Do you need aCabat?
There is a big temptation to think that a Cabat completes one's BV collection. I say that only applies if you actually like the bag and if it suits your life style.
You're acquiring quite a collection quickly. But what I see you gravitating towards is the pillow and baseball hobo. There's an ease to what you gravitate to and the Cabat shares that. But style wise, it's perhaps a bit less modern. And that may not align with you. Do you use your Chanel tote a ton?
My experience was this: I liked the bag but every time I tried one on, it didn't look right. So I just accepted that I was not a Cabat girl. It was much later, I realized color had a ton to do with it. and I found one I really liked. Also, the timing was better. I was a bit older, traveling less, and the function and style aligned with he look I had.
I also want to pint out that I feel like I should have a Knot. IVe had two actually. But I am not a Knot girl! As much I think they are elegant and cool, they just don't work with my lifestyle. So I admire from afar.
thanks a lot, Grietje

you are targeting exact points of my curiosity and concerns
Yes, it's temptation indeed
and yes, i do like it a lot. But liking doesn't necessarily mean it's gonna work for me
hobos work best for me, i love all about them!
Pillows are my compromise (i tried them many times, never got them) but then i had a problem with my neck and shoulder and i had to revise my carry-the-whole-house-along approach, and now i force myself to carry bare minimum on light/weekend errands, besides, i have them in those loud colours which are good in small pieces (for me at least).
I do like ease.
I used to use my CC tote a lot more earlier, but it gets too heavy when i drop everything in it, because it easily accommodates all and a bit more, so, keeping in mind my shoulder issue i don't use it too often now.
I tend to agree with you on timing, maybe it's just not right moment.... yet...
but it could be a combo thing... i am crazy in love with my memory knot, but absolutely cool-minded with any other option.
Maybe if i see THAT VERY ONE AND ONLY piece that will make my heart jump, i will not doubt and question myself?...
Thanks a lot for all correct questions and very wise ideas, really appreciate it
