She founded a charity, Faces of Kibera, still does a lot of fund-raising and is president of the local foundation that runs the charity. Psychology is the only subject she’s studied that has really captivated her. She’s interested in humans, she says. That feeling for people, their vulnerability and their suffering, is what draws her to the roles she plays – Una being a perfect example.
Blackbird, Harrower’s play on which Una is based, drew inspiration from the story of Toby Studebaker, the former Marine who abducted a 12-year-old from Manchester that he’d groomed on the Internet, then took to mainland Europe and committed multiple statutory rapes against her. Studebaker was imprisoned in Britain for almost five years and again in America for the same crimes (and also for possession of child pornography) for ten more years. So 15 years, all in all.
But this was only Harrower’s starting point. In Blackbird, the child is 12 but the abductor, Ray, isn’t a former Marine, nor is he American, and his attempt to take the child out of Britain fails. There is no Internet grooming and no child pornography. It’s a very different story.
Ray does, however, have intercourse with Una – in a bed and breakfast in Dover, as the two try to abscond to Europe. He does go to prison. But by the time Harrower’s story starts, 15 years have passed since the abduction and an adult Una confronts a 50-year-old Ray, who is married, working as a manager in a warehouse and going by the name of Peter Trevelyan. In the film, which Harrower adapted from his play, Una is 13. It’s the psychological effect on the child, and what it has made her as an adult, that is the focus of the story.
It’s perfectly clear from the start who is the victim and who is the predator, and that all these years later Una is still living with the trauma of an awful, radically exploitative crime. When we first meet her, she’s having a knee trembler in a nightclub with a stranger, before going home to her mother’s house. She is psychologically stuck, unable to move on with her life, and can only briefly forget her past through sex. She is traumatised by an illegal and abusive relationship. It’s simple enough to comprehend. Which is why I’m stopped in my tracks when Mara starts explaining why she was attracted to the part.
“I was just so drawn to the character, Una, and obviously how complex it all was and how it made me feel. I was just blown away. I couldn’t believe how conflicted I felt. There was a part of me that wanted them to be together."
You want her to have a happy ending?
“Yes, not necessarily a happy ending, but I guess the romantic in me was like… I think a lot of people feel that way when they see it; they feel conflicted. They want them to be together but they know that’s wrong. I felt the same way that Una does. Part of her wants it to be this romantic thing, and another part of her thinks, ‘Wait, there’s something about this that’s unfair…’ So I felt very conflicted when I saw it. And I thought that was really interesting. Normally these things are so black and white.”
I suggest to Mara that it was pretty black and white, and that adult people shouldn’t ever start sexual relationships with minors. She isn’t quite having it.
“I think that Una has spent her entire life since the day that they lost each other being told that, so she has to believe it. But I think there’s always been a part of her that isn’t sure, that feels, ‘No, this was different, this was love.’ So that’s why she goes back there. To see. I think it’s been hammered in her head so much that it wasn’t what she thought it was, but she isn’t sure.”
It should probably be made clear that Mara doesn’t mean “they lost each other” in a romantic sense. The two literally lose each other in Dover, which is what leads to Ray’s arrest. Una never sees Ray again until the moment she tracks him down to his workplace, after seeing a photograph of him in a trade magazine. She gives evidence at his trial via video link.
Yet, while it’s evident that Una at 28 is a person who has been hugely damaged by her three-month “affair” with Ray and its aftermath, there’s a creepy undertow to the narrative that implies that the legal and social furore was perhaps more damaging than the crime committed against her. Mara’s right. There’s a suggestion that Una might have fared better, psychologically, if she’d been allowed to believe that the affair had been legitimate.
In a series of confirmations and moments of connection we learn that Ray considered 13-year-old Una to be “wise beyond her years” and eager to be adult. Ray, in turn, is clearly emotionally immature and narcissistic. He wants Una to think well of him, even as he tries to stop her from wrecking the new life he complains it’s been so hard for him to build. Ray goes to great lengths to argue that he was not and is not a paedophile (some would argue in strict correctness that no relationship with a post-pubescent child of any age is paedophilia) and that he was in love with Una, and only her. Una means “the only one”.
Mara is not really that concerned about whether Ray is telling the truth or being manipulative, telling Una what she needs to hear so that he can get rid of her – which he is clearly desperate to do. For Mara, it’s all about her character getting what she needs. I ask her if she thinks that Una is sure about what happened between her and Ray by the end of the film. Does she convince herself that this man didn’t mean her any harm, despite the harm that he did?
“I don’t know if she’s certain. I think she’s certain that she can walk away from it and that she’s got some sort of closure. But I don’t know. Is there ever a time in life where you’re sure about something? There’s always doubt. At least when it comes to something as complex as that. Do you ever really know what someone else is feeling?”
But there could have been much more certainty in the story. What if Una had found out that there had been other girls? She certainly discovers that Ray is capable of lying in a convincing way, because she catches him out in a number of self-preserving lies as the film goes on. Ray tells her, for example, that he and his wife have no children. It turns out, however, that there’s a step-daughter, Amy, around Una’s age at the time of the abuse. Mara refers to the scene when Una and Amy meet, at a party at Ray’s house that she’s gatecrashed.
“You know what? I just feel like in that bedroom in one of the last scenes, where the little girl walks in and she looks at her, it’s almost like she’s looking at herself, and the little girl asks, ‘What’s your name?’ And you’ve never heard her name the entire movie, and she says it and it’s almost as if… I feel like there’s this moment of, ‘Oh my God. I’m an entire person, this is just one part of me, it doesn’t define me.’ And she’s let it define her entire life, and I feel like there’s a moment in that bedroom where she realises that it doesn’t have to. And so there’s no closure in that but there’s at least some sort of hope for a different kind of life and different kind of future.”
This is profoundly true. Una saves herself by confronting her past, even though Ray remains as selfish and unreliable as he has clearly always been. It’s not true in detail though. Una’s name is used several times during the film. This, however, is the only time that she uses her name herself, although she does complain to Ray that he had the chance for a new start and a new name while she didn’t. But in the emotional significance of the scene, I think Mara is right. The scene suggests that Una recognises herself, realises that she’s tough as well as vulnerable and that she can survive. She takes back control of herself from Ray. Which, perhaps, is the best possible outcome for Una.
It may have been the combination of toughness and vulnerability that attracted Mara to the role. I have a feeling that she might have made herself quite vulnerable by starring in a film with such controversial subject matter, and that toughness will see her through any anger or criticism.